How To Command Respect From Everyone Around You

20 lug 2020
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Ragnar Lothbrok (Lodbrok) is a legendary leader and the main character in the show Vikings. In a time where power and respect meant everything, he was able to rise up from being a simple farmer to a ruler, to a king.
In this video we will break down 5 ways Ragnar is able to command respect from everyone around him and how you can do the same in your own life. You don't have to pick them all, so you can pick the ones that fit you the best.

0:00 - Intro.
0:32 - #1: Pursue ambitious goals that others want to join.
2:13 - #2: Speak in "you" and "we".
4:16 - #3: Project calm in the face of conflict.
5:32 - #4: Lead from the front.
7:29 - #5: See through other people's eyes.
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  • Look kids a real man. Notice the lack of him wearing a dress, and that he is actually doing something with his life.

    Vigorelli Integrated MedicineVigorelli Integrated Medicine12 ore fa
  • Can you do a video on lagertha for women viewers?

    Bettina L.Bettina L.Giorno fa
  • You don't want to be Ragnar he's a psychopath of the ancient. Skol

    Samurai Cyberpunk 2077Samurai Cyberpunk 20772 giorni fa
  • thank you very much, i have learned today something. i gonna write this down

    youri jevriendyouri jevriend2 giorni fa
  • But hw is german... Im not german.... I have a big brain

  • command respect read this 1) be self dependent financially emotionally and every other aspect 2) always try to be a provider in as many aspect as possible

    guddu heroguddu hero4 giorni fa
  • anymore viking characters? Ivar or Bjorn?

    Flinted SteelFlinted Steel5 giorni fa
  • Also when king Alea burns him with a hot iron, cuts and stabs him Ragnar doesn't yell out, not giving Alea the reaction he wants which visibly shakes him, when Ragnar also gives his speech of Valhalla Ecbert smiles and Alea shows fear. Not giving the enemy what they wanted scares them well gaining the respect from his allies

    Wolf Of Asgard HobbiesWolf Of Asgard Hobbies5 giorni fa
  • You let someone disrespect you one time they gon walk all over you for the rest of your life. Word of advice, stand up for yourself no matter what, kill that basterd if you have to.

    Killa KlownKilla Klown5 giorni fa
  • Flusion empire reminds me Biden/Obama!

    YNVYNV7 giorni fa
  • If there's one thing I hate it's when someone is clearly being manipulative and asks for favors and help out of laziness. Don't know about anyone else, but that's the quickest way I lose respect for people.

    Stephen SundayStephen Sunday9 giorni fa
  • Using a move as examples of good behavior seems odd to me. No real ones?

    O DO D11 giorni fa
  • The summarys have always been in the description just saying

    motivational wellnessmotivational wellness12 giorni fa
  • Look what Ragnar is doing here --- He does what is in the script

    OoJoshioOOoJoshioO12 giorni fa
  • Ok,i will find Englaland,rob the king and Build a city.Who is with me?

    OoJoshioOOoJoshioO12 giorni fa
  • 3:37 one of the most emotional conflicts in Vikings, wow

    Ooo Wee Baby!Ooo Wee Baby!13 giorni fa
  • Wait, these are manipulative tactics

    Alexander the not okAlexander the not ok16 giorni fa
  • I like how you keep showing clips from the movie Limitless. The Dude was a loser and relied on a hypothetical drug addiction to even function in everyday life.

    Mana DudeMana Dude18 giorni fa
  • Cadê esse vídeo em português? P

    Breno ChiezziBreno Chiezzi18 giorni fa
  • I would have loved to see a How to NOT video with the Late, and not at all great King Horik, from his overly antagonistic attitude, pointless paranoia, lack of attention span, and gullibility to manipulation from Ragnar and Floki.

    GrumpywinterGrumpywinter19 giorni fa
  • Time to invade England i guess

    Alijars LeitisAlijars Leitis22 giorni fa
  • Thank you.

    AJ HubbellAJ Hubbell24 giorni fa
  • The vikings actually lost all their battles against regular armies. They only won when it was about raiding some unarmed villagers.

    ie2 admie2 adm24 giorni fa
  • If you pay for a extra 2 day weekend seminar you can also learn all about head cleaving and skull fuckery..

    René LarsenRené Larsen24 giorni fa
  • Basically, being a good leader isn't about you, it's about them.

    Brandon Neil Sta. TeresaBrandon Neil Sta. Teresa26 giorni fa
  • all he does is lower his chin and look up at you like he has a cunning plan. Or he looks sidelong with a grin. I'm too ugly for that, I'd make people nervous lmao

    David JeansDavid Jeans27 giorni fa
  • Great video, learned some good points and now I want to watch Vikings from the beginning again.

    Vegan Rican1Vegan Rican128 giorni fa
  • I gained alot of respect from my foreman I've talked about my ambitious goal of losing weight through intermittent fasting, paying off my debt by work overtime constantly living paycheck to paycheck and working hard

    HerrenGamingNewsHerrenGamingNews28 giorni fa
  • Some heads on pikes will secure your power very nicely.

    void nebulavoid nebula28 giorni fa
  • Ah yes. I asked my enemies at work if they wanted to join me in battle and conquer the Chuck E. Cheese across the street, Many opposed.. but the victory was ours.

