5 Psychological Tricks Sociopaths Use To Manipulate You

3 feb 2020
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It’s scarily true that powerful psychological tricks can be used against us to make good people do bad things.
So in this video we’ll be looking at the realm of persuasion that some call brainwashing to explore the psychological tricks cults, sociopaths, and manipulative others use to make good people do bad things. Hopefully these red flags prevent you from falling victim, either in a toxic relationship or from a predatory organization.


1:59 - #1: Separating you and replacing the family unit.
4:38 - #2: Lingo that disguises what is truly happening.
6:11 - #3: They demonize the asking of questions that threaten their authority.
8:11 - #4: Games or tests that reward obedience.
9:29 - #5: Your own desire to be fair is often used against you.

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  • Social justice, woke culture, antifa, and the modern democratic party ALL check all boxes here.

    Lex BravaryLex Bravary43 minuti fa
  • Lol, leftism is literally sociopathy. Interesting.

    FloodGatesFloodGates3 ore fa
  • All of This is happening right now with the Covid scam

  • Sociopaths- Religious leaders, Gurus, Politicians, MLM companies, Fake lovers, finally those possessive peoples who claim they love you by controlling you, those pet lovers who cage animals and birds and say we are animal lovers 😂😂

    moseem pathanmoseem pathan10 ore fa
  • Let us heal from the pain we do not discuss 🤍

    kimberly.abundancekimberly.abundance15 ore fa
  • Only insecure people fall for this.

    MagicianFlip69MagicianFlip6916 ore fa
  • Why is Illuminati not in this list?

    MagicianFlip69MagicianFlip6916 ore fa
  • This video came before lockdown. Great Reset, New Normal. To question is dangerous. Gaslighting. I haven't gone through the boxes but I wonder if it ticks all of them. EDIT: The propaganda around lockdown I mean.

    Journeys MTJourneys MT16 ore fa

    The GuitardudeThe Guitardude22 ore fa
  • Unfortunately a lot of us were brought up in families where we were set up by the family rules to be in cults or in a relationship with a narcissist or sociopath because we weren't allowed to ask questions and were treated disrespectfully. We therefore have a high tolerance for others inappropriate behavior. We never learned to talk or trust or feel by parents who just wanted to do what ever they wanted without interference because it was their house, their rules and they were in charge. So unfortunately a lot of us, including myself, weren't taught how to be treated with respect, have self esteem or boundaries, trust others or ourselves and therefore not trust our instincts. If animals were taught this in the wild they wouldn't survive. My parents failed me as my primary teachers because their parents failed them so on and so forth way back. It is the generational nature of dysfunctionality and you either pass it on or pass it back. I was in a "relationship" with a narcissist for 6 years because I allowed myself to be manipulated and treated badly because that is what I was taught by my parents. I was lucky to get out of it. I'm lucky I survived this long to work on my issues and become the person I was suppose to be. I think I'm lucky because a lot of people like me get chewed up and spit out by life, become addicts, go to jail, stay in these abusive relationships and many other unhealthy things but because of a few family members, friends and a 12 step program I've been able to heal some wounds and learn some healthy behaviors like boundaries. and acquire some healthy self-esteem. It takes time and effort but has been completely worth it and I will do it for the rest of my life. So I think this information in this video is very important to understand how narcissist and sociopaths operate but it's more important to work to heal your family of origin wounds if you've come from a dysfunctional family which makes the probability of getting into relationships of any king with narcissist and sociopaths less likely because you will have self-esteem and boundaries and learn to trust your gut instincts. I have unfortunately had many narcissist and sociopaths in my life and one was a sibling the rest were in the work place. They were all extremely detrimental to my overall health and have caused me much pain which is what they like to do to their targets. I'm lucky I survived all of them and at the time I had no Idea that I was dealing with narcissist and sociopaths and I had been targeted by my naivete, lack of self-esteem, lack of boundaries and was easy prey. I survived but a lot of people don't and either die or are permanently destroyed by these predators.

    Brian WalshBrian Walsh22 ore fa
  • "You need to ignore gut instinct" this is the biggest red flag...

    Sai PriyathamSai PriyathamGiorno fa
  • "Seperating you and replacing the family unit" sounds like every modern western government in the world

    vokonickvokonickGiorno fa
  • cia created these supposed sociopaths

    Jeremy ShafferJeremy ShafferGiorno fa
  • The Woke Culture has all the hallmarks of a mass cult.

