7 Signs You Are Emotionally Mature

9 mar 2020
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Emotional maturity creates strength and resilience in the face of life's obstacles, but pinning down what emotional maturity looks like and how it's developed can be hard to do.

In this video we're going to cover 7 specific signs that you're emotionally mature, and if not, 7 things you can do to begin working on it.

Animation by Zeino:


0:16 - #1: Emotionally mature people do not demonize exes.
0:48 - #2: Recognize that they contribute to bad experience.
1:43 - #3: Do not take responsibility for other people's feelings.
2:38 - #4: Get angry, sad and anxious.
3:27 - #5: Don't need to dwell or wallow.
4:02 - #6: Can speak about emotions without getting emotional.
4:31 - #7: Can pause.

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  • This should be taught in highschool.

    How to MommyHow to Mommy29 giorni fa
  • Really helps

    Eliot GlassierEliot GlassierMese fa
  • To me the topic should be, Emotional Intelligence (EI). EI has been well established for decades, and covers all the points in the video in a much more complete way. Embracing EI will modify behaviors.

    Wind WardWind Ward5 mesi fa
  • This was a great video! (Also, is it just me or does the narrator kind of sound like Spencer Reid from Criminal Minds?) ❤️👍

    Chelcy MarieChelcy Marie5 mesi fa
  • I really enjoyed this video but it was really really fast, like you were in a hurry while reading the text. There could have been some pauses at least between the signs

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  • I am 3 and I heard the en word

    CS ComicsCS Comics5 mesi fa
  • Love this video thanks for sharing!

    Grim QueenGrim Queen5 mesi fa
  • This video confirmed my anxiety, but im growing on my own.

    Grim QueenGrim Queen5 mesi fa
  • Hello

    Creamy peanut butter jelly girlCreamy peanut butter jelly girl5 mesi fa
  • in number five is Dont Dwell the same as saying to not be a cry baby?

    Wiki GMWiki GM6 mesi fa
  • i blocked all my exes out of my life. i don't feel anything towards them and wish them the best, but i know it's easier for both to move on this way. dumped my last girlfriend cause she snaped with her ex all the time and lied about it, she was "emotionally mature" according to this.

    Peter ParkerPeter Parker6 mesi fa
  • 3:10 i'm sorry, did this guy just imply that people who are depressed are emotionally immature? this channel is skeevy as hell

    Steven, A.D.Steven, A.D.6 mesi fa
  • Oh so im definitely missing the part of not crying while problem solving :/ Have to work on that

    sheepgray08sheepgray086 mesi fa
  • When not dwelling in victimization, know that you get to feel like a victim when you are processing an experience where you were victimized. But it is what mentality we use going forward after that processing which tells us if we are using it as a crutch or not

    The Self-Worth HabitThe Self-Worth Habit6 mesi fa
  • This advice does need to be taken carefully when in an abusive though. It is ok to see how awful a person was to you and abusers often try to make us feel to blame for their abuse, so don't take responsibility for things which are not yours

    The Self-Worth HabitThe Self-Worth Habit6 mesi fa
  • This sums up who I am as a person and always was like it

    Legend80Legend807 mesi fa
  • Emotionally Mature won't freak out about this creep animation like I just did

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  • Waiting othe signs to complete my maturity. Thanks to this video.

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  • I think it is harder for student in college to be emotionally mature. Partly because your fate is half decided by your teachers and your grades. How to be more mature in a college situation?

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  • don’t listen to this. you wanna know why. mature people have made the mistakes to get to the answers. if u blindly copy the answers you will have learned nothing. dont try to cheat on life. burn your butt so you actually know how it feels not just know the fact that fire is dangerous!

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  • All I've learned from this video is that I'm not emotionally mature 😔

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  • Too bad if you're emotionally mature but the people in your environment aren't.

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  • Im 18 and have demonized my ex. I found that allowing myself to be un-mature in this situation and to feel angry has helped me to express my feelings and let them go.

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  • this video is pure gold.

