The #1 Dating Mistake Men Make With Women

18 feb 2019
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Dating certainly isn’t easy, and if you’re like me, you may have had made some mistakes in your dating life.
These are the mistakes that actually resulted in why my ex and I broke up… If I simply understand what I was doing wrong, chances are we still would’ve had an awesome relationship.
Since I’ve realized these common dating errors, it’s had a tremendous benefit on my life and I want to share them with you.

3:57 - Point #1: Don’t Go Anywhere You Don’t Want To Go
4:23 - Point #2: Don’t Stick To Things That Are Safe
4:50 - Point #3 See If You Have Created A Split Personality
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  • What to say if a girl ask you this? What’s the one thing that never fails to light up your smile?

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  • I have my first date in two days and I'm so nervy

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