How To Be Popular Without Being A People Pleaser

22 giu 2020
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We all want to be liked and respected while being our unfiltered selves. And one of the fastest ways to make people like you is to make them laugh.
That’s why in this video we’re going to talk about Andrew Schulz, a comedian who’s popular for his ability to make people laugh even while he’s making fun of them.


1:21 - #1: Start by joking about people you obviously like.
2:48 - #2: Answer some questions with purposefully absurd answers.
3:38 - #3: When teasing others, mix in compliments.
5:00 - #4: Schulz will stereotype to get a laugh, but not in a hurtful way.
8:00 - #5: Roast all political parties equally.

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    Robert RixeyRobert Rixey10 ore fa
  • Andrew is what we need in this world.

    purple burlypurple burly19 ore fa
  • I'm a simple man, I see Andrew Schultz I click on the video.

    Ajinkya KattaAjinkya KattaGiorno fa
  • Went to see him at Houston Imrpov. (Minute 5:00) One of the coolest experiences I been to

    silismosilismo2 giorni fa
  • so basically... "He doesn't insult mexicans or blacks.... but chinese people is okay"

    Young SuitYoung Suit2 giorni fa
  • A better title would have been "how to be like Andrew Schultz? "

    Traditional ToolsTraditional Tools3 giorni fa
  • 4:30

    FinesseGamingFinesseGaming4 giorni fa
  • I‘m just here to get the @ of the Palestinian guy who was made fun of by the comedian 👀🤤

    P DollarsignP Dollarsign6 giorni fa
  • I thought the accents made the bits even funnier. The Jewish voice is what really sold the joke for me. Even as I was laughing, I thought, "Damn, that's a good impression." Obviously, not all Jewish people sound like that, but stereotypes aren't _necessarily_ bad or negative. Often, they can be very effective comedic shorthand. Plus, it reminded me of Mel Brooks and that's never a bad thing.

    xThe_noJxxThe_noJx8 giorni fa
  • Israelis will expand until taking the hole world

    Abdullah AlmuhannaAbdullah Almuhanna8 giorni fa
  • Well i also tease my friend and make everyone laugh but nobody hates me everyone wants to be with me share there feelings but girls also laught but i never had a gf why???

    GangillaGangilla9 giorni fa
  • Andrew guy delivers in a way that people know he's being ironic and just being funny .

    AshleyAshley9 giorni fa
  • So what you're saying is to roast people all the time, got it.

    Jaden ClarkJaden Clark9 giorni fa
  • He be looking like where's Waldo

    Exactly _51Exactly _5110 giorni fa
  • The unwritten rule is, if you find ANYTHING offensive, dont watch or go see a comedian. It's simple. But people want to watch these kinda things hoping to find something to show some fake rage at. Their complaints getting taken seriously is ruining comedy

    Eddie BruceEddie Bruce11 giorni fa
  • I've become such a joker & people pleaser, in my company, that the moment I'm genuinely upset or stressed, I make rude comments and jabs about coworkers, my supervisor or my boss and they all find it funny (including my supervisor).

    Jean PierreJean Pierre11 giorni fa
  • You should check out Patrice Oneal, a natural and raw talent. RIP

  • I love this guy, so happy you're talking about him

    Arie AxelArie Axel12 giorni fa
  • Emilia Clarke is the center of the universe!

    Tyreese OFF huronTyreese OFF huron13 giorni fa
  • Prove you're black say the N word.

    e69alphae69alpha14 giorni fa
  • Thanks for talking about andrew

    dipzoiddipzoid16 giorni fa
  • Andrew ❤️

    Aqib SharifAqib Sharif16 giorni fa
  • You actually have to warn viewers about "offensive" material? What has happened to us?

    Lester GreenLester Green18 giorni fa
  • I'm quite good at roasting, I like to do it but I rarely want to offend receiving person. So I can't even count how many times I just asked someone to roste them on behalf of what they said. You have to make it just a joke and nothing more and you're good.

