LeBron James: How To Become Exceptional

17 dic 2018
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Lebron James is a legend and he never fails to impress the world with his next level plays
However, there’s so much more to Lebron than how he dunks and dribbles on court
Today we’re going to talk about Lebron’s charisma and mindsets and how we can learn from him as a leader

0:22 - Point #1: Turning Challenges Into Motivation
2:12 - Point #2: Focus On Your Locus Of Control
3:06 - Point #3: Don’t Obsess Over Vanity Metrics
4:40 - Point #4: A Philosophy That Is System Oriented
5:34 - Point #5: Leaders Make It About Other People
6:44 - How To Make Amazing First Impressions
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  • ...and now

    August WilloughbyAugust WilloughbyMese fa
  • 1. The ability to *transform challenges* into something motivating 2. Focus on your *locus of control* 3. Don't get caught up in *vanity metrics* 4. A philosophy that is *process and systems oriented* -> The score takes care of itself.

    Luis BerenguerLuis Berenguer9 mesi fa
  • It would be an improvement if you quickly showed the 4 tips at the end of the video.

    Luis BerenguerLuis Berenguer9 mesi fa
  • Disagree how this man takes on learning and challenges. I feel like it takes away from the meaning of winning. People focusing on the victory can still win.

    [GD] Annoe[GD] Annoe10 mesi fa
  • This helps me a lot !🙏🏾

    Gregg VernetGregg Vernet11 mesi fa
  • He's a Satanist an illuminati member, i don't trust him.

    Vaskar SigmaVaskar Sigma11 mesi fa
    • @Dan Moreta do you not notice all the Illuminati hand gestures that he does? start from there.

      Vaskar SigmaVaskar Sigma9 giorni fa
    • Where did you learn that from?

      Dan MoretaDan Moreta10 giorni fa
  • this didnt age well did it. Lebron now is against human rights

    miniminiAnno fa
  • You can post this vid again but re-name it: learn how sarcasm works. 🤣🤣

    MADZMADZAnno fa
  • Honestly I had no idea he was this kind of person. He seems like a great man and leader!

    Avina FilmsAvina FilmsAnno fa
  • Damn. Throwin that shade on Westbrook hahaha

    Thao TranThao TranAnno fa
  • LeBron isn’t charismatic, though. He is just a good athlete. He throws his teammates under the bus when things don’t go his way. He whines.

    Banana FanafoferryBanana FanafoferryAnno fa
  • i clicked off once he said lebron almost never argues with the refs

    poop dealerpoop dealerAnno fa
  • He is 6'8 with supernatural genes. If he wasnt the person he is it would be a disappointment. If I wasn't 5'5 freshman and instead 6'2 like him i would be a phenom to

    Noah SylvesterNoah SylvesterAnno fa
  • I would love it if you'd do a video analyzing Charlize Theron. Her personality is pretty dominant and sarcastic but can come off as intimidating and can leave people divided. Some think she's charming and charismatic which other's think she's being bitchy or insulting. I'm very curious about what you think

    savagenature1savagenature1Anno fa
  • video on Howard Stern pls

    Insomnia322Insomnia322Anno fa
  • Isnt Lebron James the one who pretends to get hit and purposely falls over whenever someone gets too close to him during a game, even when they didn't touch him?

    Lynx StormsLynx StormsAnno fa
  • lebron is the best GM, the knicks should pay him to trade for them

    cuzmariosaidsocuzmariosaidsoAnno fa
  • Sprite Cranberry?

    Chef JaylinChef JaylinAnno fa
  • why you gotta shit on westbrook like that

    Ikome CheforIkome CheforAnno fa
  • God doesn't put you in situations you can't handle. So True!!

    Frank Mack IIFrank Mack IIAnno fa
  • great video. LeBron is the GOAT

    Mulatto WorldMulatto WorldAnno fa
  • 3:21 damn you didn't have to call Westbrook out like that! lol I'm the biggest Bron fan but he deft. pads his stats at times

    Oleg POleg PAnno fa
  • Love this channel but there are so many problems with this video. LeBron is an amazing athlete/specimen but a reluctant competitor and a poor leader. The mere fact that he calls himself the GOAT yet throws his teammates under the bus anytime the team fails to reach expectations, that just screams poor leadership. I will not be looking to this man as an example of how to treat my colleagues.

