6 Easy Ways To Charm Anyone

27 lug 2020
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Hugh Jackman is one of the most charming people in Hollywood. The best part about his style of charisma is that once you get it down, it’s effortless. Specifically, Hugh has 6 habits that make him charming to almost anyone he meets. After you learn a few of these habits, you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll find it’s easy to make people smile, laugh, and love being around you.

0:00 - Intro.
0:40 - #1: Reframe the situations that make you nervous.
2:04 - #2: Be contagiously positive.
4:10 - #3: Give yourself permission to admit to emotions beyond happiness.
5:03 - #4: Own your flaws and don't be afraid to talk about them.
6:37 - #5: Tell sticky stories.
7:47 - #6: Make the people around you feel special.
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  • it's actually rather easy when you're Huge Jacked Man

    Andrew MoncadaAndrew MoncadaGiorno fa
  • Dude, you are killing it this channel has got to be one of the best on youtube for self-improvement. I've now got a girl I've never dreamed of being able to have a relationship with. I want to say thank you for helping me become the person I've always wanted to be. I know you probably won't see this but I just needed to put it out there.

    Ethan CostelloEthan CostelloGiorno fa
  • Thx for the great video! But I always wonder if the fact that all the people you "breakdown" here are famous and successful plays a big part in their charisma... I mean... people treat publicly famous people VERY differently so...

    Yoav HanukaYoav Hanuka2 giorni fa
  • Heard that kids? Being good looking, rich, and famous has nothing to do with it, it's all about hooking people up with your "awesome" stories, you see? even if you are unattractive, homeless, or sick just put on a smile, make exaggerated expressions, and tell everyone you meet, whether they asked you or not, all about your life, that will ensure great interactions with strangers, especially good looking females. They just love a man who can't stop talking about himself. You can also pay for my course for more awesome tips like that, which will 100% work as you can see with to these few samples of hand-picked reviews I have here. No refunds btw, if you fail that's on you. Stay positive friendos :D

    Deutsches VolkDeutsches Volk2 giorni fa
  • I love all the HIMYM clips.

    The Gaming Onion!The Gaming Onion!4 giorni fa
  • A positive to not liking to talk about yourself is that you prefer talking about the person with whom you’re conversing.

    M Roseman41M Roseman415 giorni fa
  • So be someone else.

    free2free27 giorni fa
  • 9:14 he also made her lean forward ;)

    Explicit AnthonyExplicit Anthony9 giorni fa
  • Van Helsing was a great movie

    anthos332anthos33211 giorni fa
  • Emily Blunt... Well she does express things very Bluntly

    Basundhara PaulBasundhara Paul11 giorni fa
  • what a great video! thanks!

    G a r b a g e TMG a r b a g e TM12 giorni fa
  • 10:45 Does anyone know what movie this is??

    Rose_goldRose_gold14 giorni fa
  • I’m waiting on an analysis of Biden’s Charisma, I find it confusing!

    Truth SayerTruth Sayer14 giorni fa
  • I simply hate people in general so being positive and charming just isn't my thing

    Vitany MikaelsonVitany Mikaelson15 giorni fa
  • The problem I come across trying to use any of these tips in regular conversation is that everyone just interrupts you 5 seconds into your sentence......it's become a social norm to cut in whenever you feel like it it drives me nuts!

    KrisJM1234KrisJM123415 giorni fa
  • great video guys!

    Eva LizEva Liz16 giorni fa
  • Ask questions to see if you like them, do 85% because more realistic, positive

    Sidra KamalSidra Kamal16 giorni fa
  • This should be a podcast

    Rufina SharonRufina Sharon17 giorni fa
  • i completely forgot that wolverene is a real person

    Tanaka FupaTanaka Fupa19 giorni fa
  • I loved van helsing

    Andy MAndy M23 giorni fa
  • He is a ♎, and libra people are naturally so charming and chrismatic.

    Maryam MuazamMaryam Muazam23 giorni fa
  • Hugh Jaskson is a libra and maybe tahts why he is charming

    Sushant Singh Rajput die hard fanSushant Singh Rajput die hard fan26 giorni fa
  • #7: Be born confident

    The citizen of the internetThe citizen of the internetMese fa
  • Seems all of these videos have a common theme.. Step 1: Be extremely attractive. Do a video on charismatic fugly people if you actually want to help people.

