The Surprising Psychology Of OnlyFans Simps (Explicit)

5 ott 2020
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With credit card in hand, I signed up for an OnlyFans investigation. What I found surprised me, not only what it said about human psychology, but also the direction that consumerism is taking all of us.

0:00 - Intro
1:26 - #1: Dopamine hooks
3:48 - #2: Recognition, intimacy and community
5:22 - #3: "Guaranteed acceptance"
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    DavidDavidGiorno fa
  • Acceptance can't put food on your table. Or pay your rent. Acceptance is worthless.

    As Pooped By Anakin SkywalkerAs Pooped By Anakin Skywalker2 giorni fa
  • Sad on all levels

    PaLiMo 365PaLiMo 3653 giorni fa
  • Informative video but at the ending, I disagree and say that normal relationships are the same thing though. You pay so they stay with you, and you may get cheated on anyways.

    Walamonga 1313Walamonga 13139 giorni fa
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    Matt SupertrampMatt Supertramp10 giorni fa
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    La Nguyên B TòngLa Nguyên B Tòng10 giorni fa
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    Micheal StoneMicheal Stone10 giorni fa
  • Yo charlie! You unsubscribed right?! You're not on only fans anymore?!

    john the man goodjohn the man good11 giorni fa
  • You have really tried breaking it down, but I still can't understand the psychology behind it all.

    Anthony KimaniAnthony Kimani13 giorni fa
  • This video was an excuse to use only fans “Yeah no I only got it for uh... scientific reasons”

    Jack HousserJack Housser14 giorni fa
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    Laura VergotLaura Vergot15 giorni fa
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    Reinhart AlvaroReinhart Alvaro15 giorni fa
  • Maybe it's my age, but I just don't think it's worth paying money to see a woman naked (or dressed provocatively).

    Aaron722076Aaron72207616 giorni fa
  • The main question now is did Charlie delete his *onlyfans* account?

    The StompArtistThe StompArtist18 giorni fa

  • Wonderfully informative video. Great insight and explanation

    craiginithcraiginith22 giorni fa
  • The first point about the dopamine rush that social media and casinos give explains 100% why I have zero interest. I lack that reward system, mystery actually pisses me off, anticipation frustrates me into to boredom almost instantly. I hate casinos and gambling, I won't continue talking to people if they aren't upfront with me, etc.

    DanielisAwesome52DanielisAwesome5224 giorni fa
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    Red MageRed Mage24 giorni fa
  • Going off this video, I'd be interested to hear your thoughts after experimenting with an AI companion app called Replica. The base version is free and then there are paid tiers I've never explored. On one side, I can see how it can be a tool for working on communication skills, mental health help, and for conversations where one doesn't know how a person would react but I could also see it as a trap. Regardless, I think it's a sphere of today's tech and social landscape that isn't getting the proper attention, positive or negative, that it should be.

    Jacob LevinJacob Levin25 giorni fa
  • so... anyone wanna question why he knew so much about it???? cause he only said OF was where he did research but not the other websites he talks about lol

    Something originalSomething originalMese fa
  • This is not only the best media of any kind I've seen on the psychology of simps after months of looking. It NAILS the description of how dopamine hooks actually work in social media. It's one of the few instances of popular media I've seen that does this correctly. Note the use of the term "dopamine hooks" (totally stealing this) rather than the much more common "dopamine hit" which is EVERYWHERE and is WRONG. You've managed to package this insight into a memorable 2-word phrase. WELL DONE

    Harris HokeHarris HokeMese fa
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    TrueGamer007TrueGamer007Mese fa
  • ‘Two exclamation points” made me spit my drink thanks... terry pratchett I think says 3 is the sign of insanity!!!

    Peter MangerPeter MangerMese fa
  • Love it or hate it, you admit that this business model is clever and suited for today's society. But it's kinda funny when you know more about the truth behind the scene and know how to crack some systems. It's very interesting topic to watch.

    Brian WangBrian WangMese fa
  • Most ppl are pathetic desperado who can't live without someone 'love' them

    Merciless EnemyMerciless EnemyMese fa
  • Nah, I still find it weird lmao 😂😂

    Wannabe ArchitectWannabe ArchitectMese fa
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    Debbin McCarthyDebbin McCarthyMese fa
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    Mario BertrandMario BertrandMese fa
  • Why did this video about porn make me feel lonely and loveless

    CriosCriosMese fa
  • I just have to compliment you on the editing of this video! It is simply stunning and i cannot imagine how long it took!

