6 Signs Someone Is Thinking Of You

3 ago 2020
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Fans love Sherlock Holmes for his ability to notice things that most people ignore. While Sherlock is a fictional character, there are ways you can learn to read people in real life to better understand what they’re thinking and feeling without them saying a word. No individual read will be foolproof, but together they can start to paint a picture for you.

0:00 - Intro.
0:56 - #1: Reading other people's interest.
1:45 - #2: Take note of the direction someone's feet are pointing.
3:12 - #3: Read their emotions.
3:49 - #4: Look for micro expressions on their face.
5:54 - #5: Their breathing shifts from their belly to their chest.
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  • In regards to the eye contact and reading interests - no, it's not true all of the time. Autistic people are challenged on maintaining eye contact, so it's not something you can say 100% accurate.

    Marc Vincent KlitgaardMarc Vincent KlitgaardGiorno fa
  • I don't think that RDJ Interviewer didn't or couldn't read the signs. I think he could and he did. He was fully aware of what he's doing and he pushed on any way.

    jiahao linjiahao lin15 giorni fa
  • Mike warner is the ugliest guy in the world.

    Albert MayAlbert May22 giorni fa
  • Best way to understand someone body language is thinking how would you react if you were in the same situation ie: first date and you get hugged by your date the moment you walk in.

    YoungYoung23 giorni fa
  • The part about Tom Hardy and Leo was nice

    Abhinav AnandAbhinav Anand25 giorni fa
  • Could you teach us how to write anyone's body language?

    George HamiltonGeorge Hamilton28 giorni fa
  • Sherlock Holmes is my favorite and inspiration when I have a conversation on anyone. In fact I had used the point you given and they shock every word I said. Thanks for the video guide to improve my skills and I love it.

    Nicoles TimothyNicoles TimothyMese fa
  • Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming even though everyone around you hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

    Rocking RondaRocking RondaMese fa
  • This is where 90% of my social anxiety comes from. Being afraid you're reading things that aren't there or you're reading them wrongly.

    Poly LikerPoly LikerMese fa
  • I love the book too by Dale carnigie

  • Thank you!!

    Jesse MitchemJesse MitchemMese fa
  • even a kid could tell how robert was trying to hide the urge to punch the interviewer in the face

    MayMay2 mesi fa
  • Please make part 2 on this please it helps helps me a lot

    the rockthe rock2 mesi fa
  • Where is the old presenter? The new one is ok. But the other guy was way better.

    Jay KingsunJay Kingsun2 mesi fa
  • I’m pretty sure the interviewer was purposely trying to get something out of rejection, not just caught up in his words

    Terrell LoeppkyTerrell Loeppky2 mesi fa
  • Great video for Reading people. First become an expert at reading yourself.

    ABAB2 mesi fa
  • Ooo I was getting so stoked on applying these to my own bodies observations, cheers for suggesting that mind control is best first and foremost applied to ones self Jocko willink wisdom

    Ras_KrysTafariRas_KrysTafari2 mesi fa
  • "not every hard swallow is a sign of dishonesty"...lol.....yup some point to loneliness

    अंशुमान अवस्थीअंशुमान अवस्थी2 mesi fa
  • Fun fact about How to Win Friends and Influence People: Charles Manson was obsessed with the book and its the principles within it that he used in order to manipulate people into joining his 'family', sleeping with him or anyone he told his girls to sleep with and killing for him. So yeah its definitely effective lol

    FuriousP96FuriousP963 mesi fa
  • Not every hard swallow is a sign of dishonesty. Yeah, my date was not dishonest when she did that

    Jørgen RamdahlJørgen Ramdahl3 mesi fa
  • I always found Sherlock ridiculous. The way he jumps to conclusions based on observations that could have dozens of other explanations... No idea why people eat it all up and want to be like that.

    rautermannrautermann3 mesi fa
  • Lemme see ur toes

    nate navarretenate navarrete3 mesi fa
  • remember boys , this is just a movie , a very good observer doesnt tell anyone they are good at it.

  • I'm am waiting for you to do a breakdown of Raymond Reddington of blacklist. Great content tho

    Paa FiiPaa Fii3 mesi fa
  • YEEES!! This book is amazing! It change my life, really!

    Racher WichardsonRacher Wichardson3 mesi fa
  • Can anyone tell me who the actress is at 7.04? She looks so familiar and it's annoying me!

    Gecko TimeGecko Time3 mesi fa
  • Excellent advice. I also use this channel to pick Netflix shows I can watch that will teach me inter personal skills while being entertaining at the same time.

    Johann KokJohann Kok3 mesi fa
  • The point on"yourself" ❤️

    meta psychoticmeta psychotic3 mesi fa
  • people emit signals day in and out!

    meta psychoticmeta psychotic3 mesi fa
  • Now i know how to read someones interest... I now know that there are 5 girls who have a crush on me...

    Bladezy_WadezyBladezy_Wadezy3 mesi fa
  • RDJ interview clips made me angry.

