5 Easy Ways To Start A Conversation In Any Situation

29 giu 2020
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We've all been there, you see someone that you want to meet, but you aren't quite sure what to say. You get nervous and overthink it, and eventually you don't say anything at all.
That scenario is awful, so in this video you're going to learn 5 easy ways to start a conversation in any situation.

0:16 - #1: "Hey, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm..."
0:43 - #2: "Hey, I know this is totally random, but..."
1:25 - #3: The "Tourist" Technique.
2:12 - #4: The "Ben Franklin".
2:53 - #5: The spontaneous complement.

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  • "nice weather huh?"

    tobert bruhtobert bruh12 giorni fa
  • this stuff should be taught in school, improvement to our social-skills, conversation-ability, such as how to avoid running out of things to say or talk about, how to ask good or the right questions, how to tell a great story, etc. It should be mandatory for men but optional for women, men need it more than women do for obvious reasons.

    initiatorhater0688initiatorhater068815 giorni fa
  • I hate that if i dont start a conversation there wont be one 😪😢🥺

    Bishhh PleaseBishhh Please19 giorni fa
  • 1) Hey I don't think I've met you yet. I'm ______ 2) Hey I know this is totally random but _____ (whatever you notice about the person or situation) 3) Tourist Technique (Allow yourself to be the lost tourist and ask locals for recommendations) "Hey I'm new to the area do you ___" 4) Ben Franklin Method (Ask for a small favor and then start the conversation; indirect method) 5) Spontaneous Compliment follows by a Cold Read "Wow you've got great style are you a fashion designer?"; Has to be genuine and avoid complimenting body Thanks for everything Charlie!!

    david yuandavid yuanMese fa
  • I just need to have a talk with my friend I just ask how are you every 5 minutes or ask what if a tiger came up to you

    عبد الرحمن الموسىعبد الرحمن الموسىMese fa
  • Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

    Rocking RondaRocking Ronda2 mesi fa
  • Anyone know what animation software they are using?

    Infernus 25Infernus 252 mesi fa
  • These compliments also make great roasts

    oblivion2k07oblivion2k072 mesi fa
  • I have a problem. I’m too scared to say anything to my friends because I’m not confident enough and I’m scared that they might make fun of me like they always do. What shall I do? I need to start speaking a lot more and become more confident.

    ??????????????2 mesi fa
  • 2:20 Me:hey man can you watch my stuff I need to do something Random guy:sure *comes back and sees guy running off with my stuff* Me:🤦‍♂️...

    Undefeated ChampionUndefeated Champion2 mesi fa
  • Extra tip: Drop down from a higher platform Say “Hello There”

    Alex MacaroniAlex Macaroni3 mesi fa
  • I think i d rather hang a sign on me saying extremely shy avoid eye contant at all costs

    Monkey D. LuffyMonkey D. Luffy3 mesi fa
  • But if a girlie has the body, then it needs to be pointed out. Bodies need to be examined.

    skyclaspskyclasp3 mesi fa
  • my thing is i dont have a problem talking or like keeping a conversation going like if we start a conversation about somthing i know or i dont know about i'm gona ask sh*t ton of questions and keep talking but starting a converstion the" hi , how are you ? " ... all my close Friends tell me that i thought you r one of those pepole that just want to stay alone when i'm completely the opposite that's why all the pepole that started by saying hi are my close friends now .... but me saying hello to a stranger aaaaa no thanks ..... idk maybe i'm scared of someone seeing me as weird or trying too hard to make friends this is what i thinck will happen if i say hi to a stranger me : hi ..... how are you him : ( i never talked to him befor why is he talking to me now ) aa.. good hh wby ? me : ( i kniw it ) good and then just scilence me : i can't belive were almost 2021 him : hhhh yes weird right ... okay i need to go now my friends are there me : 👁👄👁 Ummm i'm probably traumatized by somthing but that's what i thinck will happen if i say hi to somone i dont know

    Life is goodLife is good3 mesi fa
  • *how do I start a conversation with the neighbor boy who just moved in who I also already have a mini crush on?* Because I’ve met him but we never really had a decent conversation

    Absolute GachaAbsolute Gacha3 mesi fa
  • Introverts be like: i hate people

    MousyMousy3 mesi fa
  • Dangg it seemed like only yesterday I was watching you at only 527k subscribers. Now you’re at 4 million?! Congrats & thanks for changing peoples lives!