    DisgustingDisgustingMese fa
  • Van Helsing is a fun time. Sometimes people take popcorn flicks too seriously. 🤷🏽‍♂️

    Emperor MegasEmperor MegasMese fa
  • Tell people GIVE ME 110 % OR GIVE ME 85%

  • Grow some claws

    Thapelo RamafokoThapelo RamafokoMese fa
  • U can be positive when your rich and gd looking

    Wilma dickfit?Wilma dickfit?Mese fa
  • All these doesn't work if your ugly lol

    Kishore KumarKishore KumarMese fa
  • this is all great, solid, practical advice. I was thrilled to learn I eagerly employ all of these techniques when I'm addressing someone or telling a story- Right on down to spreading eye contact around! Whether consciously or not that's the secret to fearless engagements and my love for public speaking. Over the years I've employed all of these "tricks" (I never viewed them as such, I'm just a very sincere person and I love buttering people up and paying compliments because when people tell me they love to be around me because I make them feel good- well, to me that's just about the best compliment I can get, wouldnt you agree!?) so often and effortlessly they have seemingly become second nature. I believe in doing so consistently without thinking about it to be a testament to your genuine interest and ability to relate to others in itself. There's much to be said for positive social interactions, confidence earned through sincerety and a skillset including the ability to 'work the room'. Curious still, I'll admit here that I grapple with and often succumb to insecurity but I am a human after all! That being said, I can't endorse this video or advice more! What a find. YET it's probably best not to post this on peoples' walls or blow up their feed or repost to their timeline. I cant wait to DISCREETLY share this with those I've seen struggle with such universal (yet often unaddressed + overlooked) things.

    Jay SharpJay SharpMese fa
  • Hugh Jackman is a genuinely nice man. Just being a decent human being helps make you more likeable.

    The Solar NERDThe Solar NERDMese fa
  • I love these videos. I struggle with being awkward because I'm autistic so I'm trying to learn how to interact

    Matthew SappMatthew SappMese fa
  • What he said about approaching auditions like they were rehearsals is DEFINITELY a very effective ability. Job interviews were something that I've always been good at. If I made it to the interview stage I knew my chances of being offered the job were good. I had a sort of mentor when I was younger, in my teens early 20s. He was just one of these people that you meet them, and after 5 minutes if talking you suddenly find yourself making plans with them to do something, and from that point on it seems like you've known them for years. He was in sales, and it was something I went into as a results. Some of the skills I developed as a result, I brought with me right out of the gate. When it comes to job interviews, MANY people aren't really able to accurately gauge how they interview actually went. They come out and are confident that it went great, only to not get the offer. Many times they find out that they actually kind of blew it early in the interview and had no idea. With me it wasn't that I had a huge toolbox of techniques or tricks. Nor did I have a script or outline that I used for every interview. I knew that if by the time they interview was over, i found that if the interviewer was answering more of my questions, then I was answering theirs, it usually went well. This is especially true in interviews for sales positions. I didn't even necessarily have any specific questions I was asking about, as long as they pertained to the position or the company, it seemed to work out well. It doesn't even have to be during the middle of that interview. Sometimes, I wouldn't be able to ask the questions until it actually ended. We'd finish ever they'd wrap up with the "do you have any questions for me?" Which I think most of the time, is just something the interviewer says to cap it off, and don't actually expect you to ask them any. It basically it's just kind of trying to switch the narrative in some way from them interviewing YOU to see if you'd be a good fit, to you interviewing THEM to see if the component is a good fit. Anyway, that's how it's worked out for me.

    tim whitetim whiteMese fa
  • So... being stupendously good looking and talented has nothing to do with it then.

    Kevin PeatKevin PeatMese fa
  • 10:00

    shawn burnhamshawn burnhamMese fa
  • Have you done any video in which you used barney stinson (neil Patrick) as an example??

    Hanumath SandeepHanumath SandeepMese fa
  • Anyone else love van healing (Critic reviews or not) or is that just me?

    Jay BelewJay BelewMese fa
  • My biggest problem watching these videos is realizing I already do all of this naturally anyways. Yet it never seems to be enough.

    Adam NowakAdam NowakMese fa
  • I dont care what anyone says, Van Helsing was amazing.

    Drusif SmashingtonDrusif SmashingtonMese fa
  • Are you in love with Hugh Jackman or something?

