5 Common Phrases You Should NEVER Say While Flirting

8 apr 2019
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There are no classes in school that teach you how to flirt, and unfortunately what that means is that when you go out into the world to do it, sometimes some weird things can escape your mouth.
Which is why in this video, I will be giving you five things that you should NEVER say when flirting, as well as some things that you can say instead.

0:16 - Phrase #1: “That person is…”
1:19 - Phrase #2: “That’s amazing!”
2:41 - Phrase #3: “Do you want to go out sometime?”
3:37 - Phrase #4: “Can I get your number?”
4:34 - Phrase #5: “You would look better if you…”
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  • Is he talking about promiscuous women as the first one?

    DerryDerry5 giorni fa
  • A person with an open sexuality often has a hard time dating without feeding the insecurities of the person they're interested in and being able to open and confident and expressive of they're individuality without making others insecure . Any tips ?

    Elise LangerElise Langer16 giorni fa
  • What about if you ask for their 'pager'? 📟

    Tim TimTim Tim28 giorni fa
  • Sarcasm is terrible advice! It's not easy to hit that perfect playful, complimentary tone. You're much more likely to alienate that person. In the case where you find yourself repeating "That's amazing!", a better approach is to ask follow-up questions. Show that you're interested and actively listening.

    Michael SchutzMichael Schutz29 giorni fa
  • Whats the s word

    Caleb HamiltonCaleb Hamilton29 giorni fa
  • Telling a girl she would look better if she smiles comes off narrastic.

    David DuncanDavid DuncanMese fa
  • If she likes you she does and if she doesn't then she doesn't. It's not rocket science. When you walk on eggshells the type of women you'll attract will be the ones who will use you for a free meal.

    BobBobMese fa
  • WTF is the S word?

    Frost D.HFrost D.HMese fa
  • Okay but why is hia mouth so big?

    Mario SuarezMario SuarezMese fa
  • Heyyyy *wink* I'm single but ready to mingle!

    The GamersauresThe GamersauresMese fa
  • All I do is say I got light up sketchers and she waterfalls

    Rodney HillRodney Hill2 mesi fa
  • Wait, whats the S-word?

    Youknow GahsighYouknow Gahsigh2 mesi fa
  • This dude has huge mouths

    KlemenKlemen2 mesi fa
  • Whenever I use tips from videos like this I feel like I'm acting out a show for the other person

    Mandy YoungMandy Young2 mesi fa
  • about #5: in the 1st year i was with my gf, she asked me "what do you think would look better about my body if it were different?" So i thought long and hard to come up with something i cared absolutely nothing about. However she did cry a lot after hearing i didn't like the way her labia stuck out of her outer lips. Despite talking about it and working it out, even used it as one of her arguments why we shouldnt be together anymore 5 years later. People really do keep their emotional associations once they're set, guys!

    Mortophobe:GamingMortophobe:Gaming2 mesi fa
  • what about "you'd be a lot prettier if you took your COVID mask off"

    The Ark-Ham SandwichThe Ark-Ham Sandwich2 mesi fa
  • People who are amazed by simple things make me wonder. "How's your burger?" "This burger is amazing!" Really? You're amazed by a burger??

    Antonio GuerreroAntonio Guerrero2 mesi fa
  • You're smile is the definition of beaty

    Seham FadulSeham Fadul2 mesi fa
  • Is it wrong to ask “can i slide into your dms?”

    Mimo MamamoMimo Mamamo3 mesi fa
  • What';s the best way to ask "Do you have AIDS?"

    IfthakerIfthaker3 mesi fa
  • 1. If you’ve shown your intent at at the beginning of the interactions at then shoulder be seen as creepy because your not hiding anything 2. The screen shot of this video says don’t says “what your number “, then tells you to say it when you’ve made plans 3 . We add msg people on social media how’s that any different than a phone number But hey what do I know lol

    Geoffrey TesterGeoffrey Tester3 mesi fa
  • How about instead of superfluous compliments, a little curiosity? Ask questions. The weirdest thing to me when chatting with people is I'm asking about them and their world and they don't respond with questions back. Curiosity is king. If you aren't curious, I'm going to stop being interested pretty quick!