    Gina Carrano *Gina Carrano *29 giorni fa
  • I still get a Jake Gyllenhaal Nightcrawler psycho vibe from Ragnar. So I don't think I respect him I fear him for his unpredictability.

    OdysseyHomeOdysseyHomeMese fa
  • What would Ragnar do not to be banned on scial media?

    torivarnortorivarnorMese fa
  • When watching videos from this channel, The thing that comes to my mind when he says "Look how they react when he does this" -well it's scripted, right? They react how they are told to react... May be some time it helps.... In my opinion commanding respect is obvious, Do the right thing, Be a good person, Workout , Speak the truth, Follow the rules, Work hard, And all the basic good habits...will do it....

    R S KR S KMese fa
  • How following you = win for ALL us + now you.

  • He could kill us for DISobeyING his ORDERS.


  • Such a great channel. Thank you.

    Chop WoodChop WoodMese fa
  • Watches tv show, thinks a Viking after 🙄

    Anglo BrowzaAnglo BrowzaMese fa
  • This Series Vikings, is basically just for entertainment. There is no core values of men or women here that would Deserve Respect.

    Ratish ArolkarRatish ArolkarMese fa
  • word from the strong you can't teach strength this video may help some of you but most of you it will not because you lack the ambition to show your will and to stand within yourself

    Jo PigJo PigMese fa
  • You are talking about written characters in a TV show. They act only was they where written, they have plot armor and plot respect.

    4am4amMese fa
  • I’m just curious, Charisma university is $99.50 a month for 6 months, that adds up to approximately $600. I have seen many links and ads saying “pay here and change your life” How is one certain this is a real deal

    ConnarchyConnarchyMese fa
  • Didn't realize this might have spoilers, so... he becomes king. might want to add it in the title.

    Ryan HendriksRyan HendriksMese fa
  • So having tattoos is not part of it .Phew ,how insecure those dudes with tats must feel after watching this .

    Michael ClonarisMichael ClonarisMese fa
  • While I’m happy to hear those reviews at the end were positive, part of me simply can not let the introvert-to-extrovert thing slip past. Introverts can not become extroverts, and extroverts can not become introverts. That guy was probably just what we call a shy extrovert who now just got better people-skills, or he’s still an introvert. Introversion/extroversion primarily affects where you get your energy, not whether you’re socially incapable or not.

    LethalOwlLethalOwlMese fa
  • The part about maintaining eye contact and low voice doesn’t really work for me. There’s someone I work with in a deli and continues to disrespect me. He never makes eye contact and it’s loud in the deli. I can’t even use this tactic but I think it would make the biggest difference

    Chill VibesChill VibesMese fa
  • Um Persian Emperor? That was the King of Frankia.

    EdithaeEdithaeMese fa
  • No offense but how do you mispronounce Lothbrok when they pronounce it many many times in the show

    Lachlan WoodLachlan WoodMese fa
  • i love how you clearly don't know who Ragnarr was in real life

    StalinbsStalinbsMese fa
  • Why do we look at tv and interviews as true social situations? Get a clue

    nahnahMese fa
  • Always so interesting and fun to watch 👌

    nana ildarnana ildarMese fa
  • Thanks

    BegguiabdelhadiBegguiabdelhadiMese fa
  • I want Ivar boneless

    Ivar NecronIvar NecronMese fa
  • Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

    Rocking RondaRocking Ronda2 mesi fa
  • You are basing your life advice on how a character in a fictional story succeeded.

    KairosGymnosKairosGymnos2 mesi fa
  • I used to find myself (woman in hijab) in situations where i am not heard and need to repeat myself. especially in group discussions. i started developing self-taught technics, and most of them i found here in your videos which boosts my confidence a bit and also, now, helps me develop technics faster. I overcame my issue of not being heard by speaking in an engaging slow tone and eye contact throughout the discussion. Now 2 or 3 years into practice I started noticing that people ask me to speak and love listening to what ideas i have. Got to say thank you, a lot of developing was throughout your channel on youtube.

    Nuha El HaddadNuha El Haddad2 mesi fa
  • "Cut my bonds and give me the sword." "Would you deny me the right to enter Valhalla?"

    razorMonkeyrazorMonkey2 mesi fa
  • In movies. In practice?

    Ivan IvanovicIvan Ivanovic2 mesi fa
  • I dont hate the uber wealthy and I don't respect Elon musk

    The new PrepperThe new Prepper2 mesi fa
  • love how it goes from some friendly advice on how to be respected to a sales pitch not cool man not cool

    gamer tasticgamer tastic2 mesi fa
  • He was a farmer but never simple.

    Cristhian Bryan Mercado CespedesCristhian Bryan Mercado Cespedes2 mesi fa
  • dog

    gothsorrowsuffergothsorrowsuffer2 mesi fa
  • why no captions?

    Rajesh Nikam YTRajesh Nikam YT2 mesi fa
  • Ragnor has watched this video and followed it step by step to become the king.