    Francesca #KETO #OMAD ** SunrisePeoniesLab on EtsyFrancesca #KETO #OMAD ** SunrisePeoniesLab on EtsyMese fa
  • Hughes face looks like it’s photoshopped onto someone else in every frame

    Jackson CarterJackson CarterMese fa
  • Love Hugh!!!! One of my favorite movies is The Greatest Showman

    zeldahopperzeldahopperMese fa
  • Me: a couch potato Also me: ahh yes this will def work

    jacob warrenjacob warrenMese fa
  • who is the woman on the right side at 10:28 ?

    Brid SoetrisnoBrid SoetrisnoMese fa
  • Dear Charisma on Demand, what if I don’t feel genuine about anything because I’m not impressed or indifferent about a lot of people ?

    Tashtan TashiTashtan TashiMese fa
  • God, I just love Hugh Jackman, and before he was even The Wolverine, my dad & mine's favorite character of all time. There was a time in my life, when I would watch Kate & Leopold three times a year just to feel good and find the strength to keep going. To this day, that is still my number one guilty pleasure film - every time I feel down or sense that I'm going to be depressed, I just don't think about it anymore, I immediately watch that film. And ever since, he (both Hugh & Leopold) has been my template of how to be a man, and especially, one rightful of a lady's. I haven't convinced my Kate to follow me back to my time & live happily ever after, granted, but I will get there eventually. Hugh Jackman makes me believe that it is possible. Wow, that was so hopeless romantic of me, but whatever. Thanks for being such a great inspiration, man!

    wayfaringshamanwayfaringshamanMese fa
  • Compliments work best if there is initially mutual respect.

    ExhumedXxXxExhumedXxXx2 mesi fa
  • When aliens come to earth, this channel will be their communication course.

    The Last Air VendorThe Last Air Vendor2 mesi fa
  • Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

    Rocking RondaRocking Ronda2 mesi fa
  • Number three I used to do all the time without realising. Whenever I could tell someone was ashamed of their sadness or something they were going through. I'd share a moment of sadness and doubt of mine to make them feel more comfortable and open and it works every time! The only thing you don't do is make it about you. You let them know that it's nothing to be ashamed of and that they're safe with you. But share a short story of yours and then put the focus back on to them :) Love you everyone! Wishing you happiness and confidence!

    nϒhnϒh2 mesi fa
  • Jackman is my favorite male actor! He really is amazing at the craft. Great video, thank you!!

    Gaffe GiraffeGaffe Giraffe2 mesi fa
  • And he plays wolverine

    Max4MillionMax4Million2 mesi fa
  • coool!!!

    Mayank ShankarMayank Shankar2 mesi fa
  • You forget one simple rule. You can disagree all you want. Sure all these help. But they almost do not help alot in our current society if you don't have a pretty face. You can use those things to help yourself feel better but as i said in our society it's all about good looks. If you have them and still struggle these things can help you fairly well.

    Justin CaseJustin Case2 mesi fa
  • Van Helsing was great tho

    Caitlynn PCaitlynn P2 mesi fa
  • Just be Nice to yourself. And the rest will follow. Charisma cant be copied it comes from within. I was charismatic for a span of life about 5 - 10 yrs. And I could feel that people would want to come and meet me, talk to me, glare at me in tube...try to be friends with me...tell me im a nice guy....so much So that a. friend of mine Wept to tell me that dont be so nice and genuine....bcoz ppl around dont get what i mean.... Slowly i stopped being nice....just to fkup things for myself ....to give up on that Nice guy image... And gradually lost all my charisma.... i have made ppl distance of me now... from friends to family to every single place. So all in all its in your mindset. Try to implement all those points mentioned above to yourself....it would sound silly if i try to explain ALL those points But ... the very first step is to have an eye contact with ur self first....whenever u stand in front of the mirror. Look at yourself....have an eye contact... smile.... Acknowledge yourself... this whole body that u have is a fantastic creation....every single aspect of it....once you start to acknowledge you learn to appreciate... Once u appreciate the beauty with you....u learn to appreciate the same beauty when u step out of your house... Then gradually u learn to acknowledge the unique skills each of us has been bestowed with... once u acknowledge ur own skills you will evetually come across likeminded ppl ...or will find some similarities or something to appreciate in ppl around you... Like Hugh was skilled to sing...so he knew the knitty gritty's of it and thats why he could appreciate Emily anf that too quite accurately and genuinely and not just randomly.. APPRECIATE. APPRECIATE.APPRECIATE. Thats the real beauty.... Beauty lies in appreciating good things in Life and thats what made me charismatic. ....its just that one got to be in control and not overwhelming....coz once u taste this being Nice to yourself zone u tend to get hyperactive... also it gets sucking for lot of ppl around u...they start to get jealous....as much as they will pull u down with cheap tricks. so just keep it all subbtle....not for anyone to notice. Slide on with your charisma trail...But do prevent yourself from slipping - Like Me. Cheerios Amigos!!

