How To Be Popular As An Introvert

24 giu 2019
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Keanu Reeves has become the internet’s crush, whether he knows it or not. Normally on the channel, we cover extroverted celebrities, who charm in larger, obvious ways. What’s amazing about Keanu (aside from the fact that he’s 54 and looks 34) is that he is massively popular in spite of his reclusive and more introverted nature.
So in this video, we are going to explore why Keanu is so popular, and what you can learn to exude incredible charisma as an introvert.

0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others.
2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence.
3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures.
5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type.
7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously.
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  • Well, in the case of Olivia Spencer... Keanu Might be a genuinely god damn good person. Or He might be a very creepy stalker...

    Wiktor ZakrzewskiWiktor Zakrzewski2 ore fa
  • I don’t look people in the eye. I do my own thing mostly. Talking to em and listening. Prolonged eye contact makes me uncomfortable.

    Brian GrayBrian Gray11 ore fa
  • Being tall, handsome, wealthy and famous also helps.

    harrison wintergreenharrison wintergreen13 ore fa
  • started this video wanting to learn how to be popular, by the end I just want to be a better person

    mobeymobey14 ore fa
  • Don’t give me false hope

    Piano WeebPiano Weeb15 ore fa
  • Would definitely love to see that neuro linguistic programming video I tend to memorize things frequently by feeling also which I struggle to translate into words

    Shirley WhirleyShirley WhirleyGiorno fa
  • This is what happens when you start watching positive and genuinely helpful content, you end up donating 30$ to charity 😂

    Luke NLuke NGiorno fa
  • Introverted leaders ftw!!!

    Joel RoyJoel RoyGiorno fa
  • Introverts don't like to be popular

    xyz xyzxyz xyzGiorno fa
    • Just thinking this goes against being an introvert hahaha But i sorta understand that there are different ways of being popular while still having a lot of privacy which introverts value the most We need that alone time

      BiscufferBiscufferGiorno fa
  • 9:40 if you want to become more compassionate you have to start from a place that isn't a selfish desire to be more liked by people

    Tinfoilhatnutcase OneTinfoilhatnutcase OneGiorno fa
  • He’s simply breathtaking

    Mitchell JenkinsMitchell Jenkins2 giorni fa
  • Anyone who has seen fans screaming about a suicidal-looking Harrison Ford knows that celebrities get a free pass on personality. The black pill is a pathway to many thoughts, *some* consider to be _too cynical_

    Why Do I Even Look At The CommentsWhy Do I Even Look At The Comments2 giorni fa
  • How to be popular as an introvert Easy, Be Attractive.

    Ronald VentolinaRonald Ventolina3 giorni fa
    • I know right? I just want to be left alone and enjoy life one day at a time but people are so intrigue with us. It’s quite bizarre to me.

      Chatsworth Osborne, Jr.Chatsworth Osborne, Jr.2 giorni fa
  • Christin command: First off you need to be incredibly good looking, famous and rich. Everyone watching this:👁️👄👁️

    KabaneKabane3 giorni fa
  • AWWWWW bless him

    N LN L3 giorni fa
  • Honsetly tho, it helps to be a massively popular movie Hollywood actor with a large portfolio. A mail man could have the same looks & outward personality as Keanu, & he might get a few more Facebook followers. The charisma described in this video is an Americana elite grade charisma, not an everyday person charisma. If Average Joe the janitor said "I am no here without such talented artists and people" to his associates he might actually loose Facebook friends.

    KlaymonkeyKlaymonkey3 giorni fa
  • I couldn't look at Colbert either. It's hard to look at people you can't respect.

