5 Easy Ways To Show Extreme Confidence

21 ott 2019
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Harvey Specter isn't exactly the perfect man. He can be rude, emotionally stunted and sarcastic. But even though he is flawed and of course fictional, his portrayal can teach you quite a bit about confidence and power in the real world.

So in this video you’ll learn concrete steps and deeper mindsets for conveying a deep sense of confidence and power.


0:48 - #1: Your body language & tone.
4:29 - #2: Attack the framing, not the content of the insult.
5:52 - #3: Don’t be there to impress.
8:09 - #4: Learn to become an expert at framing your options in any particular scenario.
9:20 - #5: Create options for yourself.

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  • Warm and strength = confidence Cold and strong = arrogance Warm and weak = pitty Cold and weak. = lost cause

    Oliver StoreyOliver Storey10 ore fa
  • Do Mike Ross on imposter syndrome!

    Jane DoeJane Doe10 ore fa
  • This kind of atitude is funny in RL. Try it and you`ll see.

    Ladida386Ladida386Giorno fa
  • Oren Klaff - Pitch Anything and Flip The Script

    Dan SchwartzDan SchwartzGiorno fa
  • Me:"Try taking a swing towards me and I'll wash the floor with your face" Also Me after getting beaten up: "Hello 911"

    Prince VegetaPrince Vegeta2 giorni fa
  • Harvey is just not a person who exists in real world. Following him will be disastrous.

    Ashutosh AgnihotriAshutosh Agnihotri4 giorni fa
  • The character Harvey has changed my life, in two years my life turned around. I have watched the whole series more than 5 times. every time I feel low, I watch Suits❤️

    Mayur SharmaMayur Sharma5 giorni fa
  • Me: "Here's whats going to happen, you give me a raise and..." Boss: "You're fired"

    Shota ToriumiShota Toriumi8 giorni fa
  • Good show, some women go on to become princesses! XD

    antiblingantibling13 giorni fa
  • God i miss Suits

    Erin BErin B15 giorni fa
  • Command people, speak more slowly, change the framing, have more options!!!

    Sidra KamalSidra Kamal17 giorni fa
  • Say this. Im donald trump's national director of dirty tricks. Give me all your money,power and that one will be my woman!

    Maurice drewMaurice drew24 giorni fa
  • I tried this, currently looking for a new job now haha

    Oscar BushellOscar Bushell28 giorni fa
  • The first to be liked, is not caring about being liked

    Meelo the GreatMeelo the Great29 giorni fa
  • He just said people are excited with college admissions even though they received the biggest bill of their lives😂😂😂😂

    Mayank JainMayank JainMese fa
  • do ray donavan

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  • !

    Jean WellingtonJean WellingtonMese fa
  • What TV show is this ?

    Malcolm LarriMalcolm LarriMese fa
  • GOD!! why did he cut the middle finger scene !?

    khalid oujjakhalid oujjaMese fa
  • The Key to Harvey's Charisma is the Work underpinning it. Not just his Intelligence, or Talent, but All the Hard work he put in to get there, and his knowledge of his Chosen profession. Confidence is a LOT Easier to have when you Know what you're talking about, and can PROVE It.

    RensuneRensuneMese fa
  • If he has done this now.. probably he had done this before

    Harsh KumarHarsh KumarMese fa
  • This video is so well thought. Thank you.

    LipikaLipikaMese fa
  • No. 5

    BennyBennyMese fa
  • Frank Underwood eats people like Harvey for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

    RohanRohanMese fa
  • can anyone recommend me some confident female role models?

    Noa SchelfhoutNoa Schelfhout2 mesi fa
  • If your talking about confidence never miss Zlatan Ibrahimovic

    Nitish SawantNitish Sawant2 mesi fa
  • ITworldsr wants to make sure that he is in control & you eventually buy his course. Good marketing tactic brother!

    Tushar PawarTushar Pawar2 mesi fa
  • 0:00 “Harvey Specter isn’t exactly the perfect man” I beg to differ.

    Gabriel HamouiGabriel Hamoui2 mesi fa
  • what movie is he showing in this video someone tell me.

    Rebecca M.Rebecca M.2 mesi fa
    • It's the show suits

      PeterBEPeterBE2 mesi fa
  • Awesome!! Great Tips!

    Tony - Persuasion SecretsTony - Persuasion Secrets2 mesi fa
  • Awesome!! Great Tips!

    Tony - Persuasion SecretsTony - Persuasion Secrets2 mesi fa
  • Rule no. 1: suit up!

    PrashanthPrashanth2 mesi fa
  • I cannot be confident. I'm balding....

    SnowmanSnowman2 mesi fa
  • my dad made me watch suits to make me learn from the characters cause he said they have something to learn from unlike people irl.

    Aimen AhmadAimen Ahmad2 mesi fa
  • Good.Job.OKAY.

