7 Things Your Body Language Says About You

2 set 2019
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You probably know that your body language says a lot about you, but what you might not know is what it’s saying all the time.
That’s why in this video, I thought it might be fun to cover 7 things that your body language at some point is telling other people, so that you can come across as more confident and likeable.

0:23 - Sign #1: Scanning the room: You come across as boring
1:32 - Sign #2: Not letting people interrupt: Singles you out as a leader
2:59 - Sign #3: Leaning against something: You are the centre point
4:06 - Sign #4: Having your hands in your pockets: Signals nervousness
4:29 - Sign #5: Using precise and open gestures: You seem more confident
5:15 - Sign #6: Hanging your head: It makes the problem seem worse
6:27 - Sign #7: The eyebrow flash: Communicates friendliness
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  • **me practicing whatever he says*

    the sunshinethe sunshine28 giorni fa
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  • I would never take my pants of to put my hand in the pocket... again.

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  • The problem I have is that I am legally blind, therefore I have to scan a room to maintain spatial awareness. How do I use these strategies when I don’t notice a lot?

    Jillian HJillian H2 mesi fa
  • Former FBI body language profiler Joe Navarro said hands in pockets with thumbs out is actually a move of confidence, whereas thumbs in pockets is nervous/shameful 🤷

    Gary The Cycling NerdGary The Cycling Nerd4 mesi fa
  • Awesome Content. But can you please work on making the video a little louder?? Thanks.

    Shubhi SethShubhi Seth4 mesi fa
  • 4:32 😂😂😂 *Nice*

    TalMishanTalMishan4 mesi fa
  • I always hear how you should not put hands in your pockets when in a conversation because you need to express your feelings with hands and so on. But I neever ever heard someone talking about what to do with them if you receive a speech or someone is talking about their problem for minutes straight. What to do with your hands then?

    XaalisXaalis5 mesi fa
  • Wow this is great info that anyone can use. Great job man

    Player PreacherPlayer Preacher5 mesi fa
  • *_4:14_**_ Well I am untrustworthy... Well, at least I am not somebody you should rely on all the time_*

    Water NigerWater Niger5 mesi fa
  • Its easy when you analize something, but when you need to use in practice its way different

    Kris KKris K5 mesi fa
  • I mean this guy is probably right on a lot of things but why does he think he is the authority on all things charisma?

    Bryan BreezyBryan Breezy5 mesi fa
  • Don't pop your eye brows, generate a natural smile which lifts your cheeks and gives you an opportunity to add the brows to the smile.

    Lune VermeilLune Vermeil5 mesi fa
  • Something else that will help to improve your perceived worth, would be to learn to spell the word "focused".

    Jeffrey TackettJeffrey Tackett5 mesi fa
  • Based on the thumbnail, I thought you were going to tell me not to take my pants off in public. So, I guess I'll just keep doing it.

    KK5 mesi fa
  • man when i saw the title , i was like cmon it's for loosers , must be some obvious stuff that everyone knows, but i would regret a lot if i didn't here first step is my always mistake i like to scan around and maybe that's why i dont really get along with others .. thank you.

    Radik NarangRadik Narang5 mesi fa
  • So while I never put my hands in my trouser pockets, I have a tendency to like putting my hands in my hoodie pockets. Is that bad?

    wcheungmusicwcheungmusic6 mesi fa
  • Shout out to my INTP buddies here!

    Daryl CortesDaryl Cortes6 mesi fa
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    Daryl RichardsonDaryl Richardson6 mesi fa
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    Mikey ArnettMikey Arnett6 mesi fa
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    King westKing west7 mesi fa
  • You can’t make a video about how to come off as confident without being confident yourself. They won’t believe you. Which is why you’ve done it perfectly. Your videos really help me learn a lot about being less anxious around groups and social events. Also becoming more believable even when lying. I’m not sure if the “name mistake” example was a lie or truth because you’ve said it in a way that is believable. And that is a very useful tool in many situations (Not saying the use is for good or bad). But it is a tool, that not many people realize they have and can use to their fullest potential. So I hope that I can become one of few people that can use this to my advantage

    Avery ._.Avery ._.7 mesi fa
  • On the upside, putting your hands in your pockets often gets rid of unwanted attention when your somewhere you probably shouldn't be.

    HenstarHenstar7 mesi fa
  • That V neck though

    CHAOS kingCHAOS king7 mesi fa
  • 😂 I do the eyebrow almost anytime I meet someone 😂

    Jocelyn NoJocelyn No8 mesi fa
  • We shall have this conversation after social distancing

    Mos Tee AnunnakiMos Tee Anunnaki8 mesi fa
  • BETA!