    Reg BarnardReg Barnard2 giorni fa
  • Wow. Sounds like most religions and political parties use these tricks.

    P KP K2 giorni fa
  • Gang

    Joseph SewellJoseph Sewell2 giorni fa
  • This info should've been constantly taught to us while in school. Many families can't do it because there's too much dysfunction going on at home. Too many people are being exploited by manipulators on so many levels. I guess you got to get burned a few times before you get hip.

    Paradox3627505Paradox36275052 giorni fa
  • Sounds exactly like the extreme right and radical left.

    Joel KrysiakJoel Krysiak2 giorni fa
  • This describes the modern left perfectly.

    Jan ScottJan Scott2 giorni fa
    • You have much to learn Ms. or Miss Scott as both sides of the Aisle brought us here and how things are. Good Luck and you can Do It.

      HighSpeedNoDragHighSpeedNoDrag2 giorni fa
  • As a previous victim of a person with cluster B personality disorder I can definitely relate to this video. Now I can use it for myself to take advantage of others. I am the anti-karma.

    bruce bannerbruce banner3 giorni fa
  • this how gangs get lonely kids

    ana anaana ana3 giorni fa
  • I find it very interesting that Charles Manson seemed to intuitively understand how to manipulate people on such a fundamental level without any kind of training.

    Jason TuckerJason Tucker3 giorni fa
  • It's a gang mentality happens they use same what media use the manipulation tactics

    EcoStar ZanzibarEcoStar Zanzibar3 giorni fa
    • The Media manipulates via Child's Play given all of the Pathetic dangerous people of all ages on their Smart Phones 24/7.

      HighSpeedNoDragHighSpeedNoDrag2 giorni fa
  • America is a psychopath.....every trick identified here is used against Black people (and people in general) historically and present....we work against our own best people by weaponizing us against us.

    A.T. HargroveA.T. Hargrove3 giorni fa
  • I was born with this knowledge

    lars wielandlars wieland4 giorni fa
  • So this is describing the entire leftists and media of the western world.

    Hl AHl A4 giorni fa
  • I've faced this with a narcissist ex-bff, acted as a sister that care about me, while manipulating me and conquering my life (financially, socially etc). Just in different scale compare to those sociopaths. They have the same ways...as if some brilliant demon had gave them special set of skills to ruin other people's lives.

    oppo vivooppo vivo4 giorni fa
  • In my country we call our king/leader "father" So....

    Just MeJust Me5 giorni fa
  • Humanist leopard Lemure.

    Sally LauperSally Lauper5 giorni fa
  • so..... a lot of feminist are sociopath

    Irving DiazIrving Diaz5 giorni fa
    • Women basically.

      Hl AHl A4 giorni fa
  • sounds exactly like the american left wing agenda; estrange ppl from family, religion, patriorism or any sense of belonging and demonize the questioning of their agenda with political correctness

    Diana DiamondDiana Diamond5 giorni fa
  • Sounds like Democrat tactics

    Nate BelcherNate Belcher6 giorni fa
  • inorder to improve you need to learn your plan holes and weaknesses thanks for the vid they cant counter me anymore

    Jhrald BauiJhrald Baui6 giorni fa
  • and why you didnt start about the science trilogy church, if you know it all that good then come up with such things instead of charly manson

    Suvalley BrondtSuvalley Brondt6 giorni fa
  • Thanks for the guide

    Curious GeorgeorwellCurious Georgeorwell7 giorni fa
  • Hmmm. Like the covid19 cult?

    Emma HalseyEmma Halsey7 giorni fa
  • ....is it just me or does christianity seem kinda sus now?

    Aurora WillisAurora Willis7 giorni fa
  • Kinda like Facebook now

    J WielgoszJ Wielgosz7 giorni fa
  • Sounds like the things that democrats do.

    Miss MarilynMiss Marilyn8 giorni fa
  • The joker, the trickster, the player, the pimp, the narcissist, will use laughter or entertainment to manipulate the low self esteem

    cory ccory c8 giorni fa
  • Sounds like religion

    SoleNero21SoleNero218 giorni fa
  • I would love to see a Hot Ones episode with Charles Manson

    Holden ThompsonHolden Thompson8 giorni fa
    • People like you are a Big Part of the Problem.