    Shaman JyssaShaman Jyssa2 mesi fa
  • Make a video on Micheal Corleone from godfather please

    Arslan ZafarArslan Zafar2 mesi fa
  • Most important point is that this kind of confidence comes from having faith in your skillsrt, whatever it may be, that comes after hard work ,smart work and trial and error that leads to consecutive success (with some losses. But net wins are more). If you are a compelte chump at what you are trying to do your 'confidence' will come across as shallow and smart people can smell that a mile away

    Fast TwitchFast Twitch2 mesi fa
  • Harvey Specter is the serious mode of Marshall Erickson

    Joseph Joaquin MarasiganJoseph Joaquin Marasigan2 mesi fa
  • The funny thing is that Gabriel Macht actually attended Meghan Markle’s wedding. So Harvey did meet the Queen of England.

    Pumpa PajPumpa Paj2 mesi fa
  • How to show extreme confidence: have it

    Mohammad SKMohammad SK2 mesi fa
  • add summery at the end of your video. it will make your video more interesting.

    Aninda ChakrabortyAninda Chakraborty3 mesi fa
  • Can you please make a video on Berlin from Money Heist.

    Patel MeshvaPatel Meshva3 mesi fa
  • Complete bait and switch. I usually love your content but this is terrible you are in essence saying here are "Watch this video to get 5 easy ways to confidence" then you share nothing but an advertisement for your PAID charisma course. Be honest and forthcoming about what you're doing.

    K.A. RickardK.A. Rickard3 mesi fa
  • Yes! Thought there must be one on Harvey. Love this man.

    Jonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence MindsetJonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset3 mesi fa
  • Those suits make him look so broad.

    Black StarBlack Star3 mesi fa
  • Imagine this guy's life... He probably uses everyone of his video's tips to his advantage...

    Bladezy_WadezyBladezy_Wadezy3 mesi fa
  • Now how do I implement all of these things into my life?

    Political personPolitical person3 mesi fa
  • 'The less you focus on defending yourself, the better your banter will become'. Love this!

    Jonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence MindsetJonny Pardoe - The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset3 mesi fa
  • Citing actors to establish social methods is complete nonesense

    SmalltimRSmalltimR3 mesi fa
  • Does these rules apply for women as well?

    Jala BalaJala Bala4 mesi fa
  • Harvey is the definition of confidence - this man should’ve won an award for this show!

    Ayub MAyub M4 mesi fa
  • You could write a really good movie character without a doubt

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    S H I O K A Z ES H I O K A Z E4 mesi fa
  • should use real world example instead of use a TV show charactor . it is an act not real situation .

    Java SpringFrameJava SpringFrame4 mesi fa
  • In Suits, someone storms out of the room in every single scene ever

    Urban ExpansionUrban Expansion4 mesi fa
  • Harvey freaking Spectre!!!

    Oriehi RaphaelOriehi Raphael4 mesi fa
  • Do a franck underwood

    don jondon jon4 mesi fa
  • The thing is, Harvey has real stuff and real value, people will respect that for their own interest. Business people care about benefits more than appearances. If you can make profit for me, I don't give a shxt if you are a jerk.

    MrChristopher0003MrChristopher00034 mesi fa
  • do one on daniel hardman he is even better than harvey

    Ankit BhattiAnkit Bhatti4 mesi fa
  • The. G. O. A. T

    Fumnanya Ike-ofuokwuFumnanya Ike-ofuokwu4 mesi fa
  • You got a point

    Nur Shakira AfifiNur Shakira Afifi5 mesi fa
  • Nothing seems interested in him

    Manish KumarManish Kumar5 mesi fa
  • comment

    John GilaltaJohn Gilalta5 mesi fa

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  • I just started watching series yesterday and today this is in my recommended

    CastellaVCastellaV5 mesi fa
  • 2:01 those were a lot of adverbs lol

    leachateeleachatee5 mesi fa
  • Dude, you're good

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    • I'm subscribing.

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  • Who else thought their screen was cracked at 0:15

    Geralt of RiviaGeralt of Rivia5 mesi fa
  • Please breakdown Lucifer!!!

    Eric FernandezEric Fernandez5 mesi fa
  • After watching all the episodes of Arabic series justice and comparing It with suits... I will give 10 out of 1 to the netflix series justice

    Nabin KhanalNabin Khanal5 mesi fa
  • Harvey exudes charisma, way more than other lawyers. I think there's a very thin line to differentiate between confidence and arrogance. Tone and micro body language set a remarkable difference in the way you portray yourself and how others perceive you as.

    Jas GJas G5 mesi fa
  • A character breakdown on Olivia Pope (Scandal) would be fantastic!

    Ruth ObaroRuth Obaro5 mesi fa
  • Even your words can't define the charm harvey specter

    Informatics TubeInformatics Tube5 mesi fa
  • How to identify when to do this and when not to?