    Erik JohnsonErik Johnson8 mesi fa
  • me watching this and not being able to use it bc of coronavirus hehe

    Matthew LovelandMatthew Loveland8 mesi fa
  • Lmao! I do the flash all day, I don't know where I picked it up, but I do it a lot...

    M. J.M. J.8 mesi fa
  • He’s smilling so much it’s creepy

    Lil ouLil ou8 mesi fa
  • This guy is just telling us how to be leaders

    Lil ouLil ou8 mesi fa
  • "Hey, I'm gonna tell you how to lie to everyone and seem as someone you are not to contribute towards culture that buries itself with lies"

    MrAliquamMrAliquam9 mesi fa
  • Hands in your pockets really isn't always bad, IMO. Unless that's all you do with your hands in the middle of conversation, then yeah, it's bad.

    D HD H9 mesi fa
  • 3:58 confirmed Italian

    Darth hronglDarth hrongl9 mesi fa
  • Very mature. Beyond your years in common sense.

    Richard WinneRichard Winne9 mesi fa
  • Charisma isn't something you can learn. You've either got it or out don't. If you try to learn it it's just gonna come off as fake. It's easy to spot especially for women. So I don't really understand why people think they can just read a book or watch a video and all of a sudden have the charismatic qualities that someone can only be born with. plus idk why anyone would take advise as to how to be charismatic from this guy he has the charisma of a pet rock.

    That_Goth_bitchThat_Goth_bitch9 mesi fa
  • Honestly this guy is not it. In the words of Kanye west, you don’t have the answers bruh!

    heyimsurgeheyimsurge9 mesi fa
  • Make her sit next to you by just asking

    Dustin ArroyoDustin Arroyo9 mesi fa
  • Hand gesture, Trump Style.

    Chubby HuangChubby Huang9 mesi fa
  • Love the Damon Elena scene

    TravTrav9 mesi fa
  • This feels like tips on how to be a human

    JellyJelly10 mesi fa
  • this was very helpful and it teaches me a lot and add to my leadership skill keep the good work bro

    nataniel Depaznataniel Depaz10 mesi fa
  • Don't agree on the old shoulder tap, it can make someone feel like your belittling them

    Alan KilkennyAlan Kilkenny10 mesi fa
  • So I shouldnt take my pants off in public while looking for my missing keys in the pocket? Thanks

    TP TallenTP Tallen10 mesi fa
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  • Enjoyed when you talked about hand gestures and the importance of them. You do gestures in all of your and it is really helpful and it’s makes the video more engaging. Brilliant video.

    BSH VasqohBSH Vasqoh10 mesi fa
  • An easy and effective fix for having your hands in your pocket: Put your hands in your pockets, but leave your thumbs out and keep your fingers straight (instead of curled in). This simple change will actually make you come across as more confident! You’ll see the difference if you go in front of the mirror and look at yourself putting your hands completely in your pocket, and then making the change above.

    LeafLeaf10 mesi fa
  • Love your videos, been watching for a while now! Keep up the good work 👍

    spiderWebspiderWeb10 mesi fa
  • What do you do with your hands when you aren't talking? Never quite sure where to put them when just standing around and not gesticulating.

    Jesse BoutJesse Bout11 mesi fa
  • Damn I love your videos

    Study StudyStudy Study11 mesi fa
  • I’d have to disagree on the not letting others “interrupt”/join in the conversation. Obviously, it depends on the situation, but with friends, it comes off very rude. Hands in pockets is the same way. In the southern states, it’s a very cowboy thing and becomes a habit (I tend to have just the thumb in the pocket or all but the thumb. Hands crossed comes off way worse, since you give off the feeling that you don’t feel safe when inside.

    Lil Bird MuseLil Bird Muse11 mesi fa
  • My hands are always in my pockets unless im talking to someone. It’s cold out here and wearing gloves is kind annoying that you need to remove them to shake hands and are not really appropriate inside. Same with crossing hands. I’ve met very few people who cross hands and act defensive, most of the time it’s just cold or comfortable.

    Rapolas RsRapolas Rs11 mesi fa
  • 4:39 Charisma on Command confirmed white supremacist.

    Aleks KozuchowskiAleks Kozuchowski11 mesi fa
  • One does not simply make precise gestures.