    BobishBobishMese fa
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    TiozãoTiozãoMese fa
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    Kriss SinghaniaKriss SinghaniaMese fa
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    Chris CockChris CockMese fa
  • It's a symptom how the normal dating market is totally unable to provide offer to so many many men.

    Kwk FortythreeKwk FortythreeMese fa
  • Uhh okay all advertising is “manipulative” technically, like YT video titles for example. A lot of “free” content on PH is stolen or unethical. Some people have specific tastes or prefer supporting someone more directly, and a celeb’s/insta model’s OF is VERY different than a small creator. I like your vids and there was some interesting info, but it seems like a reach to act like it’s an evil scheme or that the only people who pay are desperate for validation/fake intimacy.

    Claudia SpragueClaudia SpragueMese fa
    • Who said it was an evil scheme tho?

      Frankencastle 65Frankencastle 6521 giorno fa
    • So you pay for for somebody's OnlyFans?

      sweet bunnysweet bunnyMese fa
  • OH hey it's not just men paying women. It's also women paying other women and men. Men paying other men. Also non binary and trans people.

    Nina SeverNina SeverMese fa
  • This is the conclusion I came to a while ago, it's the relationship simulation that these guys are drawn to. Easier for them to sit in their insecurities and not make the personal improvements to get an actual girlfriend.

    Greg's VoiceGreg's VoiceMese fa
  • This video is sponsored by only fans

    Austin WuAustin WuMese fa
  • Humans failed deeply

    JP BrusqueJP BrusqueMese fa
  • Still pathetic. At least gambling is paying money to potentially get more money in return. Simping is paying money to get literally nothing in return.

    Dawn RipperDawn RipperMese fa
  • How do you feel after that experience. Did you see catch yourself being a bit hooked up to that website?

    KayKayMese fa
  • Do you have top 10 good books to read about working on conversation skills

    Carlos De La TorreCarlos De La TorreMese fa
  • Yo what's the girl's @ at 7:03

    Twilliam03Twilliam03Mese fa
  • “Investigation” sure... lol jokes good vid

    Esther WarnerEsther WarnerMese fa
  • Ah yes, capitalization and exploitation. Capitalize on your body, exploit the intense urge for human connection. All for the gain of money. It’s literally the master plan.

    Matthew YacksyznMatthew YacksyznMese fa
  • Smart tax write off. Well played, sir.

    Brian NBrian NMese fa
  • So what you're saying is they're even more pathetic than we previously thought?

    MadMusicMadMusicMese fa
  • Очень классно но можно перевести видео про Симов пожалуйста

    Нарик КомарикНарик КомарикMese fa
  • Very interesting

    Matej MiklošMatej MiklošMese fa
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    Abhishek GoswamiAbhishek GoswamiMese fa
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    Olik YcagelOlik YcagelMese fa
  • Virtue signaling by pushing water access for Africans is totally not a dopamine rush.

    Henrik PalmgrenHenrik PalmgrenMese fa
  • Girls on onlyfans are playing life on easy mode. If I ran my country I would outlaw the distribution of pornography.

    V MV MMese fa
    • Sorry she didn’t text you back

      Claudia SpragueClaudia SpragueMese fa
  • can you please do a charisma video on princess Diana?

    Luna MargolisLuna MargolisMese fa
  • So sad this video

    Renzo ValenciaRenzo ValenciaMese fa
  • The amount of Belle Delphine footage in this video...

    Super PasokonSuper PasokonMese fa
  • Charlie: *Makes a fake simp account on onlyfans* Narrator: "Legend has it he's still sleeping on the couch that night"

    King DouchbagKing DouchbagMese fa
  • Im still not paying for stuff i can get for free lol

    hendrix Jeeyhendrix JeeyMese fa
  • This might be the biggest ad for onlyfans to people who are skeptical.

    SDSDMese fa
  • Great video! I’ve always wondering why people are spending so much money on these sites but then again it’s benefits to the content creator as I hear they are making BANK! 💰💰💰

    Education Edge: Finance - Business - Book ChannelEducation Edge: Finance - Business - Book ChannelMese fa
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    Adam NowakAdam NowakMese fa
  • OnlyFans are only for Incels and losers LOL!

    Stable GeniusStable GeniusMese fa
  • It seems that the research was a lot more through than other videos. Also is this a subtle way of saying that you are now on only fans and we should join and follow you.

    Kirsty WalkerKirsty WalkerMese fa
  • I had never heard of Only Fans. Are there people on there that connect with others, but don't take their clothes off?

    VonDa in WonderlandVonDa in WonderlandMese fa
  • When you start the advertising section your voice rises in pitch. If you keep it at the ordinary volume it won't be as obvious.

