How To Impress Someone You Admire

16 dic 2019
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It’s frustratingly common to get completely tongue tied when we’re in front of people we’d like to impress. Which is doubly unfortunate because it’s often those situations that could lead to us landing a great new job, connecting with a mentor, or even dating someone we’re smitten with.
That’s why in this video I want to cover how you can avoid that awkward trap and impress the people you admire by standing out in a positive way. To do that, we’ll be referencing someone who has done it many times: Sean Evans of Hot Ones.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
1:38 - #1: Ask questions beyond the obvious ones.
3:09 - #2: Use the question preamble.
4:48 - #3: Steer conversation towards things that elicit emotion.
7:40 - #4: Tease playfully / have fun.
9:18 - #5: Comfortably express disagreement.
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  • good'

    hamid nkhhamid nkhGiorno fa
  • So step one, ask game show/TV interview type questions (hopefully you have a staff doing some research for you). A minute in and this video is really killing it...

    Ucansvckitz McCommieUcansvckitz McCommie5 giorni fa
  • If you want to impress someone, be a stalker.

    Andrew CranerAndrew Craner6 giorni fa
  • Narduar does this to an even more extreme degree than sean evans

    TJhandford524TJhandford5247 giorni fa
  • I researched too much before asking something to my crush and now she probably thinks I am stalker.

    ForeignerForeigner7 giorni fa
  • Thinking of those not obvious questions is tough tho 🤔🤔

    Michael SolaresMichael Solares7 giorni fa
  • There are dead people in this video

    ItzFisHItzFisH10 giorni fa
  • Nardwuar is the undisputed champion, though.

    Gonzalo Morales SánchezGonzalo Morales Sánchez11 giorni fa
  • This could be about Nardwuar too

    Roy BranitzkyRoy Branitzky11 giorni fa
  • He is using many of the techniques in the perennially relevant 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' by Dale Carnegie published in the 1930s or 40s.

    Reuven GershonReuven Gershon14 giorni fa
  • best and worst might not work as well in France as we tend to complain as an habit to get out stuff out of our chest. ;) I remember being really happy to go to the UK and go away from that and then finding myself so happy after living in the UK, to come back and just complain about everything and realise that it's actually a healthy thing to do (of course as with all things with various degrees, there is , even in France, too much complaining). Then again I feel like complaining and us having more rights (or at least defending those who are constantly under attack for the past decades now) because we strike so much might have some corrolation ;) Also I believe, even though charisma has a role, we tend to not really need it that much, because we like to argue and debate and be sarcastic and complain, and that makes usually for either a great conversation or a bad one even if it backfires , but it's never boring , well in the majority of cases at least.

    s3lfFishs3lfFish16 giorni fa
  • Can you do a video about how to be charismatic in a clickey environment?

    Mike TufaroMike Tufaro19 giorni fa
  • Nardwar does his research

    ThinSlicedThinSliced20 giorni fa
  • Is them saying “that’s a great questions” they really thinking that? Or is it just them being stumped and needing time to think ?

    silversilver24 giorni fa
  • Takeaways: Less obvious questions, get them to talk about something they care about, be well researched, ask best and worst questions

    Sidra KamalSidra Kamal24 giorni fa
  • he reminds me of nardwaur

    Jeremy GilmoreJeremy GilmoreMese fa
  • How many hit records do you have son?? James brown to new band member that questioned his musical judgment.

    Maurice drewMaurice drewMese fa
  • "Have you ever killed anyone?" _Uncomfortable silence_ "Not in America, no."

    ballybunion9ballybunion9Mese fa
  • Dude, the best hosts are shaved bald, I have to shave bald to achieve top host charisma!

