5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You

6 mag 2019
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A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing.
Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it.

0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation.
1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell”
4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself.
7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter.
9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly
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  • Who hurt this girl?! Damn so exhausting to watch her.

    P CP C49 minuti fa
  • Wow. Talk about cringe. Needs a basic behaviour coach ASAP.

    ShadowGJShadowGJ4 ore fa
  • Bloody hell, more i watch videos from this channel less i like people and less i want to talk with someone in IRL

    TheDubassTheDubass4 ore fa
  • Ladies first

    keep itkeep it8 ore fa
  • What the heck is her deal

    Care BearCare Bear8 ore fa
  • Moral of the story: Not everybody is out to get you.

    mi mimi mi10 ore fa
  • Bre's Captin Marvel couldn't beat Superman.

    PrakritiPrakriti14 ore fa
  • Some ppl are just too sensitive and can't detect her sarcasm I guess

    SpaceDaddy CerealSpaceDaddy Cereal18 ore fa
  • Can you make a video for guys who are physically weak and small in stature who need to learn how to stand up for themselves?

    David TDavid T18 ore fa
  • Me, Brazilian, sees Charisma University as CU OH NO!! XD

    Giuliano ArmadurasGiuliano ArmadurasGiorno fa
  • So... don’t be Brie Larson 😂 to be honest, it’s surprising that people actually struggle with these things. I suppose it all stems from insecurity

    Christian BestChristian BestGiorno fa
  • Russell brand is brilliant he told that reporter it’s probably for the best, implying that he’s not all that smart.

    Ilya GodovskyIlya GodovskyGiorno fa
  • Settle down folks, even Brie will get an Oscar for just being a woman. After all we've moved from everyone getting a participation trophy to giving out MVP's to the first girl kicker in college football for kicking 20yds! You go ladies!

    James NosactivatedJames NosactivatedGiorno fa
  • Maybe she gets more jaded the older and life experiences she gets.

    Ant NamAnt NamGiorno fa
  • I wonder if Brie watched this breakdown and learned anything from this, or if it just made her defensive about it? Seems to be something of a trigger. Wonder if it’s partly a gender sensitivity where she’s misreading friendly banter as an attack instead of being treated like any of the other male peers? I dunno. She seems to take things the wrong way or can’t see/hear herself well enough to understand how badly she is coming across to people.

    Andre HuardAndre HuardGiorno fa
  • She maybe could use a few years in charm school. They still believe in caning bad girls.

    Arnie NelsonArnie NelsonGiorno fa
  • Another girl fail... that's what happens when hollywood puts a girl to play Captain America! hey Hollywood.. ur pathetic!

    AnthonyAnthonyGiorno fa
  • It’s like she’s on the rag permanently

    Elon MuskElon MuskGiorno fa
  • Iron Patriot looks like he's been putting up with baby cr@p all day -_-

    sealow08sealow08Giorno fa
  • “I’m brie larson, I HATE FUN !”

    beamiebeamieGiorno fa
  • Her ego has gotten in the way and she's woke, meaning she rather put men down as she belittles us to grab attention. At least I don't put men or females down. We are all equal.

    Todd Productions Presents Comic Book & Video GameTodd Productions Presents Comic Book & Video Game2 giorni fa
  • Brie is hot but annoying af- legit hit 2 quit

    ChadChad2 giorni fa
  • The worst part is that Chris gives her so many opportunities to correct herself and she fails to grab hold of any of them

    Tyler DarrochTyler Darroch2 giorni fa
  • i like this channel but as a British man sarcasm does not require a tell. Americans just don't get it.

    Joseph YoullJoseph Youll2 giorni fa
  • Larson is a fly at a picnic. She slept her way to fame.

    dacawonedacawone2 giorni fa
  • 9:18 most embarrassing thing ever

    Zara LouisZara Louis2 giorni fa
  • Chris Pratt admits he's the worst!! Lol well that saves time

    Laverne BlaszczykLaverne Blaszczyk2 giorni fa
  • She isnt naive, she is purposely trying to belittle the male cast of Avengers. She knows exactly what shes doing lol...

    Benjamin FrizzleBenjamin Frizzle2 giorni fa
  • Humility is good thing, regardless gender, everyone should have it.

    Camille RaoCamille Rao2 giorni fa
  • You know, maybe she's just being herself and isn't worried about what people think of her so much. In the end she's getting paid anyway.

    enjoythestruggleenjoythestruggle2 giorni fa
  • Larson's unlikability is art, a true talent.

    Claps DClaps D2 giorni fa
    • I think that shes just gifted with an extraordinary amount of natural ability

      Atom SmasherAtom SmasherGiorno fa
  • I've gotten people to the point where if they don't outright know I'm being sarcastic, they tend to just assume it anyway. x')

    TheViKingTWTheViKingTW2 giorni fa
  • Us brits are the kings of sarcasm

    Gareth JonesGareth Jones2 giorni fa
  • Russell Brand is awesome. Sarcasm is difficult for autistic people.....

    DonkeeeDonkeee2 giorni fa
  • Ok this Captain Marvel is gonna sink her career like the Titanic, because of her overextended ego and entitlement.

    AK BrahmaAK Brahma2 giorni fa
  • "WoMEn ArE UnLiKAblE"

    Bee PoppBee Popp2 giorni fa
  • I don’t care if people like me or not and that is the best freedom I’ve endowed myself with.