    Kiri SeraphKiri SeraphMese fa
  • Why wouldn't you find a woman in real life?

    Michael AndersonMichael AndersonMese fa
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  • The fact that OnlyFans has such a solid psychology behind it has only made it more terrifying to me than before

    Sairaj R. KamathSairaj R. KamathMese fa
  • Hope I could give this video 10 likes! Awesome. Thank you Charlie!

    Eve HuangEve HuangMese fa
  • I’d like to thank today’s sponsor onlyfans

    Aziz EmadAziz EmadMese fa
  • Simping for charity

    Thomas Yorkshire IVThomas Yorkshire IVMese fa
  • 'Charisma on command went into 'Black mirror dimension

    i am your bossi am your bossMese fa
  • Wait a Minute ....... tWiTch

    kukusespuertkukusespuertMese fa
  • Women with hobbies & interests?! I'm in.

    MaxwellMaxwellMese fa
  • The home of simping empire OMEGALUL pathetic...

    YEP PepegaYEP PepegaMese fa
  • Better to have a girlfriend irl...its better to spend some money on rl girl than on virtual girl

    flying cacoonflying cacoonMese fa
  • Dude this is quite an insight. thanks

    Daniel ShalomeDaniel ShalomeMese fa
  • Great video,but the visuals were often distracting from the audio.

    Atharva MetkarAtharva MetkarMese fa
  • This was really interesting. Thank you.

    English lyricsEnglish lyricsMese fa
  • what's the name of the tune/music starting at 1:26?

    Vincent ShenockerVincent ShenockerMese fa
  • 8:45 Only Fans offers connection? The way I see it, it absolutely doesn't. Paying to get a connection with someone is paying for fake interest. This is exactly what raises the mistrust that guys can have in girls in general. The first time I saw the term OnlyFan pop-up on social media I didn't even know what it was, but the moment I found out I was disgusted. Girls knowing they are beautiful - great! That can only have a positive effect on their well being. But girls knowing they are beautiful AND using that knowledge to trick men into buying attention from them... I cannot think of any faster way to for me to lose my interest in such girls.

    Leto85Leto85Mese fa
  • Great video but why call them simps? There's no need to insult people.

    Violet SinclairViolet SinclairMese fa
  • If it wasn't hard enought to find people for long lasting relationships and if it wasn't hard enough for women to be conservative and respected nowadays, this scam comes out. I advice guys to NOT fall into this trap. There's still women that want to have relationships and get married that are not SJW or onlyfans porn actress. Love yourself and become and Alpha.

    S.Ariadne NavarroS.Ariadne NavarroMese fa
  • Can you please do a character analysis on Rick Grimes from the Walking Dead? His leadership skills fascinate me.

    VxlknerVxlknerMese fa
  • This is kind of frightening, seems like the start of robotic and fake intimacy. What's the difference in experience between this and an online relationship with a computer who posts these images and responds to those texts? I hope this doesn't replace real intimacy for people...

    Coach JazzCoach JazzMese fa
  • We need to launch a crusade against only fans

    Foster WojakFoster WojakMese fa
  • Charlie signs up to a porn site... for science. It's a tough job, but somebody's gotta do it!

    OctoschizareOctoschizareMese fa
  • This isn't cool, it's fake and unhealthy and dose not get to the root of the problem. It's just another form of prostitution. Men who subscribe to prostitution on a regular basis have serious issues that could be addressed but are simply sidelined again and again and again. And the charity card at the end, really? Do you know how much money actually get's to where it's supposed to?

    CJ BoucherCJ BoucherMese fa
  • Please make some videos for this year’s presidential debate. That’s the hottest topic now

    Michael YueMichael YueMese fa
  • Women pretending interest for money? So, nothing new. That's how Trump got married.

    xxlCortezxxlCortezMese fa
  • 203 people have OnlyFans accounts.

    WesWesMese fa
  • I would like a charisma breakdown on the TV show Wentworth. Who else wants this?

    Matthew VoorhiesMatthew VoorhiesMese fa
  • Ban porn !!

    John ???John ???Mese fa
  • Interesting topic 👌🏼

    Prime MattPrime MattMese fa
  • You signed up purely for research 😘

    Prime MattPrime MattMese fa
  • This is very true! No rejection and you get to put the girl on the pedestal and she does whatever you want

    Daily UpgradeDaily UpgradeMese fa
  • Nah these guys are still loser simps

    Fredrick Godzilla MenckinFredrick Godzilla MenckinMese fa
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    Dame PolkDame PolkMese fa
  • This is how many time Charlie almost relapsed making this video

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  • AH YES , I was ALSO “investigating” Onlyfans

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