    Yogesh NagarajYogesh Nagaraj3 mesi fa
  • Umm... Sherlock Is not fictional Sir

    Blaine CarringtonBlaine Carrington3 mesi fa
  • The book that is recomended at the end is GOLD

    sheepgray08sheepgray083 mesi fa
  • Why is it important to read someone?

    Mad havMad hav3 mesi fa

  • Suggestion, start doing vids about enhancing your video conferencing presence (Zoom, Teams, Etc). The skillset (and tech) feel a little different.

    RecklessFablesRecklessFables3 mesi fa
  • For the love of god please do steve lacy

    Big DogBig Dog3 mesi fa
  • Next do Dakota Johnson. I love watching her interview videos, she’s so authentic and charming.

    ba55letmysoulflyba55letmysoulfly3 mesi fa
  • I am not sure how to implement what I have learned in this video.

    Therese MillerTherese Miller3 mesi fa
  • Watch the Paul Walker documentary and make a video about him

    Natly PopNatly Pop3 mesi fa
  • More videos like this about Sherlock, please

    Jorge MedinaJorge Medina3 mesi fa
  • Do Annalise Keating from HTGAWM please

    Reya DrawsReya Draws3 mesi fa
  • What's the name of the movie or show at 2:16?

    Andrew PearsonAndrew Pearson3 mesi fa
  • Plz do Damon Salvatore

    Ilyas AbdulIlyas Abdul3 mesi fa
  • What's the sixth tip? I feel almost like the title is a typo, as five tips are listed in the description and five tips are timestamped in the video.

    Evan McCormickEvan McCormick3 mesi fa
  • Am I the only one who watches these videos and actually does the movements unintentionally even when you're telling the truth?

    Jakayla RobinsonJakayla Robinson3 mesi fa
  • That's Dr strange

    Jp JpJp Jp3 mesi fa
  • So I'd been wondering why people never talk to me. Apparently I've been unknowingly broadcasting disinterest or discomfort constantly no matter how comfy or interested I am.

    Buffy KerestanBuffy Kerestan3 mesi fa
  • Analyze Marilyn Manson.

    Steve IgiSteve Igi3 mesi fa
  • You made it 4 years ago too

    Keshav GuptaKeshav Gupta3 mesi fa
  • Geez man stop fooling these kids

    Phenomenal DouchebagPhenomenal Douchebag3 mesi fa
  • Mark cuban

    silver surfersilver surfer3 mesi fa
  • Can you do a synopsis on Stiles Stilinski?

    Sofia GSofia G3 mesi fa
  • Hey, please make a video for the punisher of jon bernthal, we all can learn more about being fearless

    Abner BrionesAbner Briones3 mesi fa

    Yelit TürkerYelit Türker3 mesi fa
  • Since watching videos like these i focus more on feet and miro expresions even in myself

    Pierre Du ToitPierre Du Toit3 mesi fa
  • Can you do a video on Raymond Redington's from the series 'the blacklist' ?

    Ayoub LhAyoub Lh3 mesi fa
  • Requesting a breakdown of Hank Moody from Californication please!!

    kpolydorekpolydore3 mesi fa
  • Do a breakdown on how Ted Kennedy was so charismatic

    Joey LauriaJoey Lauria3 mesi fa
  • I lost it when he referenced The Big Lebowski.

    Max HessMax Hess3 mesi fa
    • Why did you lose it?

      知識napoleon知識napoleon2 mesi fa
  • 6:45 hey, in your other video, you made it seem like the interviewer did that on pupose. Why change your perspective now?

    Morch RelMorch Rel3 mesi fa
  • The Tom Hardy example is meh.. I'm a bit fidgety, and if I have an object like a pen or something in my hands.. I'll glance at it when I'm thinking or processing what's going on. It can mean I'm distracted as well, but it's not a guarantee.

    ShareXPShareXP3 mesi fa
  • I noticed the part of microexpressions, and I was wondering if you could make a video about microexpressions? There is a series called Lie To Me which is all about it, and also teaches people about it I figured it would be a great thing to make a video about

    NikoNiko3 mesi fa
  • Many points are from Joe Navarro's book I like this video as it's a quick revision

    Saurav SenSaurav Sen3 mesi fa
  • You become kinda fake after learning so much

    Kro TvKro Tv3 mesi fa
  • Sherlock holmes 😍😍😍😍😍

    Avengers ##### #####Avengers ##### #####3 mesi fa
  • Great job.

    Karan MadanKaran Madan3 mesi fa
  • Where I can watch the season of sherlock holmes because i live in india and I don't want to pay in netflix so can anybody recommend me where i can watch the whole season

    Jhon WickJhon Wick3 mesi fa
  • Hell yeahhhh i asked for it along time ago mann i love sherlock plus Benedict cumberbatch

    JO2 juiceeJO2 juicee3 mesi fa
  • Running errands and doing chores?! Some American expressions sound so old fashioned !

    plica06plica063 mesi fa
  • No one can read me. I can't even read me. My actions are as surprising to me as they are to you .

    Jimbomatic5000Jimbomatic50003 mesi fa
  • Do one on Rihanna pleeeaaaseeee!!