    Geek WillowGeek Willow3 giorni fa
  • Keanu, McConaughey and RDJ need to be protected at all costs

    Jacob I.Jacob I.3 giorni fa
  • I definitely agree with the generosity part, I'm not really good at the first points, it all depends on how I feel that day, and one day I'm super sociable and another one don't talk to anyone but generosity always makes it way better. When you just do something good or give something to someone, it's an incredible feeling inside and I guess people around you just want some kindness and someone being generous to them. It's always a win win. Great video

    tania mudratania mudra4 giorni fa
  • カッコイイ❤️私は貴方に惚れました😊❤️恋の病です🤭❤️ Love you Keanu ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    tommy girltommy girl4 giorni fa
  • He is in his body.

    ripped upripped up4 giorni fa
  • he talks like he is on drugs all the time and i fknin love that

    Victor ȘtirbuVictor Știrbu4 giorni fa
  • you are fake

    opoto yemopoto yem4 giorni fa
  • I am naturally like that- why am I not popular?

    ZapTunoZapTuno5 giorni fa
  • I love you Keanu ❤️ pra sempre ❤️

    tommy girltommy girl5 giorni fa
  • キアヌ大好き😊私と結婚して🤭❤️

    tommy girltommy girl5 giorni fa
  • 好き😊❤️

    tommy girltommy girl5 giorni fa
  • ずっこい好きです😊❤️

    tommy girltommy girl5 giorni fa
  • I love you Keanu ❤️

    tommy girltommy girl5 giorni fa
  • i am introvert , my Q is , why would an introvert ever wanna be famous?

    LìGHT /LìGHT /5 giorni fa
  • かっこいい❤️

    tommy girltommy girl5 giorni fa
  • I want to stay with you ❤️ love you Keanu ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    tommy girltommy girl5 giorni fa
  • The rarest of spergs: The Charismatic Sperg.

    Johnny ClancyJohnny Clancy5 giorni fa

    Security SupremeSecurity Supreme5 giorni fa
  • Life is easy if you’re genuine . . .😉

    Colin Jay MulhernColin Jay Mulhern5 giorni fa
  • Uhh in a nutshell..Relax

    The Davis DimensionThe Davis Dimension5 giorni fa
  • This is a great video with an unexpected focus on virtues and true human qualities! I appreciate it!

    Sebastian SchimpfSebastian Schimpf6 giorni fa
  • Cool 😎

    Nagesh SonawaneNagesh Sonawane6 giorni fa
  • How to be popular as an introvert: 1. Be really good looking 2. Be very rich 3. Be a famous movie star.

    UtubeskreenameUtubeskreename6 giorni fa
  • 5:44, marked it fo my slelf, dont bother me

    Karol KrawczykKarol Krawczyk6 giorni fa
  • VAK : Visual Audial Kinestetik

    Mardiana PutraMardiana Putra7 giorni fa
  • the fact that he's a multi millionaire wouldn't have anything to do with women being attracted to him, would it?

    Un Sinn KimUn Sinn Kim7 giorni fa
  • Am I Keanu Reeves?

    ChrisChris7 giorni fa
  • I love this man

    Makishi MirianMakishi Mirian7 giorni fa
  • Did we get a more in-depth video on NLP?

    Grace HilerGrace Hiler7 giorni fa
  • clean water has more value than gold it makes people grow food..............well live!! as far as Keanu goes the guy is unique he has all the qualities of a "real"human being when i talk or have been ask a question i look down too and think twice analyze what i am going to say................that's very important and don't think he is the center of the world there is always people who would teach you something you didn't know even a poor homeless person who had a bad luck in life/ Good on you Keanu beautiful inside and outside

    Melanie.LMelanie.L7 giorni fa
  • I'd love a video on identifying modality!

    Eva LizEva Liz8 giorni fa
  • Red book of speech like a king!

    Head GodHead God8 giorni fa
  • I believe I am an introvert. Hopefully this channel will give me enough advice, to while being myself an introvert, I can still hopefully come across as a personable, caring individual that, close friends, and family know I trully am. Thank you!!!

    Kenneth McCormickKenneth McCormick8 giorni fa
  • Being appreciative leads to the person being even more successful. Praise not only elevate others, it simultaneously elevates your personality more appealing to the people around you.

    Kenneth McCormickKenneth McCormick8 giorni fa
  • You don't need to look at people to talk to them. I do it a lot, but it's usually when my mind is on overdrive. Gets into that mindset.