    KendallKendall3 mesi fa
  • Love these tips! Definitely true bout the body comment making people uncomfortable! Someone did the "cold read" technique with me one day, complimenting my dress asking if I'm into fashion, and then proceeded to say "I couldn't help but notice you have a beautiful body shape, sorry but I had to look" something like that 😬 All I wanted to do was leave that convo asap!!!

    Celia RoseCelia Rose3 mesi fa
  • “Hey can you watch my ____ while I go to the bathroom?” And then when you come back use that as leverage to talk.

    Abel MorenoAbel Moreno3 mesi fa
  • these animations are so cool

    Bree and StephenBree and Stephen3 mesi fa
  • Bro if I use this on a girl and she actually starts talking to me I’m wifeing her up

    Yoni DanYoni Dan4 mesi fa
  • Do one on Rihanna pleeeaaaseeee

    Georgiana PetuGeorgiana Petu4 mesi fa
  • @Charisma On Command You are The Best

    Andrew ValentineAndrew Valentine4 mesi fa
  • No one: Me in a party where i know everyone, after watching this: Hi Ben, I know this is totally random but I'm Jane by the way 👁👄👁

    T VT V4 mesi fa
  • I ask where Hayden Library is (Big Daws and Steven Schapiro).

    Brent KatowitzBrent Katowitz4 mesi fa
  • How's about: Hey their Sweetie your looking kinda pretty what's a girl like you doing in this rough city

    Rey Cesar CariñoRey Cesar Cariño4 mesi fa
  • me : hey i saw your tshirt are you from phi.. the girl: sorry im taken

    cedric dellafaillecedric dellafaille4 mesi fa
  • 3:15 ominous af... "are you a dog trainer?" " oh not really! it's just m y h o b b y . . ."

    rautermannrautermann4 mesi fa
  • Hey I noticed you have en Eagles shirt. Are you from Philly? Yes ...cool *tumbleweed*

    WYJAFAK2WYJAFAK24 mesi fa
  • Start discussions with a new acquaintance with, "hi I'm charisma on command and I need advice on how I can get my 💋 on The Donald's 🍄. What advice would you give me ?"

    JeshexJeshex4 mesi fa
  • 3:08 SIMP!

    Dumb DominicanDumb Dominican4 mesi fa
  • Thank you so so so much for this, as a reserved person I have always had this big problem and you just helped it a toooon

    Karina RimkuseKarina Rimkuse4 mesi fa
  • I go to singles bars wearing a t shirt that reads 'I am a billionaire with a heart condition'

    Two-MoonZTwo-MoonZ4 mesi fa
  • - "Hey, I am new to this town, any cool drinks in this place? - "Sure, blablabla, where are you from?" - "Oh, I live across the street"

    Astronomy 101Astronomy 1014 mesi fa
  • Let's hope corona ends soon...ï have to apply these

    Mitali KshatriyaMitali Kshatriya4 mesi fa
  • well the 4th question wont work because when u ask someone do u have any recommendation they can just say no. also that question is too long to not become awkward while saying it. according to me one shouldnt ever ask one word replies questions especially if its a yes or no questions just ask what would u recoomend instead do u know xyz? also thats not a good conversation starter u can use question one and i the person seems to be from the town and seems to know well than u can ask the question.

    Yash RajaYash Raja4 mesi fa
  • Love the animations man, you got a GUCCI graphics guy

    Rishob Guha PatraRishob Guha Patra4 mesi fa
  • Rebuilding myself. All humans need to watch all of these videos. It’s the equivalent of added things to your game in the off-season.. life is our season... so any down time.. gotta stay sharp.. let’s do it

    QuinntonBQuinntonB4 mesi fa
  • These videos always feel so corny.

    George HamiltonGeorge Hamilton4 mesi fa
  • Comic Sans! My eyes are bleeding.

    alexanderfcalexanderfc4 mesi fa
  • 'ight, conversation starters, check Gimme some conversation continuers

    Tristan WalhainTristan Walhain4 mesi fa
  • Can you make one of these but for highschool?

    Olivia WOlivia W4 mesi fa
  • What do you think is stopping you from becoming more confident, or maybe getting started learning to be confident?

    Dream FluentDream Fluent4 mesi fa
  • No such thing as failing, only results.