    Georgiana PetuGeorgiana Petu3 mesi fa
  • Sherlock Holmes is a JoJo character

    Sword SlingerSword Slinger3 mesi fa
  • To the person who is reading this: You’re amazing and beautiful, stay safe and I hope your dreams come true one day! 🌈 My dream is to reach 100 subs. I’ve been struggling to get there.

    Alehabarr GamingAlehabarr Gaming3 mesi fa
  • 💙 Non-cannon Molly. ☺️

    Lindsey RoseLindsey Rose3 mesi fa
    • Is it just me or is the RDJ interview too uncomfortable to watch? 🙈

      Lindsey RoseLindsey Rose3 mesi fa
  • The intonation in their voice is also very important. Do you realize when a girl say Hiiii in a high pitched voice; then she is more interested in the guy. Or even when someone makes a joke. The heaviness in their voice highlights the seriousness behind the joke. Usually they wanted to say something serious but due to the situation they had to say it as a joke but unconsciously the heaviness in their voice as they say the joke betrays their intentions

    Coach TCoach T3 mesi fa
  • Poor Robert Downey Jr! He's an open book for each one of us who has seen this video. 😆😂

    UroshmanUroshman3 mesi fa
  • You can read people through their eyes

    Idil LarsenIdil Larsen3 mesi fa
  • I was literally reading the book "How to win friends and influence people" and i saw this Coincidence?

    Mr. DarkerMr. Darker3 mesi fa
  • Wow! Very good episode 🔥 !

    Paweł DawczakPaweł Dawczak3 mesi fa
  • The show Lie to Me is a great show on micro expressions

    Jack AndersonJack Anderson3 mesi fa
  • Clearly that interviewer ambushed RDJ with topics he was told not to bring up and in a perfect world would have been in for a righteous arse-kicking. In fact, I think I've seen this same guy pull gotcha crap on someone else.

    James DavenportJames Davenport3 mesi fa
    • @Helgard Wagener Thank you! I knew I'd seen that guy before.

      James DavenportJames Davenport3 mesi fa
    • He did it with Quentin Tarantino too!

      Helgard WagenerHelgard Wagener3 mesi fa
  • Did anyone else feel like they were REALLY off the mark with this one? Most of these tricks are just plain wrong, or old myths that people used to believe. I'm guessing maybe they're just really eager to put out consistent content but didn't have any ideas? Really hoping this is just a mess up and not an indicator of the channel's decline.

    David DavidsonDavid Davidson3 mesi fa
    • Yes, exactly! And I was surprised by how uncritical most of the audience took it. There are so many people nowadays arguing they can read anyone by just looking at the signs that were shown in the video (which can be caused by a whole bunch of totally different reasons) when in fact humans are just terrible at telling lies. And this makes me scared.

      Dishonored4437Dishonored44373 mesi fa
  • thanks for time stamps

    supsupb0isupsupb0i3 mesi fa
  • Agreed! That Dale Carnegie book should be mandatory reading for anyone who deals with the public. I've read it numerous times!

    Marlar HouseMarlar House3 mesi fa
  • Gosh I love the sherlock clips

    Erialc1111Erialc11113 mesi fa
  • Why did I start hating COC now, because I don't think one needs to manipulate people to be charismatic, but you can be charismatic by not caring about it ( really not caring and being on your own just happy )

    Gaga KGaga K3 mesi fa
  • Can you do one on how to be like Peter Venkman from Ghostbusters??? Like how he deals with the downs of life and dealing with Jerks like Walter Peck??? That would be awesome

    Psilord87Psilord873 mesi fa
  • Make on Capt Raghu Raman

    chandan mohantachandan mohanta3 mesi fa
  • Why has this become relevant again? Not complaining but what triggered it?

    Classy Undercut // ElectraClassy Undercut // Electra3 mesi fa
  • break down shawn spencer from psych! he has a very unique style of charm

    Joey DollasJoey Dollas3 mesi fa
  • Please post on charisma of lucifer morningstar ❤️🙂.

    Nazaa #onyougoNazaa #onyougo3 mesi fa
  • as someone with AD(H)D, this helps a lot. thank you! i wish i had watched this video 10 years ago

    MilibaMiliba3 mesi fa
  • The sound effects for the notes are really confusing. It sounds like an error message, but my computer had no problems. It took me almost 4 minutes to figure out what is going on. Are these sounds really necessary? And if so, can you make them more positive?

    SilentProgramSilentProgram3 mesi fa
  • There is no car beeping outside

    MrDeiMrDei3 mesi fa
  • I wish I could actively practice these techniques, but I get too distracted with trying to make a conversation😂

    로라 [Laura]로라 [Laura]3 mesi fa
  • Hi , can you make video about Cristiano Rolando charisma ? Than you so much

    Alone wolfAlone wolf3 mesi fa
  • Please also tell us how to look, cause I tried some Holmes method and girls call me a creep.

    Dead beat sDead beat s3 mesi fa
  • Make a video about Hannibal, the tv show

    Jørgen JåstadJørgen Jåstad3 mesi fa
  • How to be a crazy person who stares a lot.

    R TR T3 mesi fa