    Enoka 'AkaEnoka 'AkaAnno fa
  • nice one.. good insights

    CollideTVCollideTVAnno fa
  • First of all you need to be able to control the narrative and make everyone believe that you are the goat like LeBron did...

    clipsideclipsideAnno fa
  • Lebron doesn’t like fucking challenges. He joins his challengers.

    jay scottjay scottAnno fa
  • I’m not a “hater” or whatever you would call it, but I’ve seen LeBron argue with referees plenty of times. I’ve also seen him argue with referees while the rest of the players are on the other side of the court and his team is 4 on 5 trying to defend. Doesn’t happen often but it does happen.

    Jp PraterJp PraterAnno fa
  • LeBron is a rare breed of a celebrity that is also a positive role model. You never hear anything bad about the guy out partying or gambling or beating his wife or any kind of scandal. He seems like a genuinely good person, and that's not too common for folks of his status.

    racewiththefalcons1racewiththefalcons1Anno fa
  • What are you talking about? LBJ has always mentioned he is always aware of history. He is 100% aware of stats.

    MrBlendMrBlendAnno fa
  • Shots on Westbrook 🤫🤫

    Malzhar DizonMalzhar DizonAnno fa
  • About Luka Dončić? He's 19 year old European playing in the NBA for half a season and already one of the most popular players on the All star voting. His playing is great, but I think there must be a charisma factor there, too ...

    Pat TernPat TernAnno fa
  • I would like to suggest Jenna Marbles for your next charisma breakdown. She's really interesting and inspiring,I always wondered how can someone be so self confident and funny. I want to learn how to be like her.

    Nikolett H.Nikolett H.Anno fa
  • 3:20 that westbrook shade thooooo 😂😂😂😂😂

    HushTvHushTvAnno fa
  • anyone knows where i can find that clip of that Bill Walsh speech

    maky lavendermaky lavenderAnno fa
  • go 3-6 in the finals, get 3 coaches fired and blame teammates

    Mo AMo AAnno fa
    • Yup. Lebron Blames is a total scumbag, SJW snowflake, and professional victim.

      Frederick0220Frederick0220Anno fa
  • Russell Westbrook at 3:25 👀

    SeanSeanAnno fa
  • Lebron's the goat

    Januel DagasuhanJanuel DagasuhanAnno fa
  • wade and lebron was the best duo in the nba

    max sorentomax sorentoAnno fa
  • I didnt see this confidence last year when he got swept in the finals.

    vinuzovinuzoAnno fa
    • vinuzo He had plenty of leadership. Everything said in this video showed more so than not in those finals. He had a suffering team but brought them to the finals? That’s what I thought.

      Coilin DonaghyCoilin DonaghyAnno fa
  • I've been such a big fan of your videos for years good sir, but I really feel I have to share another perspective as a Native American from a very poor community. I loved the second half of the video. But the first half sounded so based in a privileged-mindset that I felt it ignored the fact that LeBron comes from a community where tons of talented hard working kids like him DON'T make it. But of course, we will continue to focus on him as if he's "proof" people from his community can make it, when in reality, he is another lucky exception as most statistically don't and won't. I feel that without a healthy amount of realism and awareness of the systemic and institutional oppression that exist in the world that you came from, a trained "positivity/progress only" mindset can conveniently turn you into a compliant status-quo-friendly talking head that promotes boot-strap theory, meritocracy and victim-blaming that in the end, will not seek to challenge the very system that oppresses your community or actually remove the barriers that your people experience. I cannot shake the bitter taste of the "this is good for me/us" mindset. I'm very much aware of the trappings of victim mentality, but I refuse to to silence my vocal/mental objections to my peoples' existence so that I could become a "leader' that ironically will eventually blissfully ignore the very injustices that are holding us back. None of the words I heard from LeBron felt like they were based in reality. Athletes like Kaepernick on the other hand, inspire me as the opposite I'm what I'm speaking in objection to. Thoughts? How do you balance a "I will make it" mindset and a "what we/I'm going through is wrong" sense of justice?