    VeljkoVeljko18 giorni fa
  • the issue is not in the moment. the issue is when they drag your joke from the past into the present and use it as a way to destroy your career and everything you care about.

    kyle jayneskyle jaynes18 giorni fa
  • Andrew is the crowd work king!

    Joe GardnerJoe Gardner19 giorni fa
  • Oh gosh Charlie n Ben you guys are awesome. After implementing the things i learned in just your videos ...Um how do i say this, in my mmo (game) i went from being weird, awkward, and irritating with the guys i interact with to them wanting to hang around me more, and guys that had once been rude and disrespectful are now wanting to be with me, lol! i am soooo taking your courses if i am getting 'these' results from just these vids....Brilliant guys just brilliant! and nothing seems forced like before, it comes a lot easier and not as painful as some might think. Please please keep up the good work, Namaste.

    Kimberly RobertsKimberly Roberts19 giorni fa
  • Andrew is AWESOME!!

    usnavyvet2002usnavyvet200222 giorni fa
  • Andrew is one of the most quick-witted comedians ever

    Savage KingSavage King23 giorni fa
  • 1000th.

    S KS K24 giorni fa
  • Why would Israel be pissed about possessing the very land that God will build his tabernacle? Natural resources have always been nonexistent in the land.

    Han SoloHan Solo25 giorni fa
  • But his popularity is ’based’ on being a jerk. He has negative fame. People with positive fame would be crucified for talking like him. For instance, Mother Teresa could never walk around talking like him and still keep her image. But then, Shultz could never accomplish what she did because his path to power could never match her own; the path of keeping one's mouth shut.

    McAllen City CorruptionMcAllen City CorruptionMese fa
  • narrorator: hello humans, let us educate you on how to make funny.!

    Chris ThomasChris ThomasMese fa
  • I just love Andrew

    prashant choukekarprashant choukekarMese fa
  • Delivery is everything. Not everyone is funny. It’s often a natural skill that’s hard to learn

    ShayDaleShayDaleMese fa
  • Omg I'm happy I watched this video, Andrew is a funny guy. 😂

    Sahara Lee BoloSahara Lee BoloMese fa
  • Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

    Rocking RondaRocking Ronda2 mesi fa
  • I've been wondering how he gets away with his jokes. Nice analysis.

    Jason FJason F2 mesi fa

    MasonMason2 mesi fa
  • I'm donating to people who have it better than me now.

    JordonJordon2 mesi fa
  • yikes

    Nils GrögerNils Gröger2 mesi fa
  • That EMT got some nerve smh...

    Jajy 6Jajy 62 mesi fa
  • Hey! Big fan of your stuff. Could you do an analysis on Harry Styles?

    Hannah SwansonHannah Swanson2 mesi fa
  • He's ALWAYS 'ON', though. That gets annoying, after a while, when someone always feels the need to be funny.

    everwisegroup.comeverwisegroup.com2 mesi fa
  • I really like Shultz, he's awesome.

    Jeffrey Van Den AbeelJeffrey Van Den Abeel2 mesi fa
  • Rather than saying “nice to me you” say “it’s nice for you to finally meet

    Potenti4lPotenti4l2 mesi fa
  • Their never gonna get that water qwit lying

    quince Hayesquince Hayes2 mesi fa
  • This video is like a highlight reel of all the Schulz videos I've watched over the quarantine.

    mate53mate532 mesi fa
  • I only clicked because Schulz was in the Thumby Nail

    mate53mate532 mesi fa
  • The fact that we have to now put warnings on videos over speech is just so utterly sad

    MrSladeMrSlade2 mesi fa
  • 1. Not everyone needs to be popular. 2. Not everyone needs to be a people pleaser. But(!): 3. Everyone must show kindness when it is needed.