      HighSpeedNoDragHighSpeedNoDrag2 giorni fa
  • Didn’t teach me any new tricks!

    hobocyclisthobocyclist9 giorni fa
  • Does #3-4 sound familiar to someone regarding how governments and social media handles the 19 virus? Just sayin...

    glg210glg2109 giorni fa
  • Thank you for the tips and tricks

    Dr. Cronk BoiDr. Cronk Boi9 giorni fa
  • Manson was a psychopath - different from a sociopath. Do your effing research!! don't really know about the other two.

    Alexa PennAlexa Penn9 giorni fa
  • Trump cultist

    Christopher HernandezChristopher Hernandez10 giorni fa
  • 10:58 describes the leftist cult.

    TameThingTameThing10 giorni fa
  • "Come on, man!" followed by 😏.

    TameThingTameThing10 giorni fa
  • All These Things That I've Been Warned Of Sounds Like 3rd Wave Feminism.

    Seto KaibaSeto Kaiba10 giorni fa
  • Sounds like what we’re hearing on the main stream media where were told not to question anything and if we do question it were labeled. We sell sensor because we don’t want to be on the outs with our peers. Seems like the main stream news understands these techniques and they are part and parcel of propaganda. Question everything

    Over WorkedOver Worked10 giorni fa
  • The charisma is their lifeline without it people would see through their mask easily

    Saphyr S.Saphyr S.10 giorni fa
  • They can add Trumpty Dumpty to the list

    Mike HMike H10 giorni fa
  • ...

    Reuben 1Reuben 110 giorni fa
  • Religion?

    jim mathewjim mathew10 giorni fa
  • Religion itself is a cult. It just managed to survive longer

    Ahnaf AhmedAhnaf Ahmed10 giorni fa
  • All of this sounds like religion. Especially the third point of demonizing the asking of questions.

    Real EngineReal Engine10 giorni fa
  • Perfect description of the socialist republicrat mouthpieces.

    PeedinkusPeedinkus10 giorni fa
  • Nobody could get me to do what i dont want, so dont give me this bs about good and bad!

    Roland BaloghRoland Balogh11 giorni fa
  • Imagine being raise with that constant tactics? Totally a dead end. Cults are everywhere and ex cult members can be anyone trying to start their own for profit.

    Victoria Palferez-SiriVictoria Palferez-Siri11 giorni fa
  • Whoa whoa whoa what was that clip at 5:54 ? I see Joe from You and the guy from AHS

    Daughter TheresaDaughter Theresa11 giorni fa
  • Interesting these are the exact tactics the government are using now with the.covid 19 scam. They have us all believing that it is deadly but has 98% recovery rate & shut down any questions against the narrative

    Daily Basics500Daily Basics50011 giorni fa
  • No different to what governments, politicians and churches already do. They have been utilising this same methodology on people for centuries. Destroying the family unit is what they do well already. Look at the degradation of society right now. It all comes from the same brainwashing.

    Simon WSimon W11 giorni fa
  • My dear leader has the real truth. ;)

    TimmmayyyTimmmayyy11 giorni fa
  • These describe how progressives of America are acting in 2020. They edit language in their favor. They seek to control thought. They demonize the nuclear family and support structures as evil. Individualism is considered an evil. Only the desires of the group (mob) matter.

    deepzone31deepzone3111 giorni fa
  • So this is the Government?

    Josiah BlackJosiah Black12 giorni fa
  • Guard your mind

    Gary InMarzGary InMarz12 giorni fa

    R. JuneR. June12 giorni fa

    R. JuneR. June12 giorni fa
    • @R. June how interesting....

      TimmmayyyTimmmayyy10 giorni fa
    • @Timmmayyy blah, blah, and your huge EGO

      R. JuneR. June10 giorni fa
    • @R. June study 5 historical figures then conclude their manipulation tactics are present in 2 economic systems and 1 human rights movement. I’ll get on it!

      TimmmayyyTimmmayyy10 giorni fa
    • @Timmmayyy just see what Marx wrote en German, look what Stalin, Mao, chiming, Paul pot, and the others sick, did to their people, watch this video again, and take it from there

      R. JuneR. June10 giorni fa
    • Please help me by substantiating your claim. (You would want to help someone see the light, I assume.)

      TimmmayyyTimmmayyy11 giorni fa
  • does this information apply to the goings on in the media such as CNN and social media such as twitter, et al. if so, I think the people should be informed, I should like.

    howard Showard S12 giorni fa
  • That sounds a lot like all religions

    Alex GAlex G12 giorni fa
  • I see many of these in the mainstream media, and from the mouths of radical politicians. Often they work together...