    Nuke CanadaNuke Canada11 mesi fa
  • Having Hyperhidrosis (extremly sweaty hands) makes body language very awkward, because the only thing you focus on is trying to hide your hands and all that uncontrollable sweat. Having a conversation with people I've never met before is very strange and uncomfortable xD It is very interesting thou, what you can do with body language. :D

    MaKMaK11 mesi fa
  • Lmaooo it’s not that deep. Who are you living for? Why do you think you have to communicate anything to anyone? Let go of that world... jeez. You will live an anxious life if you care about that irrelevant stuff... I already know what kind of replies I’m gonna get 🤦🏻‍♂️

    Jean SJean S11 mesi fa
  • I’ve been trying to learn to not talk with my hands, it drives my wife crazy and I thought that hand talking was just for politicians, lol

    Shaggy LShaggy L11 mesi fa
  • As someone with Aspergers I find these videos invaluable. they helped me gain the confidence I needed to follow my own dreams. Hence my channel as an extension of that.

    Nerd FuNerd Fu11 mesi fa
  • You give good advice. I always like making new people feel welcome. I don't do this to be seen as the leader, but it is a good side effect.

    hobsdigree2hobsdigree211 mesi fa
  • Ok but why shouldn’t I check my pants pockets

    Daniel SDaniel S11 mesi fa
  • As an alien trying to learn how to interact with humans, I would love if this guy became my tutor.

    Seraphina PriorSeraphina Prior11 mesi fa
  • Interesting but I've outgrown the potential need for this stuff.

    J JJ J11 mesi fa
  • 6:10 DONT DONT DO IT Dont touch someone you barely know. It makes you look like a person who doesn't respect personal borders. You may reach for the soulder, but dont touch it. Dont, k?

    selfishbirchselfishbirchAnno fa
  • So getting a hand job is a no no?

    Bad DogBad DogAnno fa
  • #2, the biggest thing is that no matter if I'm either talking or waiting to talk I get ignored. So idk what to do about that part.

    Lyokowarrior1228Lyokowarrior1228Anno fa
  • All my body language skills are on point, but my conversational skills are very bad

    MilanMilanAnno fa
  • I really wish I could have all the conversations back that I made mistakes in

    Zack NZack NAnno fa

    Mike WatsonMike WatsonAnno fa
  • With the shame advice, I realized I've always smiled and said sorry. And nobody takes it seriously. But it's not because I knew it but it's my mindset - I don't take many things seriously. Charisma doesn't build mindset. Mindsets build charisma.

    sakthi sdsakthi sdAnno fa
  • Number 5: Become Italian

    TheSnoozeFoxTheSnoozeFoxAnno fa
  • don't put your hands in your pockets liam ghallager: ....

    purp1epurp1eAnno fa
  • We respect people that we dont care about and people that we think superior of us .

    smiling at gravesmiling at graveAnno fa
  • * makes a precise gesture * ... *mamma mia*

    ChukapiX StraNgeRChukapiX StraNgeRAnno fa
  • Many errors here, sorry. Youspeakeverythingonasingleline insted of: You speak, (coma)everything, (coma)on a single line.(point) Also, crossing your arms is a clear sign of closeness and defensive posture. I could go on and on...

    Franz Josef Mueller-AlbanFranz Josef Mueller-AlbanAnno fa
  • What do you do with your hands when you are in a group conversation and you are not talking at the moment? Assume you are not holding anything, your hands are completely free.

    Lewis RodriguezLewis RodriguezAnno fa
  • lol 😁 Dude too much gestures also kills the gestures... your hands are moving so much in this video that i'm beginning to feel seasick 🤣

    MadmikeMadmikeAnno fa
  • I actually use the eyebrow one purposefully. I sell ventilation systems which most new houses need one due to insulation so I end up going to new construction sites. When I walk up to a contractor I've never met I walk up and do the eyebrows when I say hey in "Hey man, how the heck have you been?!" and do the Putin handshake (hovering above normal handshake height, starting a few feet away and divebomb their hand like a hawk on a rabbit) Then I have a normal conversation, and they introduce me to other people and everyone else assumes that we've known eachother for years. It's fantastic. If they ask me about it, I tell them the truth; that it's a sales tactic designed to put them at ease so they don't feel like I'm there to sell. In my experience, 4/5 laugh and say either "Well it worked!" or "Does that really work?!" I've got a couple of people to tell me it's sleazy, to which I sincerely apologize say I hope it doesn't affect their opinion of me, and next time I see them- I can be genuinely happy and they can remember me. [For the eyebrows, the timing has to be just right. In the speed of a rather fast heartbeat or the ba dum in "ba dum tss", eyebrows and then smile.]