    Dexter GabaDexter Gaba8 giorni fa
  • 2nd video I have watched and I really enjoyed so.... I had to sub. Your content is 👍

    MSTZ Mike B & Stevie cMSTZ Mike B & Stevie c8 giorni fa
  • If you accept that you are an introvert and stop pretending not to be, then you can be comfortable and confident in your own skin!

    Goldie & MikeGoldie & Mike8 giorni fa
  • I'm an introvert but once I peed in public and it felt awesome.

    The ExecuterThe Executer9 giorni fa
  • I just realized that i'm very similar to keanu reeves with how i act and talk. like especially the kinesthetic thing. I had no idea that that was even a thing but that is how i am all the time. literally just so much of his characteristics and ways of talking are very similar to mine. this actually makes me feel so much better about myself. i have always thought that i'm boring and annoying to be around and that might be true, like i'm not very witty or good at talking to people but i still have many good traits. like i'm always putting others before myself and always make time for people. thanks for this video and for making me realize things about myself.

    KaitastrophicKaitastrophic9 giorni fa
  • I want to see you 💖💖💖💖💖

    tommy girltommy girl9 giorni fa
  • easy to give when you got everything

    KadenKaden9 giorni fa
  • You are my type 💕💕💕

    tommy girltommy girl9 giorni fa
  • You are my everything 💖💖💖💖 love you 💖

    tommy girltommy girl9 giorni fa
  • In my experience, introverts avoid eye contact because it makes it easier to focus on what we're talking about. So, if we're getting into a subject that requires thinking on the spot (something we aren't usually good at -- we like to think things through before speaking), we avoid contact. Exchanges that don't require much thought, like smiling, nodding, listening, or complimenting someone doesn't require the introvert to look away. In other words, looking away from someone is the introvert taking focus from the exterior environment and putting it into the interior environment of their mind.

    chapachuuchapachuu9 giorni fa
  • Keannu is charismatic as an introvert because he is physically attractive and he is successful and EVERYONE knows it. THATS IT! Don't make it complicated.

    The Devils AdvocateThe Devils Advocate9 giorni fa
  • Dude was so gorgeous in the Matrix. He should go back to shorter hair IMO. But he's also a genuinely cool dude and this video was very interesting.

    stev6963stev69639 giorni fa
  • i spent my high school days as an introvert avoiding people only having a handful of friends, now i graduated and see how hard it is for me to communicate with starngers

    UsuguraiUsugurai9 giorni fa
  • Thanks for this video, it has helped me to understand certain things about thoughts and not trying to force a change to fit to standards provided by an audience of peers. More so I love the donation, so kind of you! I hope to support your channel in future endeavors.

    Moax KeMoax Ke10 giorni fa
  • I'm not socially awkward, but I'm quiet and it makes me feel somewhat left out and not fully understanding how to effectively interact with higher energy types. This has taught me a little about myself I think.

    Elijah MontgomeryElijah Montgomery10 giorni fa
    • Just make sure to grab one on ones with the high energy types and draw them into you. It throws them off equally as much as their style throws you off

      Kevin wKevin w6 giorni fa
  • fook eye contact

    william tuckerwilliam tucker10 giorni fa
  • If Keanu's personality was the same, but he was only average looking and not well off financially, he wouldn't be as well liked. He is as well liked as he is BECAUSE he's famous. If you aren't well off and/or good-looking, at best you will be seen as a loner and at worst you will be feared as a creep.

    Meanie PaniniMeanie Panini10 giorni fa
  • I want to see you 💖 💖💖💖💖

    tommy girltommy girl10 giorni fa
  • its easy to say just look directly in the eyes introverts will understand

    4173417310 giorni fa
  • Plot twist: Keanu Reeves is an extrovert

    Moin KhanMoin Khan10 giorni fa
  • Trying to be like Keanu Reeves is an exercise in futility, because you can't grow generosity within you. Sure, you can copy some of the things he does, but in the end, you actually have to *like* doing those. He's just a genuinely good guy, who doesn't have to try to appear generous. ... Also, why the heck do I look older than Keanu Reeves? He's *18* years older than me!!!