    Mind LessMind Less2 mesi fa
  • This definitely works for a guy who's already a known comedian. Imagine you doing this at your workplace.

    Reddaboina vivekReddaboina vivek2 mesi fa
  • To the presenter, if you tell someone they will be offended they will be.

    Jacob NelsonJacob Nelson2 mesi fa
  • We need to laugh at ourselves. I love old English comedies.

    Olivia MillerOlivia Miller2 mesi fa
  • This guy is not funny

    JamieJamie2 mesi fa
  • I'll be honest I don't really find him funny, but thats just me personally. In general I don't see anything wrong with most of his jokes.

    barrelracer121495barrelracer1214952 mesi fa
  • I have to be honest there were some comments that did offend me a bit but like the narrator guy said, he shows that he really isn’t a jerk, and he makes it so that I’m fine with laughing at myself

    Daniel ZhouDaniel Zhou2 mesi fa
  • 9:40 Because she's a sociopathic fake hero oppressive sicko dictating fraud, poser wolf in sheep's clothing attention-seeking narcissistic disingenuous fake, fraud.

    meacomefeyoumeacomefeyou2 mesi fa
  • Shultzey , got featured on COC .sweet.

    Idrees Mohammed SalihIdrees Mohammed Salih2 mesi fa
  • Trump gave us a lesson on this 4 years ago 🧐

    Freddie RodriguezFreddie Rodriguez2 mesi fa

    Gen PoshGen Posh2 mesi fa
  • Let’s gooooooo young hezi

    Faisal Al-JabriFaisal Al-Jabri2 mesi fa
  • Totally different in the context of a live comedy show not real life situations

    Nick HNick H3 mesi fa
  • In which situations do you advice us to behave as such?

    Dan MDan M3 mesi fa
  • So what if people get offended. They're just jokes

    tsleel escappatsleel escappa3 mesi fa
  • I mean I personally don't find his jokes funny but that he shouldn't be allowed to make those jokes. Comedy is subjective. What I find funny might piss people off but that's okay.

    Jack StewartJack Stewart3 mesi fa
  • "she just turned 18" lmao i hope that guy didn't get under investigation for dating her while she was underage or something 😂 6:07 please someone tell me what's the name of this movie, i haven't watched it in years & i'd love to but i can't remember the name D:

    Rogue DesignerRogue Designer3 mesi fa
    • @jayvng Oh yea! thank you so much

      Rogue DesignerRogue Designer3 mesi fa
    • Don't Mess With the Johan

      jayvngjayvng3 mesi fa

    T HUDT HUD3 mesi fa
  • I have always tried to be polite with polite people, nice with nice people and honest and tough with aholes. This way, I am true to myself. Integrity is everything. In order to be this way, you still need to know how to throw down with a jerk when you have to. I have no problem being mean when it is called for.

    George BertramGeorge Bertram3 mesi fa
  • Stop being nice? Bad advice. I don't want to be popular, to an immature crowd. I want my loved ones to love & respect me and I want to respect myself. So I'd rather be rejected by pop-society, for being nice, than accepted for being bad.

    Robert XavierRobert Xavier3 mesi fa
  • Bonus points at 4:47 he does a nice gesture to show its all in good fun.

    David NtumbaDavid Ntumba3 mesi fa
  • these guys clearly dont know Schulz. Its NOT fun to have a conversation with him because he CANNOT STOP TALKING to save his own damn life! Especially when the point he's trying to make is absurd LMFAO

    egdapoegdapo3 mesi fa
  • Love schulz but he doesnt make fun of political sides equally. Maybe in volume it comes 50/50 but the inherit bias is seen when you analyze what hes joking about. With democrats its something superficial like joe bidens crazy, but when its republicans it’s policies, ideas, and “actions”. And im not saying he doesnt do this to democrats but its quite obvious which way he leans.