    First Lego LeagueFirst Lego League4 mesi fa
  • Do power series

    Buji TeaBuji Tea4 mesi fa
  • Or we can just look cute like you and just say any random crap

    Omar OsamaOmar Osama4 mesi fa
  • Wow this video barely even panders to the alt right lol are you guys ok

    Anthony KellyAnthony Kelly5 mesi fa
  • 20$ for a burger?? Better be very deluxe

    Richie LaveyRichie Lavey5 mesi fa
  • Comic sans. Comic. Sans. Really?

    capsarcapsar5 mesi fa
  • Serial Killer 101

    Charles Watson Sr.Charles Watson Sr.5 mesi fa
  • Does anyone know how these animation are made

    Harish JayswalHarish Jayswal5 mesi fa
  • Please don’t use infographic cartoons in future videos.

    Sarah WelchSarah Welch5 mesi fa
  • I think your videos are very interesting and I learn a lot with them. The only thing is that you speak too fast and sometimes it’s hard to absorb the content. I end up distracted and having to rewind to watch a part that I missed again. There were a few times that I gave up watching a video because of that. I hope you don’t get me wrong. It’s just my opinion and probably most people don’t think that way. Great video btw. Thank you!!!

    Taynah FurtadoTaynah Furtado5 mesi fa
  • this guy really helping out, cheers to you mate, love your vids

    tlayudatlayuda5 mesi fa
  • Make one on Mads Hannibal.

    Dehydrated by DementorsDehydrated by Dementors5 mesi fa
  • Do a video on the TV show Family Matters. One of the characters is a complete nerd and nice guy who changes himself to win the girl. You should talk about the changes he made and how they apply in real life.

    James TuttleJames Tuttle5 mesi fa
  • As a brazilian I can't help laughing when I read "CU" in giant capital letters in your videos. And I know you know what I mean, Charlie! LOL

    Bruno failacheBruno failache5 mesi fa
  • Are YOU from philly?

    teejteej5 mesi fa
  • hey i know this is totally random one is good

    meta psychoticmeta psychotic5 mesi fa
  • Simple, say "Hello there" and if they don't respond with "General Kenobi", you wouldn't want to talk to them anyway

    GeryzGeryz5 mesi fa
    • what's who's general kenobi?

      meta psychoticmeta psychotic5 mesi fa
  • I would love an Episode of Charisma on Command about Neal Caffrey (Matt Bommer) from White Collar

    404 Not Found404 Not Found5 mesi fa
  • When ur parents don't allow u to acess online money

    Maya NegiMaya Negi5 mesi fa
  • 1:16 Story of my life.

    Plastic The BagPlastic The Bag5 mesi fa
  • Seriously good idea for putting where and when to use these. Helps people prepare for when things Reopen 😉

    Augment Life VlogsAugment Life Vlogs5 mesi fa
  • Hello! I really want you to make a video about the behavior of Robert Downey Jr., I know that you already have a video, and I carefully learned them, and your advice helps a lot! But I want another 1 video! thanks for attention)

    Тамерлан АзизовТамерлан Азизов5 mesi fa
  • can you do a video on donald trump Jr? I know we don't all agree with his views but he has a way of being so persuasive it is incredible. I'd just like to see your takeaways from his speeches

    mostly truemostly true5 mesi fa
  • I have an odd topic recommendation. You should look at the Paul Bernardo interview. Despite the dark subject matter, you can see how a psychopath uses so many psychological tricks and how he manages to keep people who are in positions of power on their toes in the discussion. He displays some methods I have seen in your videos, and the way he seems disinterested and often above the whole event is quite fascinating. I think he provides an excellent example of charismatic and manipulative tools, even if he does it for terrible reasons.

    StuntedWriterStuntedWriter5 mesi fa
  • Johnny cage please

    matias Quijadamatias Quijada5 mesi fa
  • Could you analyze the charisma of johnny cage from mortal kombat please

    matias Quijadamatias Quijada5 mesi fa
  • Could you analyze the charisma of johnny cage from mortal kombat please

    matias Quijadamatias Quijada5 mesi fa
  • Hey, I just saw you were wearing an... Oh, it's an Eagles jersey... nevermind bye

    LoH BrosLoH Bros5 mesi fa
  • How about you make a vid about the " the charisma of adam brody" ?

    LC CruzLC Cruz5 mesi fa
  • Is this a repost but with animation?

    MortyMorty5 mesi fa
  • If I’ve made eye contact with someone, I usually wait a minute, go up and say “Hi. We made eye contact a bit ago. I thought it would be weird if I didn’t come say hi. My name’s Michael.”