    Krishanu BanerjeeKrishanu Banerjee10 giorni fa
    • It's your weight. I can tell by your face. If you drop 20 pounds your face will thin out and you will crush him in appearances

      Kevin wKevin w6 giorni fa
  • I wanna be more like him when I'm older

    Jermane AnyohaJermane Anyoha11 giorni fa
  • As an introvert, my resolution is to be more assertive.. only if that's okay with everyone

    Paula StonePaula Stone11 giorni fa
  • How to be popular being introvert: Step one: Be keanu Reeves.

    Carlos JavierCarlos Javier12 giorni fa
  • You never die... you live on in the hearts of those who love you. I do talk to them now then...

    Danny MeskeDanny Meske12 giorni fa
  • A high level communicator can identify the style of people around them. Haha I literally today found out my style and suddenly my entire social life makes sense.

    Alex TalbotAlex Talbot13 giorni fa
  • He's fun to watch because he's so dang handsome.

    sevenirisessevenirises14 giorni fa
  • He sure is all you underlined and more than just that but let's be honest, how many of us introverts can not give a f**k like he does about it? Personally my being introvert keeps me away from tons of opportunities, be it business, friendship, relationships... sure, mine is more about "not being that confident" (not really Mr Reeves but not either the Notre Dame hunchback), I'd say that in a position like his it's easier to be cooler 😉

    Giovanni ApreaGiovanni Aprea14 giorni fa
  • 0:12 Keanu Reeves looks amazingly young because he's half Asian. Mystery solved!

    Life PowerLife Power15 giorni fa
  • Charisma: *introduces us to NLP* Me: *immediately has PTSD flashbacks on natural language processing*

    twinblade02twinblade0215 giorni fa
  • Be better then yesterday! I'm proud of you. Crush your goals and be the person you want to be! You are doing great!

    Personal GrowthPersonal Growth15 giorni fa
  • Step 1: Be rich, famous, and really attractive.

    Spark MakerSpark Maker15 giorni fa
  • When introverts get comfortable, we often get called extroverts

    Alvin HuynhAlvin Huynh16 giorni fa
  • You don't need to be popular. Because you're the protagonist of your life

    A Guy Who's Always Late In SchoolA Guy Who's Always Late In School16 giorni fa
  • being popular feels good, but doesn't matter to me.

    srhendersonsrhenderson17 giorni fa
  • Keanu is the only person on this planet that I would truly love to meet. In reality that will never happen, but it's a nice thought just the same 🙂

    PsychoHippyPsychoHippy17 giorni fa
  • やっぱり恋の病🤭💖

    tommy girltommy girl17 giorni fa
  • Introverts have to find people to talk to first.

    Stephen SchultzStephen Schultz17 giorni fa
  • look ffor aphantasia

    skatetechdeckskatetechdeck18 giorni fa
  • No, he looks 54....!!

    panther105panther10518 giorni fa
  • i am glad to have found this channel however late i am.

    C AC A18 giorni fa
  • Keaanu reaaves is an introvert who comes across as an extrovert

    Sam DoctorSam Doctor18 giorni fa
  • Start by being tall?..

    MrozMroz19 giorni fa
  • I did hand gestures during my presentation and the front was emmulating. Me

    Introverts WorldIntroverts World19 giorni fa
  • Very nice on the charity 🙏🏼

    Helen Lee SabatiniHelen Lee Sabatini19 giorni fa
  • He also fits in the Sigma male group.

    Vegan Rican1Vegan Rican119 giorni fa
  • Gah! This video is perfect on so many levels. There are some life lessons in here, especially towards the end when Keanu's values or character are discussed.

    The High Vibration StationThe High Vibration Station20 giorni fa
  • Woohoo, I already have nearly all of this in the bag. Yay.

    Lord ClownLord Clown20 giorni fa
  • So if we just live liked Jesus lived we don't gotta worry about anything else. Literally.

    Kalysta OrtizKalysta Ortiz21 giorno fa
  • Keanu is in touch with the world around him. That contact keeps him compassionate in daily life. Cyberspace is not compassionate it is centered on self.

    chicosredheadchicosredhead21 giorno fa