    nikhil tayshetenikhil tayshete2 mesi fa
  • Love the 85% rule...it’s true.

    M LeeM Lee2 mesi fa
  • I thought Hellsing was great (:

    Jonas BlomJonas Blom2 mesi fa
  • Is that brad pitt at 10:45?? What movie is that?

    Faith XuFaith Xu2 mesi fa
  • I think with all these videos there is an implied assumption that these people are not in the moment, and carefully considering what to say next. Hugh Jackman was a PE teacher, a job that required being jncredibly upbeat and encouraging with people. I think it's more likely a learned trait than a conscious choice he puts effort into.

    Dylan BourqueDylan Bourque2 mesi fa
  • This channel brings so many rules, questions, answers. And so what did you find best way to become funnier, coolest guy in the company? Its good topic for channel but slow down thats what I mean. Too much videos maybe in terms of your financial needs.

    Bozhidar PetrovBozhidar Petrov2 mesi fa
  • does he seem genuine?

    John PalagyeJohn Palagye2 mesi fa
    • @Nikolai Thank you for the great conversation Nikolai hope you are safe and well.

      John PalagyeJohn Palagye2 mesi fa
    • @Nikolai not at all. You're making a judgement based on a few simple statements and questions that I asked about something. I'm trying to understand your perspective though and I appreciate your responding, very interesting. If there is somewhere that I am insecure, which I'm sure there is, I will find it and conquer it :-) And it is awesome the video too which it seems like you agree.

      John PalagyeJohn Palagye2 mesi fa
    • @Nikolai Ok i try to understand things from multiple perspectives, not just one simple minded way of thinking

      John PalagyeJohn Palagye2 mesi fa
    • @Nikolai I'm asking if it seems genuine, I'm not saying if I think it's genuine. I want to understand how others see it.

      John PalagyeJohn Palagye2 mesi fa
    • at 9:30 min just because he's adding context to the compliment, it does not mean he's being genuine, it just means he researched the person or that he knows something about them

      John PalagyeJohn Palagye2 mesi fa
  • Hugh is charming i get it lol

    Alexandria PAlexandria P2 mesi fa
  • its easy, look like hugh jackman and be filthy rich, and you will charm the pants of 90% of all woman, to be real rich does it alone too lol, the age of Harlot :)=

    Rick SanchezRick Sanchez2 mesi fa
  • 12) Earn and do not spend early in life. Make enough money where you don’t really need it. You are in a much stronger position . I call it the F U money

    Jamessr23Jamessr232 mesi fa
  • Its actually not necessary to be contagiously positive. From my experience, making people laugh is the most important way to be sympathetic. I am always acting a bit tilted and annoyed, but by combining this with a constant presence of bonedry humor, I make people laugh and not take my moods that seriousely. You dont have to always be positive, you just have to make others comfortable with your behavior. This is also why silent kids fail to be sympathetic. They act uncomfortable all the time, which makes them 1: obviousely vulnerable to bullys since they see a victim which they can easily target and get funny reactions out of, and 2. makes other people around them feel the same way. Special tip for everyone who is not good at making friends or has low self esteem: Start argueing in forums about everything. Verbal dominance is a huuuge factor when it comes to self-comfort. Someone is verbally attacking you? NEVER stay in the weak position, shoot back. AND, TALK TO PEOPLE. If you think "But they will think im weird", well they certainly will if you dont even try, so nothing is at stake, the situation can only get better

    Elon MustElon Must2 mesi fa
  • Learning from wolverine. Hell yeaa

    theidntheidn2 mesi fa
  • Look at his hand at 3:33 in the occul, this means hail satan 1 god. Every super star actor and celebrity does these hand gestures. It might just be coincidence, or it might be that they are part of the occult that bows down to the order of the illuminati. They choose charismatic people. You can be sure that Bree Larson is not part of the illuminati Freemasons, because her people skills are not good enough to be recruited by them. You have to be charismatic enough for them to want you as part of their group.