    Dylan GoldenDylan Golden3 mesi fa
  • "hey i lost my number, can I get yours?" "what?" "Hi i dont think we've met, I'm Charlie." "what?" "Do you speak English?"

    BrayjsAnimationBrayjsAnimation3 mesi fa
  • Wait, what's the "s-word"?

    BlaQBlaQ4 mesi fa
  • Am I the only one who finds him freakin adorable?😂😂❤️

    Erza ScarletErza Scarlet4 mesi fa
  • So if you use “That’s cool.” For situations when you don’t know what to say but you don’t think negatively of the comment as sort of a shrug off that sounds needy?

    Flutenany IdkFlutenany Idk4 mesi fa
  • I’m a dude and i get you’d look a lot better if you smile all the time

    That guyThat guy4 mesi fa
  • How many Sociopaths Have you trained?

    HousingDinosaurHousingDinosaur4 mesi fa
  • I was texting a girl and she told me about her celebrity crush, I complimented him and said he looked handsome. When I showed her mine, she said that "she's okay". Does that mean anything?

    Victor HopewaveVictor Hopewave4 mesi fa
  • You know what would be way cool, if you start demonstrating these analysis to us with your own exleriences. Im subscribed to you and your content is super unique. I love learning small skills and i think incorporating your content would blow up your channel with aot more followers. I want to see demonstrationsand video of yourself applying these things. Like and comment if you agree. Lets create a demand so that he does it cuz i want to see these examples 👍

    the everythingchannelthe everythingchannel4 mesi fa
  • want to get a number from the girl you like? say this- hey do you like me? if they say no then don't cry just say oh ok well here's my number if you want to text me i guess.. if answer yes-then you could say here's my number if you wanna eat some time

    Carolina DuronCarolina Duron4 mesi fa
  • About asking for someones number, I can totally relate to that. Asked a friend for her number, not really thinking much of it, but despite that she got uncomfortable and I still don't have her number, despite being good friends(we share other friends as well), and it's kinda weird. Probably happened because I didn't have any goal in writing down her number, thus it was kinda just a "why tho"-"why not" moment.

    GobliteGoblite4 mesi fa
  • You know what would look good on you? Me! 😎. You’re welcome

    Ferris 1313Ferris 13134 mesi fa
  • I usually ask questions when a person is telling me a story and bring it back later. The person will start to like my company and then-FRIENDZONED

    Mehak VermaMehak Verma5 mesi fa
  • What the hell is the "S" word?!

    TheHogtalareTheHogtalare5 mesi fa
  • peppa pig

    shannon biggsshannon biggs5 mesi fa
  • imagine how perfect this guy is, knowing all charisma stuff, must be the perfect person, like for real

    AbyssAbyss5 mesi fa
  • You'd look better if you were in my arms

    Haryy PylesHaryy Pyles5 mesi fa
  • Nice video, I agree with your points. Kind of related to the first one, do you think it's a red flag if the guy / girl you are speaking to has never taken down the pictures of them and their ex together from their social media and they aren't planning on it?

    charlielouwoocharlielouwoo5 mesi fa
  • 2nd is so true. I met a guy who was so cute and had an awesome personality but man, he thought everything about me was “perfect and amazing” like all the time, I could do no wrong. It was very exhausting, it felt un-genuine and it turned me off.

    TiedyemoonTiedyemoon5 mesi fa
  • 2:01 yikes I do this to everyone whenever they tell me a story so they know I'm still paying attention. I guess I'm alienating everyone I talk to

    Zero EffortZero Effort5 mesi fa
  • Hey, I have a question about #5. Is "You have such a great smile" *after they smiled* okay? I realize "you're so pretty *when* you smile" is basically saying only when they smile, but is complimenting their smile in general fine? I think even then it's best not to tell them they need to smile that's just weird.

    MQMQ5 mesi fa
  • I feel like im watching national geographic

    Tommy GTommy G5 mesi fa
  • So...I should ask my friendzoned peeps if they want to go out sometime...