    TechnorexTechnorexAnno fa
  • HEEEYYY hahahahah

    Esteban DuránEsteban DuránAnno fa
  • How tf do all of your teeth fit into your smile

    RhxyyRhxyyAnno fa
  • Wow your life sounds in a constant state of stressful mind games

    WWAnno fa
  • This is what should be taught in the school

    Nasur ENasur EAnno fa
    • Anonymous I doubt such a ridged structure teach this effectively and how would they grade it?

      Bird Turd MemesBird Turd MemesAnno fa
  • Hey you look like a mix of Jacob Eldori and Hartley Sawyer

    Laurence KoodinLaurence KoodinAnno fa
  • 5:36 call me by your name;)

    Americus FAmericus FAnno fa
  • I don't like people that are quick to 'brush over' their own mistakes. If someone gestures a little, hanging their head for a second, it tells me that they are sorry. On the contrary, people that tend to be overly positive after the did something wrong, give me the impression they didn't really understand what it is they did wrong. They make me feel like I'm talking to a bomb ticking, just waiting to repeat the same mistake. It is somehow 'reassuring' to see that a mistake someone else made 'stung' a little and will stick for a little while. We all make mistakes, and I think it's important to acknowledge them.

    Bananenbauer123Bananenbauer123Anno fa
  • What you don't want to be the leader though, this all seems like advice for people that enjoy being the center of attention

    Dusan SlavnicDusan SlavnicAnno fa
  • never be sorry? got it.

    Sock TVSock TVAnno fa
  • You know i watch alot of educational channels like kurzgesagt and vsauce, but this is one of the few channels that actually has really practical uses. Your stuff are some of my favourite videos and that have helped me personally alot. So thanks

    Marianne BostrømMarianne BostrømAnno fa
  • ADD gets you viewed poorly by low IQ norms. CHECK (Benito Mussolini large hand motions vs. Adolf Hitler [Schicklgruber or Goos-flesh] small tight hand motions.

    Julian ReidJulian ReidAnno fa
    • gooseflesh

      Julian ReidJulian ReidAnno fa
    • gooseflesh

      Julian ReidJulian ReidAnno fa
  • 4:33 illuminati

    Korean with NazKorean with NazAnno fa
  • I do not find anything wrong with people putting their hands in pockets. If I do it, I really didn't mean anything by it even subconsciously to express an off vibe. This is out of my box. Obviously not whilst talking to potential interest, I love them to use some gestures. I am going to agree that pockets are comfortable and warm enough to get my attention to the reality if my thoughts are lost, else I could imagine more. It eases out things for yourself so you might feel confident than before. I am not sure about everyone's opinion, I take it this way and it's extremely helpful in certain situations without knowing. I feel like I took control of myself but in a less effective way but quite helpful. That small help is what I needed at that moment to trigger another thought to make it up to a smarter one. There are various counter-self-help debates I have which I try to analyze and make the best out of it. Cheers!

    hemanthhemanthAnno fa
  • You move your hands in such a friggin bizarre pattern that doesn't sensically follow what you're saying that its a complete distraction.

    FullSpecsFullSpecsAnno fa
  • Well, the body language on the thumb nail says I'm not wearing my pants right now.

    Markus ChildersMarkus ChildersAnno fa
  • Im a girl and when i walk or stand with my hands in my pockets i do it cause i feel comfortable and calm. Not cause im nervous or anything negative... maybe its different for guys

    Shana RoyalShana RoyalAnno fa
  • If someone ignores me when I'm interrupting them...then I will no longer respect that person. A "lack of manners" is no big deal, ignorance is.

    JohnDaWhale3JohnDaWhale3Anno fa
    • @JohnDaWhale3 depends what you're interrupting for

      Mustard BastardMustard BastardAnno fa
    • @Mustard Bastard It's important to interrupt though...ignoring is just avoiding the issue.

      JohnDaWhale3JohnDaWhale3Anno fa
    • @JohnDaWhale3 and so is interrupting

      Mustard BastardMustard BastardAnno fa
    • @Mustard Bastard Ignoring is a NEGATIVE action...

      JohnDaWhale3JohnDaWhale3Anno fa
    • @JohnDaWhale3 as is ignoring

      Mustard BastardMustard BastardAnno fa
  • omg stop making that face lol

    Black TortoiseBlack TortoiseAnno fa
  • 👊

    Jay DivineJay DivineAnno fa
  • Jotaro kujo always put his hands on his pockets

    SuperPotacioSuperPotacioAnno fa
  • It's very encouraging that instead of learning these things through trial and error like a normal person I have to binge watch ITworlds tutorials like I'm studying for a college course.

    Tree SurgeonTree SurgeonAnno fa
  • Can you do a video on lil Uzi verts charisma specifically the one with GQ

    OG KellyOG KellyAnno fa