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  • 1:00 2:41 4:00

    David GumazonDavid Gumazon8 mesi fa
  • After watching this video I have come to the conclusion that I am in fact, not emotionally mature 😅

    Sarah BakerSarah Baker8 mesi fa
  • Honestly..sacrificing a part of your day to make someone feel a little better isn't wrong or unhealthy in anyway! Making it your soul goal is. Also some people demonize their ex because they still have feelings for them. Sometimes those feelings aren't healthy given the relationships environment. As a way to break out of a Stockholm like trance when trying to sort out past happenings and move on. This video makes it seem like every situation is easily solved. It doesn't account for ex who are actually horrible people that go too far,or the trust issues that follow. Make a video on how to get passed relationships of all kinds that involve betrayals of trust. Relationships you can't get away from like family and long time friends. Because losing those things could leave anyone emotionally unstable and immature.

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  • I can't talk about my emotions without getting emotional. Need to work on that 🙁

    ZaiZai8 mesi fa
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  • There is a book called “Boundaries” that helps ALOT with all this

    jeffjeff8 mesi fa
  • The animation was all over the place, and often didn’t make sense or line up with with the ideas being expressed. It was very distracting.

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  • the hard thing about being emotionally mature is you can never be straightforward to people who aren't. You have to constantly hold back the truth because you will hurt everybody's sensitive ego.

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  • Try the Abraham Lincoln method when crazy angry by writing a letter that is never sent. Then the emotions are spent and you can address the problem in a reasoned matter without the burden of others putting up emotional walls in defense of one's own outburst. Just as venomous anger would not change you, it won't persuade them to change either. So curb your emotions not by repression but written expression.

    Zhu BajieZhu Bajie8 mesi fa
  • Emotional maturity is all about awareness. Control over emotions and not the other way around.

    Brandon JonesBrandon Jones8 mesi fa
  • Ok well no surprises here, I'm emotionally mature. But I love this video it helps me be way more conscious about the life lessons I've learned in my 18 yrs. Thanks man❤️❤️

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    Michael VaughnMichael Vaughn8 mesi fa
  • Ahh yeas... Just as i thought. I am so immature

    Adel BaranovskaAdel Baranovska8 mesi fa
  • Great video, love the animation. I struggle with a lot of this myself. Thanks a lot.

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  • What are the 4 questions. Anyone know?

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  • Here's my self awareness checklist: (min 5:09) 1. I still demonize people who are not like me -> need to work on this 2. I don't blame or complain when things go bad, I asked myself to what extent I was the cause of it -> so I believe I have this one 3. I don't fully comprehend this one so I'm not sure 4. I still hide my feelings sometimes -> need to work on 5. I don't dwell on any negative emotions for too long -> so I got that 6. I get emotional easily -> need to work on 7. I do find myself giving it a few thoughts and some time before responding, but sometimes it's not long enough for the best answer -> next time I'll give it extra time

    Viktor NguyenViktor Nguyen8 mesi fa
  • When you have all 7 but your life is a mess, and you wish that you didnt have any of them, love how you show the benefits of those traits but not the downside, the downside is allways pushing yourself/stressing to think about everything, its fun beeing in a room with people knowing what is the problem how to potentialy solve it but beeing unable to say anything as your aware enough that nobody wants any criticism/blame, and saying anything will only make your life miserable, i wish i was never impressed with the old wise man in movies and spent so much time thinking how to potentialy become one myself, in movies it fixes everything, in life it ruins you most of the time unless you thinktank the lvling sht out of it and find a workaround human mindblocks.

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  • I thought I would maybe get a few of these, but nooooo it was to the point where it felt like the video was about me. It was some self reflecting I wasn't expecting. Great video!

    Jamal GSJamal GS8 mesi fa
  • Perhaps I’ll reach this stage one day

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  • these animations are disgusting af, sorry to break it to ya

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  • I am definitely the most emotionally immature person i have ever met

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    Rulian EstivallettiRulian Estivalletti8 mesi fa
  • What if you life in a family with the outdated view that some negative emotions should be suppressed and the other get reprimanded for crying lol

    VincisomethingVincisomething8 mesi fa
  • Glad to know that I am emotionally mature.

    Amr FwwsAmr Fwws8 mesi fa
  • Hi, I have some questions, how you deal with critisisers. I am proactive person but one person in my office always critisise me on my face like whenever i try to share some knowledgeable thing in office. He tries pull my leg. He is really getting in my nerve. Even today he grouped some people and cornered me. I m upset and this happens in my life again and again with different people... people bullied me, i get upset than i left those people than again i met new people again this cycle repeat. I want to get rid of this cycle because i slows down my learning and hamper my focus...... please tell me what should i do

    Lalit KumarLalit Kumar8 mesi fa