    Dark GodDark GodMese fa
  • Man, I wish I could show this to Amy from Brooklyn 99 so that she´d stop messing up every sing time he speaks to Holt This is definitely one of my favourites yet, good video! : )

    MarvelFan01MarvelFan01Mese fa
  • During an interview I was asked if I had any special skills I didn't mention yet. I replied: "head BBQ chef at the company picnic"

    Gary RussGary RussMese fa
  • God entered into my body, like a body. my same size. worlds only holy ghost filled man. God attacks me. God rips my face, shoots into mouth, gum disease. Jesus appears.laughs

    God has come into my body, as a angelic fire bodyGod has come into my body, as a angelic fire bodyMese fa
  • 5:40

    Gilbert LuisGilbert LuisMese fa
  • If someone asked me any of those questions I would be...." I don't know, why ?"

    wolfgangouillewolfgangouilleMese fa
  • "Oh wow, that's a great question" simply means "I need to think".

    Kapitan DupaKapitan Dupa2 mesi fa
  • you should have put Nardwuar as well

    pringles13pringles132 mesi fa
  • Dude is dorky and kinda bland but you can't help but respect everything about his game because he's so damn well informed

    ThereIsNoTry VThereIsNoTry V3 mesi fa
  • I think you’re trying to teach something unteachable. Look at the humorous moments a little more. Idk if it’s possible or not. The “Coolio” comment you cannot nor will not ever teach. I appreciate what you do though.

    Reaction to! AITA? You will NEVER AGREE with me!Reaction to! AITA? You will NEVER AGREE with me!3 mesi fa
  • what does "to mc someone" mean? 3:28

    LmvaoLmvao3 mesi fa
  • 8:15 that wasn't just an off-the-cuff comback but also a callback to a hip hop awards segment on The Pete Holmes Show where Snoop Dogg gave him that nickname. Shaun is awesome!

    Derrek SantariDerrek Santari3 mesi fa
  • Clickbait

    Robbo StrongRobbo Strong3 mesi fa
  • Anyone ever sign up for there program? If so did it help?

    Daniel GarciaDaniel Garcia3 mesi fa
  • I'm really starting to get annoyed with Audible 😒. I will be unlikely to be a customer of theirs.

    Joey BrightJoey Bright4 mesi fa
  • Joe Rogan is no longer a reliable source he said video games are bad.

    A High HippoA High Hippo4 mesi fa
  • idkkk but i do think this is the best episode of CoC

    Maria Kayla AugustaMaria Kayla Augusta4 mesi fa
  • “It’s the show with hot questions and even hotter wings.” Save yourself 13 minutes.

    getyourecongetyourecon4 mesi fa
  • A video on folks that when threatened can be harsh. Almost get angry. Would be helpful

    Joe HooperJoe Hooper4 mesi fa
  • This videos are so well done. Good job

    lukas gasniklukas gasnik4 mesi fa
  • 1. ask killer questions beyond the obvious ones 00:28 2. use the question preamble to connect on a personal level 03:09 3. steer conversations towards the other persons emotion or passions 04:52 4. tease playfully and have some fun 07:37 5. comfortably express disagreement 09:12

    Saul EspinozaSaul Espinoza4 mesi fa
  • 6:54-7:03: How come the bottles are never moved, opened or even unwrapped accross interviews?

    preben nielsenpreben nielsen4 mesi fa
  • So I was not wrong about sean

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  • I always ask hella questions and usually it ends in "i don't usually do this but"

    ThemixmusicandmoreThemixmusicandmore4 mesi fa
  • Do you think preceding a disagreement or criticism with a compliment, like you pointed out with joe rogan, might come across as disingenuous or undermine your candor or integrity? (i.e. a hero sandwich)

    Shawn CothranShawn Cothran4 mesi fa
  • Yah my name is Chuck Norris..everyone thinks they ate making an original joke when they find this out..after 40 yrs it gets really lame and hacky

    BlixxBlixx4 mesi fa
  • The guy talking sounds like Shaun evens

    uvelebahleke ulymlyashibilikauvelebahleke ulymlyashibilika4 mesi fa
  • I see his stuff in snapchat, great host

    lights473lights4734 mesi fa
  • 1:04 this guy is asking the dumbest questions... you dont ask vague convoluted questions to "impress" someone. You do that when you need to talk and have nothing to talk about.

    Vito ScalettaVito Scaletta4 mesi fa
  • Shawn Evans gets his knowledge from his bald head absorbing the power from the sun like a solar panel

    Ragingbull GamesRagingbull Games4 mesi fa
  • Everyone answers with : That’s a great question 🙄

    Dora MamaniniDora Mamanini4 mesi fa
  • I love the "Hot Wings" show....Sean is the greatest host.