    Crowned OneCrowned One5 mesi fa
  • 0:35 the "s" word...Shrek?

  • This guy looks and sounds like Jack Kelso from LA Noire

    syrodsyrod5 mesi fa
  • This guy is probably single.

    N S DistributionN S Distribution5 mesi fa
  • "Micheal Scarn, nice to meet me"

    TameTornadoMCTameTornadoMC5 mesi fa
  • "You clipped your toenails today? AMAZING!!!!"

    Delicate Little SnowflakeDelicate Little Snowflake6 mesi fa
  • Wtf is the S word?

    Frost D.HFrost D.H6 mesi fa
  • Whats the "s"word??

    Otter 420 DrugStoriesOtter 420 DrugStories6 mesi fa
  • Much appreciated :)

    Andras LibalAndras Libal6 mesi fa
  • Never make look like everything the other person says for you is an order or you show you will accomplish other person desire like almost immediately, this will turn you into the most beautiful friend/slave they have Give yourself time, if you wanna do that, make it look like a surprise, but don't make it look like you are "surprising" always, just when you see the other person really really really hyped for.

    InnerEagleInnerEagle6 mesi fa
  • All your videos are amazing!!!

    Mattias ÖhmanMattias Öhman6 mesi fa
  • That story was insane!

    Ordinary ThingsOrdinary Things6 mesi fa
  • I always feel weird when I guy tells me he likes my smile when I just met him! It’s kind of creepy like he doesn’t know how to flirt! So do t say that guys when you just met someone! Be playful first and compliment on things we are talking about! Only when we are actually going out it’s good to give those compliments..

    Anna Written backwardsAnna Written backwards6 mesi fa
  • Whats de S word?

    Anna Written backwardsAnna Written backwards6 mesi fa
  • To summarize the 5 things for you: 1. My butthole is REALLY itchy. 2. Does this look/taste/smell infected? 2. I hope you don’t look like your mom one day. 3. My first kiss was from my priest. 4. Do you like my Hitler mustache? 5. Your brother is super cute! Can I get his phone number?!

    Stewy RogStewy Rog6 mesi fa
  • When you approach someone you don't know and have never talked to, don't you think that asking them to hang out right away instead of asking for their number is a bit too much starting off? They don't even know you so why would they make plans with you right away?

  • Wait But I must practice 6ft social distancing I kinda need to use their a number.

    Zachary SalasZachary Salas6 mesi fa
  • Yeah, asking for the other's number right away is obviously not a good move. That's something for later. But i was now wondering... What would be the psychological effect, of giving the other person your own number after saying something like "I can give you my number if you wanna stay in contact. You can call me anytime!". Would that scare people away or simulate a feeling of reliability and acceptance towards you? To me it feels a bit like a gamble... But i am not an expert.

    Kainos TeleosKainos Teleos6 mesi fa
  • I'm glad you didn't make the last one about sexism or something, which a lot of people seem to do for some reason. I've been told to 'smile more' and it's kinda weird. You're basically telling me i look like a downer, and why do you care?

    Paul KeiserPaul Keiser6 mesi fa
  • I’ve learned that women don’t like when you smell them and say you smell just like your mom. Especially when you come out from under their bed when they’re sleeping

    DylliPickle aDylliPickle a6 mesi fa
  • S word?

    Greg HouserGreg Houser6 mesi fa
  • Thing to say: エッチしよう?

    Satrick PtarSatrick Ptar6 mesi fa
  • if a guy told me to smile more i would punch him in the face

    Adda ElliottAdda Elliott6 mesi fa
  • The hyper gesticulation is so distracting. Good info, though.

    Rational CoderRational Coder6 mesi fa
  • I don't really know how to flirt, so I don't. Women can't be pleased by men anyway.

    Truth ArtisticTruth Artistic6 mesi fa
  • shave

    RogerRoger6 mesi fa
  • Once you have a good conversation going Just open the phone to the dial pad and hand her the phone. Or open to Instagram search and she’ll know what to do. Works every time.

    Catluvr88Catluvr886 mesi fa
  • It is amazing u showing ur 3 fingers from the other perspective -)

    marian maslakmarian maslak6 mesi fa
  • i wanna be your boyfriend dude haha

    brandobrando6 mesi fa
  • What's the s-word?