    5kings_saint5kings_saint3 mesi fa
  • The narrator needs to stop sounding so pc. Sounds like he cares way to much and also sounds like as long as you dont offend people, your doing it right. Which means your delivery is contingent on social norms, not good. Since that means you must always move with the largest group even if they are wrong! Good content, but narrator comes across as "as long as its okay with X then you can say Y"

    Michael Le Chance, LoriaMichael Le Chance, Loria3 mesi fa
  • Each time I watch one of your videos I want to buy charisma university but it’s a lot of money for someone living in Poland and poor. Is there some kind of sales or contests?

    PetitLumierePetitLumiere3 mesi fa
  • Only if he was funny tho, but he is not

    cbcb3 mesi fa
  • Nah nah nah. Making fun of and stereotyping minorities is never funny.

    Adina BAdina B3 mesi fa
  • just wanted to recommend/plea to analyze Andrew Schulz to you, realized that you had already covered him.. then realized that I had already liked the video.. and finally realized that it had been your video all along that made me wonder who this Schulz guy is. Funny, he now is one of my favourite stand-ups thanks to you.. and apparently I have early dementia lmao

    Ryan CastilloRyan Castillo3 mesi fa
  • Are you kidding me? Israel has underwater gas reserves that could keep her running for the next 50 to a hundred years.

    hazzapan hazzapanhazzapan hazzapan3 mesi fa

    Bradly M AdamsBradly M Adams3 mesi fa
  • I'm political and I laughed at both of those :)

    Cameron YoungsCameron Youngs3 mesi fa
  • Some people call me right wing for defending trump at times, but i have to say the trump joke was way funnier than the Biden joke

    David ElenduDavid Elendu3 mesi fa
  • Hmmm I'd like to see him roast black people now...

    skyclaspskyclasp3 mesi fa
  • I'm offended that some people are offended by him.

    Dominic CommissoDominic Commisso3 mesi fa
  • I think a person can be funny without even the hint of anyone being the butt of the joke just harder to do.

    MikeMike3 mesi fa
  • I love Andrew.❤

    808Bunny808Bunny3 mesi fa
  • So pretty much pay attention to the reaction of your audience?

    Quan NguyenQuan Nguyen3 mesi fa
  • You gotta do Jordan Schlansky and Conan O'Brien

    Rey Cesar CariñoRey Cesar Cariño3 mesi fa
  • We know it's you Shulz paying for this

    Like a complete unknown / Like a rolling stoneLike a complete unknown / Like a rolling stone3 mesi fa
  • Offensive? SOLD!!

    Pumpkin FacePumpkin Face4 mesi fa
  • Please tell about the BTS(boy band)'s charisma. Why are they popular?

    Melissa DiasMelissa Dias4 mesi fa
  • Please tell about the BTS(boy band)'s charisma. Why are they popular?

    Melissa DiasMelissa Dias4 mesi fa

    AlexAlex4 mesi fa
  • Hey I am Jewish too

    leon zrihenleon zrihen4 mesi fa
  • YOUNG HEZI!!!!!!!!!

    Sad boy SollySad boy Solly4 mesi fa
  • The only thing that is offensive about this video is that some people supposedly find the jokes in this video offensive.

    Kim KimpaKim Kimpa4 mesi fa
  • so glad they talked about this guy, he is the goat.

    aidan waldenaidan walden4 mesi fa
  • Noice choice mate! Andrew Schultz IS charisma

    Brian MBrian M4 mesi fa
  • I don’t mind if my Friends or Family make jokes about me(Most of the time)! But I ain’t gonna let some random person roast me!

    Dragon Ball DBDragon Ball DB4 mesi fa
    • Vortex I just personally don’t take being made fun of lightly!

      Dragon Ball DBDragon Ball DB3 mesi fa
    • Why would you care about it tho

      VortexVortex3 mesi fa
  • How many people here listen to these videos, totally agree but still forget all this advice in the real world because life isn't so rule oriented?

    Bill BarretBill Barret4 mesi fa