    RetroGun777RetroGun7772 mesi fa
  • Please do video about how to be respected like Oscar Schindler from movie "Schindler's list"

    misavnmisavn3 mesi fa
  • That "I & MY" scene in the bed is exactly how you get women to instantly lose attraction to you even if you've been together for years.

    John BishopJohn Bishop3 mesi fa
  • Ragnar is the ultimate Chad idc what anyone says

    VerquinnVerquinn3 mesi fa
  • Winning at life the Ragnar way

    United Defensive TacticsUnited Defensive Tactics3 mesi fa
  • This piece of land , that piece land with lots of wealth

    JinBo HimselfJinBo Himself3 mesi fa
  • A real man dont afraid public speaking , go directly towards his goals , dont afraid rejections , be a leader in companies , lead girls to my circles

    JinBo HimselfJinBo Himself3 mesi fa
  • Thanks for sharing.

    Tim FavreauTim Favreau3 mesi fa
  • Valhalla isn't just heaven. It is the place for only the weapon killed men to fight and die every day to be resurrected after the battles are over and feast at night to do it all over again the next day. Till Ragnarock comes...

    GitOutta MyWayGitOutta MyWay3 mesi fa
  • what is line between psychopath and leader. hmmm. kills dispassionately, lacks empathy, grandiosity...

    Daeran GallDaeran Gall3 mesi fa
  • It’s a series.....he’s an actor

    t.rippy pancakest.rippy pancakes3 mesi fa
  • You dont need respect from anybody you only need to respect yourself the rest will come

    The WandererThe Wanderer3 mesi fa
  • lagertha was garbage raggy was better off

    Musta KrackishMusta Krackish3 mesi fa
  • Ragnar was like the Jack Sparrow of that show.

  • You can‘t command respect , unless you want to be taken for a moron. You can only earn it.

    John MalkovitchJohn Malkovitch3 mesi fa
    • Yup

      JinBo HimselfJinBo Himself3 mesi fa
  • #1. Be what others want to be. #2 Play off others wants and desires. #3. Stay calm and grounded in stressful situations. #4 Don't ask others to do what you wouldn't do yourself. #5 Show compassion to those whom deserve it.

    Thyme to DreamThyme to Dream3 mesi fa
  • Power goes to whoever stoops lowest to pick it up - Ragnar Lofbrook

    Andrew HillAndrew Hill3 mesi fa
  • The eye contact and low clam voice does magic. I learned along time ago that I don't have to like you, but if we have to work together we work, have made some friends that way.

    dominic nortondominic norton3 mesi fa
    • I learned it a hard way , lots of slav girls gave me signs 🥰

      JinBo HimselfJinBo Himself3 mesi fa
  • The well-known TV series about Vikings, like everything else described, is totally historically false, from the history of reality. The so-called Vikings, who at that time were not called Vikings, had a completely different culture, a completely different clothing, a completely different hairstyle, and behaved completely differently than the media creates them. It is probably not a people or culture that has become more falsified in history than what many call Vikings .. !!! Written by a Dane .. !!!

    Henrik LorenzenHenrik Lorenzen3 mesi fa
  • Choosing to learn something new every day will give you a reason to grown and change. This could be something as simple as driving to work via a different route or signing up for guitar lessons.

    Arrogant Knats BCNArrogant Knats BCN3 mesi fa
  • Ragnar makes everyone want to shave their head and grow a beard.

    NihilTimendumEstNihilTimendumEst3 mesi fa
  • I don't believe in demanding it.. I think you should earn it🙏😁👏✌

    Greater-VisionGreater-Vision3 mesi fa
  • charisma on command should cover King Alfreds character in the Last Kingdom

    Average AlienAverage Alien3 mesi fa
  • TL;DR: *blood eagle* on all the ones daring to still disagree with you.

    Giacomo SorbiGiacomo Sorbi3 mesi fa
  • Please make one on Ivar the boneless

    Hector BeaufortHector Beaufort3 mesi fa
  • You should make a video tell for us why Ateustam was so loved...

    LucasMaiaLucasMaia3 mesi fa
  • The Biden advert was ironic

    VitlausVitlaus3 mesi fa

  • Raid northumbria

    Hh КришнаHh Кришна3 mesi fa
  • They should rename the channel the Chad Factory.

    I Don't Like SandI Don't Like Sand3 mesi fa
  • With subtitles in Spanish please!

    Maria Raquel Cuéllar ReyesMaria Raquel Cuéllar Reyes3 mesi fa
  • The FBI is undoubtedly looking for Matpat

    Samuel LoosmoreSamuel Loosmore3 mesi fa
  • Do one on Rihanna pleeeaaaseeee!

    Georgiana PetuGeorgiana Petu4 mesi fa
  • Uhhh ... have you been following Elon Musk lately? He's a tool like the others. He utterly failed to protect his workers and joked about coups that killed innocents and benefited him.

    HiThereImFootlooseHiThereImFootloose4 mesi fa
  • Make on Capt Raghu Raman

    chandan mohantachandan mohanta4 mesi fa
  • Finally a video on this awesome super badass character. Tysm 👍

    TylerTyler4 mesi fa