    Courage the ActorCourage the ActorAnno fa
  • Just, please stop saying things like "people use not having a father as an excuse to not succeed." Please, read about historical and generational trauma, childhood trauma, and resiliency before you make ignorant statements like that. Inspire people, that's what you do. You don't have to tear the usual mainstream scapegoats down to make a point. Everyone knows that black people tend to not have present fathers, that is not why black people are the most arrested and persecuted portion of society. Look up the new Jim Crow, school to prison pipelines, or de jure housing segregation (the Housing Act of 1949), just to name a few. People that succeed IN SPITE of hardship are the exception, and should not be used to bagger people that endure real struggles.

    Jenafer DelaneyJenafer DelaneyAnno fa
  • I resonated with process orientation.

    Buddy BoerkoelBuddy BoerkoelAnno fa
  • What if I don't want to be exceptional or a leader? I'm perfectly content being little old me.

    Cobrakay2003Cobrakay2003Anno fa
  • dont be like lebron, his IQ is in the single digits

  • ❤️

    Nando n NandoNando n NandoAnno fa
  • It’s all about perspective

    JxvrJxvrAnno fa
  • Celebrating the success of others around you is a great one.

    Dylan MillerDylan MillerAnno fa
  • Darko Milicic forever

    Sun TzuSun TzuAnno fa
  • Wow what an amazing video! Thank you so much for this. God bless 🙏

    kevin rosaskevin rosasAnno fa
  • Yes!

    Akinkunmi CookAkinkunmi CookAnno fa
  • “elevating his own defensive game” lol he stopped playing defense like 2 seasons ago. Didn’t even want to guard Kd at any point in the finals.

    Davian OconnelDavian OconnelAnno fa
  • Lebron in defense? Im out. :)

    Jeremy JolitoJeremy JolitoAnno fa
  • i didn't understand the tip number 4 about philosophy of process and system rather than philosophy of result

    hzk coderhzk coderAnno fa
  • Do you want sprite cranberry ?

    Имянной ФамильевИмянной ФамильевAnno fa
  • Thank you for your videos bro!

    Mr. BMr. BAnno fa
    • ~ Our pleasure!

      Charisma on CommandCharisma on CommandAnno fa
  • Do a vid on Drake

    Alex SmithAlex SmithAnno fa
  • Do LaVar Ball.

    Luke SnowLuke SnowAnno fa
  • “When someone seeks...then it easily happens that his eyes see only the thing that he seeks, and he is able to find nothing, to take in nothing because he always thinks only about the thing he is seeking, because he has one goal, because he is obsessed with his goal. Seeking means: having a goal. But finding means: being free, being open, having no goal.” -Siddhartha

    hipnhappeninhipnhappeninAnno fa
  • You lost me at the point where you claimed that he never complains to the refs... Lol what the fuck am I hearing

    Les VegetablesLes VegetablesAnno fa
  • Do a video about Tom Hardy as Alfie Solomons on Peaky Blinders

    Samuel TaylorSamuel TaylorAnno fa
  • 3:25 LMAO shade at Westbrook

    We Are Rip CityWe Are Rip CityAnno fa
  • LeGOAT James

    We Are Rip CityWe Are Rip CityAnno fa
  • Kobe is killing it on the mentality front so now LeBron thinks he should do the same. He's nowhere near either of those two with his team play or attitude off court

    ThisIsTheEndPt2ThisIsTheEndPt2Anno fa
  • James: "Always blame your team mates and always beg for help while holding your team management to ransom if they don't do what you tell them to".

    ThisIsTheEndPt2ThisIsTheEndPt2Anno fa
  • Where is your patreon ???

    Paulina PilkytePaulina PilkyteAnno fa
  • Can you do a video on Aubrey Plaza?! 100% worth your time, I promise you!

    Rj Barber IIIRj Barber IIIAnno fa
  • watching this while in bed eating candy. im definitely a loser

    folumbfolumbAnno fa
  • 3m:19s in woooooooooow

    Roton RenardoRoton RenardoAnno fa
  • mila kunis charisma breakdownnnnnnn

    Maisie HMaisie HAnno fa

    Maisie HMaisie HAnno fa
  • The thumbnail says don’t focus on goals, yet at 4:10 he said he had a goal to be the defensive player of the year.

    tom modotom modoAnno fa
  • great breakdown!

    Lorenzo MarchLorenzo MarchAnno fa
    • ~ Glad you liked the analysis, Lorenzo!