    Rogue ArtRogue Art4 mesi fa
  • A ... *BUDDY* ... of mine

    Karolis ValeikaKarolis Valeika5 mesi fa
  • This just made me want fried chicken

    Philip KunkelPhilip Kunkel5 mesi fa
  • 4:14 ó o bruxo

    Rafael VelosoRafael Veloso5 mesi fa
  • that guy in the white T-shirt, don't know him, but i know the meme

    vishan singhvishan singh5 mesi fa
  • Thanks guy from Hot Ones

    AEBIOUSAEBIOUS5 mesi fa
  • Sean Evans can dig up some info on his interviewees but there's someone way better at that. His name is Nardwuar

    Saul RamirezSaul Ramirez5 mesi fa
  • Naudrwar should interview Sean...

    Ejim JEjim J5 mesi fa
  • Seeing Idris Elba made all the memes come to mind lmaoo

    TrevsTrevs5 mesi fa
  • Sean Evans really is a terrific interviewer; clearly he does his homework. It's no wonder he gets all these celebs. And what a great concept for a series!

    Todd TrimbleTodd Trimble5 mesi fa
  • Without taking any credit from Sean Evans, I think people say, "That's a great question" to buy some time to respond.

    SriniSrini5 mesi fa
  • I can really relate to all this. I work as a Psych Nurse and I interact with our patients in oh so many ways that you mentioned in this clip. It’s when I connect that I enjoy my job the most. Doesn’t always last. But then again.. Hey... It’s a Psych Ward If I can lighten the load then, job well done.

    Albert DanielsAlbert Daniels5 mesi fa
  • These are great tips! Love it. I have a question though. If you were to start a conversation with someone that you repeatedly interact, you'll tend to run out of "researchable questions", and eventually resort to the typical "How are you?" or "How was your weekend?" question, how do you avoid to do that with someone you already know and engage with on a frequent basis?

    ChangstaChangsta5 mesi fa
  • When I'm at a job interview and they hit me with the notorious "Why do you want to work here?", I just tell them "I need money. You want me to do a thing to get money, so I will do the thing". Then I tell them I don't understand why it's such an unacceptable answer. Majority of the time they respect it and hire me on the spot. Some of them would rather hear "Ah yes it is a good company because reasons and I like this company haha".

    GummyGummy5 mesi fa
  • Nobody: Almost one guy but actually nobody: Jeff Wittek: So... How'd ya get ya start?

    ChurninButtaChurninButta5 mesi fa
  • So now I actually don't feel that bad about "doing my research" before going on a date xD

    Nadia UlrichNadia Ulrich5 mesi fa
  • On the flipside, if someone asks you a question you've heard way too many times, try not to get annoyed. Have a concise response available and move on.

    EVAhazardEVAhazard5 mesi fa
  • This is, in my opinion, similar to what Nardwuar does in an interview.

    ChacheChache6 mesi fa
  • I like your videos man 👏🏻

    E. StaringE. Staring6 mesi fa
  • This is the movie interviewer aquivelent of Nardwuar

    FubzFubz6 mesi fa
  • Sean Evans and Nardwuar are both the most impressive in their research abilities

    paskerospaskeros6 mesi fa
  • How about going for a Charisma Bypass Reversal on the President .. it’s clear that he’s had a bypass but the reversals apparently are hit & miss.

    FNQ-88FNQ-886 mesi fa
  • I think this can all be summed up by saying, have a genuine interest in the people you talk to. A lot of those talk show circuit interviews (Maybe except Conan) are just to fill time. The hosts really don't care about your answers. Also the interview is pre-rehearsed so how genuine can it really be?

    Mel ManMel Man6 mesi fa
  • His interviews aren't really about whatever movie they are promoting but the interviewer themselves.