    Shubhankar PatilShubhankar Patil5 mesi fa
  • I like your videos ❤️ very helpful

    Action MottoAction Motto5 mesi fa
  • I make my own option

    raul mayraul may5 mesi fa
  • Can you do a Jessica Pearson?

    Aishwarya SAishwarya S5 mesi fa
  • Beautiful personality that captured the heart and eyes is "Harvey "🤗

    Amina EtiAmina Eti5 mesi fa
  • Okay, but why is Harvey's hair pink in the thumbnail?

    J GuitarJ Guitar5 mesi fa
  • 4:43 that gold sword is useless mate.... But I still liked cause u included minecraft

    Atharva RajeAtharva Raje5 mesi fa
  • Step one: Have extreme confidence over :)

    LodrikBadricLodrikBadric6 mesi fa
  • Can you make a character breakdown video on Dr House ?

    Appidi Varun ReddyAppidi Varun Reddy6 mesi fa
  • NOTE: Reacting is like giving an immediate (usually negative) response to something while responding is noticing your own emotions and taking a second to breathe and consider the situation.

    Jared GijozaJared Gijoza6 mesi fa
  • Your videos are really very helpful. Thank you so much. ✨ ✨ ✨

    Shristi SahuShristi Sahu6 mesi fa
  • харви спектор

    воја танкосићвоја танкосић6 mesi fa
  • I havent even watched suits but from what I've seen this guy hits Tony Stark levels of badassness

    Jesus ChristJesus Christ6 mesi fa
  • I could learn all of these and adapt all of these but still won’t make it to the top because I have a vagina.

    sophia educatesophia educate6 mesi fa
  • Can you do a video on kellerman from prison break? I find him very charismatic and he looks like he can't be scared of something

    lioncub of cintralioncub of cintra6 mesi fa
  • My advice is simple. Empty your mind. Forget about making an impression. Just move

    Supercool CatSupercool Cat6 mesi fa
  • Ok lets face it I'm now official the #1 subscriber even when I just subscribed right now. Why? because I'm the ONLY on who said that. So thanks for having me here and also thanks for creating top tier videos. Really good work. So I have to continue watching. Also between those Videos you can watch my channel, just to see how your ideas will work out for a content creator ;)

    SkaldenwolfSkaldenwolf6 mesi fa
  • What show is this?!

    the guy in the helmetthe guy in the helmet6 mesi fa
  • Show confidence by having an open body language you can trick your subconscious mind into actually thinking you're confident

    Daily UpgradeDaily Upgrade6 mesi fa
  • You really need to watch all seasons of the Suits.... Harvey is much more relatable than I thought ...... He punched Louis when he couldn't handle it.......

    Mayuresh JogMayuresh Jog6 mesi fa
    • @Ex nihilo nihil fit You just know what I mean.... Or you don't..... There is no explaining it.......

      Mayuresh JogMayuresh Jog6 mesi fa
    • You related to THAT???

      Ex nihilo nihil fitEx nihilo nihil fit6 mesi fa
  • Yea you can analyze Harvey easily. Try analyzing Dona man...

    Raz BrochsteinRaz Brochstein6 mesi fa
  • Rachel should go to Harvey if something goes wrong at the palace

    Vladimir PutinVladimir Putin6 mesi fa
  • I have watched a lot of these, and let me just say that analyzing fictional film and TV characters is ridiculous. If anyone acted like this in real life, they would be fired or shunned or hated by everyone. If you want to convince me to act a certain way, give me real life examples

    Rod ManRod Man6 mesi fa
  • Can you teach people to act like a lion? Have you thought why a lion is the way he is ? The lion is strong that is why he is confident. All these qualities that you keep teaching they can't be learnt unless at your core you have some real strength. All these celebrities you keep taking examples of they are not thinking or probably never would have thought - How to be confident , they just are confident because they have something else - Physical strength , beauty , knowledge, expertise, experience or excellence. You should rather teach people to get these qualities and all the confidence and charisma will automatically come.

    RawmixRawmix6 mesi fa
  • Thanks for the video content! Apologies for chiming in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you thought about - Schallingora Living Sculpting Scheme (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one of a kind guide for learning how to get women to do anything you wantwithout the normal expense. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my old buddy Taylor finally got astronomical success with it.

    yeison rojasyeison rojas6 mesi fa
  • Charlie, really love the content of your channel. I've been binge watching lately, far better than Netflix. Can I suggest to create future videos ilustrating these behaviours in women as well (whether in real life or movies)? It would mean a lot. Thanks!

    Irina BassettIrina Bassett6 mesi fa
  • the queen of england...haha I bet she did have a word with Mike being she is the mother in law of his ex.

    Michael OatesMichael Oates6 mesi fa