    Michael J. McCallMichael J. McCall5 mesi fa
  • dont do these,they are super creepy

    PreidonPreidon5 mesi fa
    • huh what are you talking about

      meta psychoticmeta psychotic5 mesi fa
  • Why has there never been a John Cena video on this channel? The guy is everything every guy wants to be

    Cinnamon Toast Kool-aidCinnamon Toast Kool-aid5 mesi fa
  • Wear masks. Why isnt anyone wearing masks?

    Areeb AshfaqAreeb Ashfaq5 mesi fa
    • @meta psychotic lol. A joke.

      Areeb AshfaqAreeb Ashfaq5 mesi fa
    • huh

      meta psychoticmeta psychotic5 mesi fa
  • Please do a thing on healthcare workers. I need it. It’s awkward sometimes. Peeps are grumps, sometimes. Btw thank you for all of videos. I really appreciate them.

    Flyingsnow1988Flyingsnow19885 mesi fa

    syed farazsyed faraz5 mesi fa
    • Lol people don't like talking anymore. It is generally a waste of time. I actually hate it unless I'm getting good energy back.

      Tristan Phoenix-WaltonTristan Phoenix-Walton4 mesi fa
    • it's not that easy for everyone.

      meta psychoticmeta psychotic5 mesi fa
  • Love these tips. I’m not always good at starting a conversation. This will help!

    MiMi's LifeMiMi's Life5 mesi fa
    • good luck to you

      meta psychoticmeta psychotic5 mesi fa

    Evan GuthrieEvan Guthrie5 mesi fa
    • what

      meta psychoticmeta psychotic5 mesi fa
  • Do a Charisma video on Camila Cabello, PLEASE!! I've been watching some of her interviews and just realised how magnetic she is!!

    Tameema AfshanTameema Afshan5 mesi fa
  • Hey! Do one on SHAHRUKH KHAN! He is a Bollywood superstar and is loved my millions for his confidence and charisma! Esp. For the latter. Just do one on him.

    mamta guptamamta gupta5 mesi fa
  • Saying you're new to the area or directions is a good way to get robbed.

    AberrantArtAberrantArt5 mesi fa
    • haha good point

      meta psychoticmeta psychotic5 mesi fa
  • 1970: There will be flying cars in the future 2020:

    4leaf clover4leaf clover5 mesi fa
    • old

      meta psychoticmeta psychotic5 mesi fa
  • 1 question: why aren't they wearing face masks?

    Marcel BytnarMarcel Bytnar5 mesi fa
  • Like the animation bro, you an animator?

    Ikbob11Ikbob115 mesi fa
    • he's not

      meta psychoticmeta psychotic5 mesi fa
  • i will reply to all of these "conversation starters" with "haa??"

    Ruffey JRuffey J5 mesi fa
  • Do a video about frank underwood' charisma and convincing skills

    don jondon jon5 mesi fa
  • 2:29 cringing at the handshake thanks to corona 😔

    Seamus KellySeamus Kelly5 mesi fa
  • Those are cool but when I translate them back to my language [Polish] they sound ridiculous. There's a cultural difference, I think people in European countries [maybe excluding southern ones where it's hot and sunny all the time] are more reserved and less open in such random situations. Even the line "I know it's totally random (...)" is hard to translate, as in Polish the word "random" is more connected to maths, meaning more or less "stochastic". Can you imagine saying to someone "hey, I know it's totally stochastic..."? Me neither.

    Sm0key90Sm0key905 mesi fa
  • Wow!

    Plants LoverPlants Lover5 mesi fa
  • 2:30 - No Handshaking, social distancing 101

    Ninja Kuma - Let's Plays, Reactions, MemesNinja Kuma - Let's Plays, Reactions, Memes5 mesi fa

    Breagh WatsonBreagh Watson5 mesi fa
  • Can you make a video about Linda Cardellini in her role “Judy Hana” in the “Dead to Me” tv show.. I think her character is interesting and done quite well in the success of the show

    Ruba AhmedRuba Ahmed5 mesi fa
  • Should do a video on Tom Ellis’ Lucifer

    markus hollowaymarkus holloway5 mesi fa
  • Oh right socializing is where you make an observation and then ask a question after or before you introduce yourself right right

    BradmakesgainsBradmakesgains5 mesi fa
  • NANI!?!?

    Jacob MartineauJacob Martineau5 mesi fa
  • Hey do you think Trump will win 2020? I know you made a video about how he definitely would in 2016.

    Max CarlsonMax Carlson5 mesi fa
  • HOLD UP go to 3:14 and toggle right about 18 frames until the guy on the right blinks (Use these buttons to move frame by frame: )

    KingJulesKingJules5 mesi fa