    Time SpaceTime Space2 mesi fa
  • These videos are great. It is day 1101 among the humans without being identified as "uncanny".

    Brad SBrad S2 mesi fa
  • sorry but u need to choose subpar looking people science shows we tend to be friendlier and happier around conventionally goodlooking people. And also goodlooking people are naturally confident because people praise them all their lives. Exhibit a: hugh

    lola brinilola brini2 mesi fa
  • i dont have money and i want to join C.U :/

    TheLastShinobiTheLastShinobi2 mesi fa
  • Read the art of seduction

    Ezekiel BrownEzekiel Brown2 mesi fa
  • looks to me likt beta chumps trying too hard.. not impressed

    Gvozden ZmajicGvozden Zmajic2 mesi fa
  • @CharlieHoupert Is calling people out when they don't pay attention to you during handshake a good thing?

    Elisha BrownsElisha Browns3 mesi fa
  • Number 1. Look like Hugh Jackman....

    Gandert Van RamdonkGandert Van Ramdonk3 mesi fa
  • What divides sociopaths/narcissists from you? This is not a rhetorical question.

    Samer HousseinSamer Houssein3 mesi fa
  • I found myself smilling the whole time just by seeing Hugh

    LeapyLeapy3 mesi fa
  • I’m currently studying acting at University and I think the first minute of this video just changed my life.

    Tamra MarieTamra Marie3 mesi fa
  • they are charming because they have been builded and boosted by hollywood, then the consequence is that they're charming because of fame and money. this period works for all videos of this and others similar channels. you don't get it, i'm shocked. you confuse the cause-effect relationship

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  • Van Helsing is AWSOME

    Theo PoliviouTheo Poliviou3 mesi fa

    Michael KrausMichael Kraus3 mesi fa
  • Snake Oil for Every one!!! Type of Salesman.

    Doug HdezDoug Hdez3 mesi fa
  • I don't think this is for introverts

    Remruatkima VuangtuRemruatkima Vuangtu3 mesi fa
  • Ehh seems to hard, can I just be Hugh Jackman instead?

    GokuGoku3 mesi fa
  • I started watching so I could be more charismatic, but I found myself slowly getting interested in Hugh 😂

    Mane KostanyanMane Kostanyan3 mesi fa
  • I don't hate you all. Is it working?

    Random IdiotRandom Idiot3 mesi fa
  • Video: first, be confident Me: ok Video: be positive Me: ok bye

    AnnaAnna3 mesi fa
  • But not if you are a bearded man...

    ERNESTERNEST3 mesi fa
  • You’re comparing an incredibly HOT celeb with a below average guy. But thanks for trying tho

    Venko LessleVenko Lessle3 mesi fa
  • Your videos shows the things that I've been unconsciously doing since I can remember... Which I didn't knew other people are having problems with. You helping them to resolve such challenges is quite amazing and I hope that your channel grew in success even more.

    IzenheartIzenheart3 mesi fa
  • ❤️

  • Anyone here taken charisma university ? What did you think about it?

    Allison MaeAllison Mae3 mesi fa
  • just be Hugh Jackman

    dylan Artsdylan Arts3 mesi fa
  • Huge Yakman

    Tyler HawkinsTyler Hawkins3 mesi fa
  • Uuuhh your goal should not be to charm anyone, that would make you manipulative.

    Azwaa AliAzwaa Ali3 mesi fa
  • ....and being incredibly handsome where most women melt in front of you helps...a little

    jc4jaxjc4jax3 mesi fa
  • Somebody has a crush on Hugh Jackman...

    CameronCameron3 mesi fa
  • just saying ... "CU" in Portuguese means anus, no joke

    Gabriel MoscaGabriel Mosca3 mesi fa
  • I can't believe how good and instructional this video is

    NoPartiesGuyNoPartiesGuy3 mesi fa
  • Hugh Jackman is one of my beloved and favourite actors .but without a beard , He looks pfffffff .lol .

    Moyasser ElgendyMoyasser Elgendy3 mesi fa