      Charisma on CommandCharisma on CommandAnno fa
  • Can’t deny his leadership ability

    Soulo SmithSoulo SmithAnno fa
  • What’s the music at 1:20?

    Michael LopezMichael LopezAnno fa
  • Some casual Russell Westbrook shade on triple-doubles

    dloc999dloc999Anno fa
  • He is Sneak dissing Russel Westbrook, That’s tuff but facts

    Rugor BensonRugor BensonAnno fa
  • Great video. Being a leader will change your life for the better. If you study greatness and practice what they preach then eventually you will become a great leader yourself

    Wealthbuilderz TVWealthbuilderz TVAnno fa
  • Here's a secret: for there to be leaders there have to be followers.

    R-TypeR-TypeAnno fa
  • I really recommend you to do a video about Benjamin Netanyahu, the Prime Minister of Israel. He's a great politician and a great speaker

    Jeff JeffJeff JeffAnno fa
  • WTF lebron is the ultimate but effective enough stat padder. He doesn't make his teammates better and has been a horrible defender for years. This video is seriously out of touch.

    7777Anno fa
    • you must be a Kobe nut hugger

      Mulatto WorldMulatto WorldAnno fa
  • Explains why he punched a whiteboard and broke his hand. And proceeded to cry about the refs.

    7777Anno fa
  • He loves the challenge so much he demands two prime allstars wherever he goes or loses 'patience'.

    7777Anno fa
  • 3:19 i see you throwing shade at Westbrook Lol

    Bronguero NoleBronguero NoleAnno fa
  • LeBron is the GOAT. Don't @ Me

    Bronguero NoleBronguero NoleAnno fa
  • Lebron never gonna win DPOY but maybe Defensive player of the post season (if that existed) xD

    Young StewYoung StewAnno fa
  • Lebron's defense has been terrible the past 2 years. I am a huge Lebron fan, but to highlight defensive effort made me cringe a bit. Still the new age GOAT though.

    Dr. W No LsDr. W No LsAnno fa
    • Dr. W No Ls he’s been playing better lately on d

      Angel MercedesAngel MercedesAnno fa
  • do one about how to deal with defeat in an argument

    K33waK33waAnno fa
  • Lebron doesn't complain about the calls, he cries about them haha. Relax, jokes aside ownership is important in anything.

    Justin NishimuraJustin NishimuraAnno fa
  • What's the name of the background song from 1:21 - 2:05? Thank you very much!

    JanekJanekAnno fa
  • Can you do a video breaking down Bono's charisma over the years?

    Valentyna BelofskyValentyna BelofskyAnno fa
  • I’d rather take advice from Michael Jordan 🤷‍♂️

    Ludovic BreixoLudovic BreixoAnno fa
  • 6:10 where can i buy that knit?

    픽토그램픽토그램Anno fa
  • disliked because of the russel westbrook shade

    Chandler ClarkChandler ClarkAnno fa
  • Make a video about Kobe Bryant's Mamba Mentality

    WINEWINEAnno fa
  • idk if Lebron really defends all that well. Like he'll never switch out to the perimeter to even contest the open 3

  • Fantastic video!

    A Matter of FilmA Matter of FilmAnno fa
    • ~ Glad you liked it!

      Charisma on CommandCharisma on CommandAnno fa
  • 3:18 - should be Russell Westbrook "rebound" highlights lol

    Go PaoloGo PaoloAnno fa
  • lechock is definition of stat stuffing. lmao SF playing PG. does't even make plays. He just passes and tell people to shoot so he gets assist. MJ and Kobe didn't have 7+ assists with triangle because it's not player system. that's why lebron has losing record in the finals. PLAYER SYSTEM IS TRASH. maybe it worked in the east in the past with 0 super star other than heat/cavs. lmao you had 3 all stars too from same year. you SHOULD BE making finals. that's same as making 2nd round in the west during lechhock east era.

    GokublueGokublueAnno fa
  • Well made video. Keep up the good work.

    caloy6981caloy6981Anno fa
    • ~ Thanks! Glad you like it. :-)

      Charisma on CommandCharisma on CommandAnno fa
  • You should do a video on rami malek

    it's shaynait's shaynaAnno fa