    Nikki DNikki D13 giorni fa
  • The Republicans got hooked to Trump! This is damaging to the highest.

    Soo Tuck ChoongSoo Tuck Choong13 giorni fa
  • Seems like this is happening with our media today

    Trishy BeansTrishy Beans13 giorni fa
  • As a former member of a religion/cult, that group fits the bill to a T. I now avoid any group that gives me slightest thought and feeling of the same. I never let down my guard.

    Consuela OrtizConsuela Ortiz13 giorni fa
  • Does this remind anyone of Harry Potter.

    martha bennermartha benner13 giorni fa
  • Sounds alot like what the Democrats are doing.

    slaymaster999slaymaster99913 giorni fa
  • "Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect." Mark Twain. Specially when things just don't FEEL right.

    Imasiku mataaImasiku mataa13 giorni fa
  • Be white

    wndxxiwndxxi14 giorni fa
  • Jehovah’s Witnesses.

    TruthTruth14 giorni fa
  • That girls were already disfuncionals, they didn't have a choice with our without Charlie. The system and the media crucified Charlie fot money. He never killed nobody, it was unjust to give him a life sentence. By the way he was a very intelligent man.

    Semiramis MunozSemiramis Munoz14 giorni fa
  • Did you guys notice that these are things that the government is doing to everyone right now? Especially #1 and #4. So eerie 😕

    TheRachPatchTheRachPatch14 giorni fa
  • You compare the army and religion with the sociopaths! This is a big mistake. You Use the facts to encourage people not to participate in groups so that everyone is alone and "loves himself". You Contribute to the existence of individualism in society. Like the sociopaths you blame, you do exactly the same thing. You manipulate people into being isolated.

    ΕΚΑΤΑΙΟΣΕΚΑΤΑΙΟΣ14 giorni fa
  • I had never seen anyone talking about #5. That's very true and dangerous. I think it's the one thing that could really get me in a bad place and I believe I've been there, but not so bad as it could be

    Kat R.Kat R.14 giorni fa
  • Horrible

    Stacy CarusoStacy Caruso14 giorni fa
  • Cough cough Mainstream media

    Stefan ShedenhelmStefan Shedenhelm15 giorni fa
  • We're taught that the richest among us were just ordinary people, who pulled themselves up by the bootstraps and worked hard to earn their way to the top. The truth is, those at the highest levels are psychopaths, and they got where they are because they're ruthless people who take advantage and dont play by the rules. Those at the top have no intentions of allowing us a chance to earn our way to their level. Rockefeller, JP Morgan, and most of the other huge successes, were nasty, unscrupulous monsters.

    YamCherieYamCherie15 giorni fa
  • This all applies to Critical Race Theory Training.

    One WayOne Way15 giorni fa
  • why would I want to be a part of any club that would have me?

    Andy MAndy M15 giorni fa
  • Subscribe? Or join the family? 🙂

    N FlippoN Flippo15 giorni fa
  • Modernity in all its denominations (liberalism/capitalism, communism, fascism, post-modernity, nihilism, etc.) has attempted to progress society by demolishing society's foundation, i.e.; family, faith, freedom, and fatherland.

    Nick MoserNick Moser15 giorni fa
  • Sounds like all government...

    Drogon FinancialDrogon Financial15 giorni fa
  • Sounds like a description of the entire democratic party.

    Alexis BentleyAlexis Bentley15 giorni fa
    • Oh my God! Both political parties are cluster F@cks. Although Reagan was my favorite President and I support Trump/Pence.

      HighSpeedNoDragHighSpeedNoDrag2 giorni fa
  • This seems more about "sociopathic organizations" than sociopaths. Do sociopaths always run some group or leadership role?

    Stephen PowdexterStephen Powdexter16 giorni fa
  • Mind control only works on weak minded and troubled uneducated people...

    Tom JohnTom John16 giorni fa
  • "5 Psychological tricks sociopaths use to manipulate you" Sociopaths that want to adapt: "Write that down! Write that down!"

    MGMMGM16 giorni fa
  • Hmm this seems to be being done on a governmental level nowadays.

    JoesGuyJoesGuy16 giorni fa
  • Exactly what I like 😎

    The FutureThe Future16 giorni fa
  • Hhhmmm...so is this why the Democrat party goes out of its way to destroy the family unit?

    Rob8729Rob872916 giorni fa
  • Scientology

    poetry_on_standbypoetry_on_standby16 giorni fa