    Jeremy flower powerJeremy flower power6 mesi fa
  • run nardwaur his check

    the last chronicles of nixthe last chronicles of nix6 mesi fa
  • I remember I had an interview in a high tech company and I was extremely under qualified. I researched the interviewer online before the interview and found out he had a couple of patents. I brought that up while he was walking me from the lobby to the interview room. He was so shocked I even knew about it and I got the internship the next day.

    haytham haklahaytham hakla6 mesi fa
  • I bet Sean Evans learned from watching Nardwaur

    nerveroddorevennerveroddoreven6 mesi fa
  • What is this never ending complexity of thoughts that comes with maturity? I like it

    Cesar TresvallesCesar Tresvalles6 mesi fa
  • 1. Asking killer questions. (Ask the questions beyond the obvious ones) 2. Use the question preamble. 3. Steer questions towards emotions. 4. Tease playfully. 5. Comfortably express disagreement.

    EmGee VicEmGee Vic6 mesi fa
  • this is exceptional

    egdapoegdapo6 mesi fa
  • Put yourself in their shoes. It's that simple. But that would make for a very brief video.

    misterjagmisterjag6 mesi fa
  • Nardwar + not so nerdy vibe

    Teo Larrosa GranollerasTeo Larrosa Granolleras6 mesi fa
  • Me not having video on and only listening, then looking for a second and seeing Brad Leone. What is Bon Appetit doing here???

    Thirze WeemhoffThirze Weemhoff6 mesi fa
  • This is idiotic, Sean is interviewing them, a totally different dynamic to a normal conversation. Asking 'How was it' to someone who came back from holiday is perfectly fine - it allows them to talk about whatever aspect of the holiday they want to. Asking 'Ok, what was the best food you ate there?' is a bit more specific and will often lead to a short, uninteresting answer that they're unable to link to another idea and continue the flow of the conversation and simply put you in the position of thinking of more follow-ups.

    AlbanZapAlbanZap6 mesi fa
  • Sean is someone who deserves to be admired (:

    TrygatorTrygator6 mesi fa
  • I came in here to comment on the thumbnail. Apparently it takes 13 minutes to tell you to "Use this phrase". Just tell me in less than a minute. Then I've got it and I'm off to impress. Gotta run. See you later

    Vaughan HamiltonVaughan Hamilton6 mesi fa
  • I started skeptical, and finished impressed. New subscriber.

    CzechboundCzechbound6 mesi fa
  • thought the guy in the thumbnail was dana white

    TheWatermelon3TheWatermelon36 mesi fa
  • How to impress someone you admire, or someone in general. Watch a few of Nardwuar's interviews and try to mimic some of his manic preparation abilities. It will impress everyone.

    D StyerD Styer6 mesi fa
  • where is the joe rogan link i would like to watch it

    BenksBenks6 mesi fa
  • Sean Evans is like the celebrity whisperer! Also, his humility is a definite plus. He’s the right balance of admirer, intelligence, and chill! I love him. ♥️🙌🏼💯

    Sunny DaySunny Day6 mesi fa
  • people like this express the truth for truth's sake doing so makes people like this greatly appreciated I like communities like this

    GalaxyOfReeses KIngGalaxyOfReeses KIng6 mesi fa
  • Lmao he didnt have to do Rudd like that

    Bob RogersBob Rogers6 mesi fa
  • As someone who is socially awkward and maybe even on the autism spectrum... this channel surprisingly helps me a lot! 🙆‍♀️

    6Meilin6Meilin6 mesi fa
  • So we’re just not gonna mention Nardwar?

    Łęűwīņ Řøbbįñś đąvęűwīņ Řøbbįñś đąvîş6 mesi fa
  • Nobody told England that we're not allowed to complain. (I love Sean Evans)

    FrankiValerieFrankiValerie6 mesi fa
  • That time Brenden Schab beat multiple Gonaga's at once

    maximum momomaximum momo6 mesi fa
  • I always liked his kinda calm body language

    TroppTropp6 mesi fa
  • *So I guess bald white men are really good hosts?*

    Deano SpumoniDeano Spumoni6 mesi fa
  • Who's the celebrity at 2:30(Sorry,I don't watch much movies or listen to songs)

    Lt. Touch MeLt. Touch Me6 mesi fa
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