    Keylup VeintisieteKeylup Veintisiete7 mesi fa
  • Okay what is the "s word"?

    504Ever504Ever7 mesi fa
  • I honestly never heard another guy actually say to a woman “you’d look better if you smiled.” I’ve only heard that in movies/t.v shows.

    Ty ManningTy Manning7 mesi fa
  • My GF: I have such a big crush on Ryan Gosling. Aren’t his eyes just gooorgeous? Me: Yea, I’d f*** him myself. My GF: What? Me: What??

    ghan taukeghan tauke7 mesi fa
  • This guy is the og wingman

    Pratyushraj ChouhanPratyushraj Chouhan7 mesi fa
  • His mouth n lips moving r strangely amazing! Ugh

    ChandlerChandler7 mesi fa
  • There are a lot of flavors? Are you trying to taste them?

    Walker FirminWalker Firmin7 mesi fa
  • This man could eat an entire apple in one bite, and I think that's awesome

    AleksMeetsWorldAleksMeetsWorld7 mesi fa
  • i've said to a girl what's your number straight off the bat - it's the intention of where you coming from that matters.

    ALL DORALL DOR7 mesi fa
  • Yooo

    TheGreenPrinceTheGreenPrince7 mesi fa
  • No offense to this guy I agree with some of the information but I seriously doubt this guy can pull

    TheAtxathleteTheAtxathlete7 mesi fa
  • ITworlds search Studio C flirting academy. 😂

    Brumby BaileyBrumby Bailey8 mesi fa
  • It worked like 2 out of 3 times for me. And I'm not a skinny douche either

    Eric RussellEric Russell8 mesi fa
  • This is all obvious

    Admiral General AladeenAdmiral General Aladeen8 mesi fa
  • I feel this saves me time from reading the book The Art of Manliness.

    LamLam8 mesi fa
  • The s word? I know I’m guilty of calling other men simps…

    Joshua RoyJoshua Roy8 mesi fa
  • “Are you a single mother?” “No” “Do you wanna be?” 😏

    5th Kie...5th Kie...9 mesi fa
    • After this you should prepare a good lawyer.

      Sergio de BengalaSergio de Bengala4 mesi fa
    • That's positive but.... she would kill you after

      InnerEagleInnerEagle6 mesi fa
  • Wtf is the s word?

    Daniel GlatzDaniel Glatz9 mesi fa
  • You are 💯 about those annoying people who say THATS SO AWESOME THATS AMAZINGGGGG! I absolutely hate being condescended to/fake complimented.

    Amy XoxoAmy Xoxo9 mesi fa
  • Her past matters... she can’t pair bond after just a few partners ... don’t marry gentlemen!!!.. these used up trollops aren’t worth it

    Harry CojonesHarry Cojones9 mesi fa
  • Steven schapiro manages it still

    Tom AndersonTom Anderson9 mesi fa
  • I do all of this stuff already I guess I’ve perfected it 😂

    SkInZSkInZ9 mesi fa
  • Day 7581: Still don't know what the "S word" is

    MozambiqueMozambique9 mesi fa
  • Concrete plan? Hey, we need 35m^3 to fill the baseplate for the house we want to build! Easy

    SuperDeinVaddaSuperDeinVadda9 mesi fa
  • Well you make your intentions clear from the get-go which is what you want to express

    marsmars9 mesi fa
  • Guys, also please stop telling women " you look better without makeup" just stop.

    Antara GanguliAntara Ganguli9 mesi fa
  • Me: so what do you do? are you a student?

    Doom the lastDoom the last9 mesi fa
  • "You look better if" is something I would mever do, but I would really like if someone else does this to me. For some reason I like it when the other thinks about me, thinks with me and that I am able to acustom to the other without quessing. As someone with Autism, it is way more enjoyable if you can trust the other for remarks or compliments than need to doubt yourself for potential things you do not notice, because you get non-concrete hints very poorly.

    Mackthis ArrowhearthMackthis Arrowhearth10 mesi fa