    Tom BeatsTom Beats2 giorni fa
  • This is very insightful

    Richard PriceRichard Price2 giorni fa
  • I hope she sees this video as a self-help (and not as an attack lol) and takes the advice. Yikes! 😬

    Sean ChungSean Chung2 giorni fa
  • Brie Larson is just super insecure and it makes her super unlikable

    jkcazyjkcazy3 giorni fa
  • It's painful to see how an actor can be so bad at "acting".

    RahulRahul3 giorni fa
  • captain butthurt

    badasfunkbadasfunk3 giorni fa
  • God Damn I don’t like her.

    shlupsshlups3 giorni fa
  • I thought she was particularly out of place on between the ferns. She wasnt in character trying to be a jerk she was just unpleasant. And now this vid is in my feed confirming my suspensions

    Dwight TaylorDwight Taylor3 giorni fa
  • Is the girl who play super girl ?

    LouiseLouise3 giorni fa
  • If you take everything personal and serious, the problem lies within your spirit.

  • What did I learn from this video? That Brie Larson its the most unlikable person in holyweird...... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    ERICK4431ERICK44313 giorni fa
  • Of all the examples for our human insecurities and how to avoid them, the whole video seems like a dig at Brie. I don’t even know who she is at all. But why using her for every other example. Not fair. This seems rather personal.

    V RV R3 giorni fa
  • Brie Larson is unlovable

    Tutak TutyaTutak Tutya4 giorni fa
  • Basically everybody is a wingman except for Brie... not surprised.

    dkchendkchen4 giorni fa
  • They made her god in the latest avengers movie for the “feminists”

    Mav _Mav _4 giorni fa
  • Reminds me so much of a girl I know who is trying too hard to have the friend group like her. Hit the nail on the head with your explanations for why it turns people off.

    FarCough145FarCough1454 giorni fa
  • Brie was so warm and human-like before she succumbed to the lefty/social justice/feminism/whatever mind virus. Sad, many such cases.

    AnonymousAnonymous4 giorni fa
  • The British are simply the best at being facetious... If you're explaining, you're losing.

    James EdwardJames Edward4 giorni fa
  • She’s annoying af

    Ivan HairnandezIvan Hairnandez4 giorni fa
  • I never thought that long haired thing was ever funny hes actually verry annoying reminds me of will Farrell they just should not fk comedy 😠

    Alex RiveraAlex Rivera4 giorni fa
  • that clip with Chris Pratt and Jennifer Lawrence...man i miss seeing her movies!

    Dominic RedBorrelliDominic RedBorrelli4 giorni fa
  • i think she's truly trying to be funny, but is just really bad at it

    Whitney WWhitney W4 giorni fa
  • This is what happens when a privileged woman convinces herself that she's a victim, so she's constantly amped up to confront every person who, in her mind, will use every opportunity to oppress her further and conserve the patriarchy.

    Yo' MommaYo' Momma4 giorni fa
  • Young men and boys made up (probably still does) the primary fan base for Marvel comics and made it possible for Marvel to generate cartoons and ultimately the major feature films that we see today. For Marvel to empower Captain Marvel as a female in this manner is sickening. No wonder Stan died. RIP.

    Adam PalmAdam Palm4 giorni fa
  • Thor, War Machine, and Hawkeye were all like "Yeah...yeah, whatever you say, just don't touch me."

    2 Crazy2 Crazy4 giorni fa
  • Russell is so great, I saw him in a chiropractic office once and I said "I love you Russell" and without missing a beat he replied "I love you too, you're beautiful" and it was so nice because I'm not really beautiful but he is so kind to say that ❤️

    Hayley CometHayley Comet4 giorni fa
  • I don’t get it. (Using a flat tone)

    MegsmanMegsman4 giorni fa
  • I still dislike her.

    Austin CichonAustin Cichon4 giorni fa
  • Wow, she is a good example. I honestly have same issues like her

    rere439rere4394 giorni fa
  • How to not fight Step one: dont fight

    Craig HansenCraig Hansen4 giorni fa
  • Why do yanks find it so hard to see sarcasm without it having to be childishly exaggerated.

    Ryan CooperRyan Cooper4 giorni fa
  • ^ She needed a *_butt double_* ^

    Mr HappyFaceMr HappyFace4 giorni fa
  • Yeah she’s annoying.

    Myron Feltner, Jr.Myron Feltner, Jr.4 giorni fa
  • Brie's sarcasm is obvious in all of these cases.

    Graham LukeGraham Luke5 giorni fa
  • I think this video just showed her before and after she became some kind of 3rd wave feminist symbol. In the parts from an earlier parts of her career, she was capable of banter because she wasn't seeing herself as so much of a victim of the "patriarchy", and then in the parts in her later career she is coming from a position of seeing herself as oppressed and having to fight for dominance.

    TheRazRiotTheRazRiot5 giorni fa
  • Just because Americans can't catch sarcasm doesn't mean there has to be a 'tell' lmao

    Spurge123Spurge1235 giorni fa
  • Little known fact: Did you know she has a brother named Camembert?

    MadofaAMadofaA5 giorni fa
  • Uh uh! This is an opportunistic video. You should have hired actors to act out being rude or whatever to prove your point. I think being opportunistic like you are being is quite lacking in social graces, somewhat like you are accusing this actress of being.

    Yo L.Yo L.5 giorni fa
  • In Australia its the opposite. Deliver a joking insult in the harshest most deadpan way possible , Never let on you were joking. EVER.

    Freelance opportunistFreelance opportunist5 giorni fa
  • Does it have to be more overt for Americans because they are just not capable of catching more subtle language? makes them sound rather simple . And RAussel Brand did not interpret that prat interviewer as positive, he was taking the piss and showing scorn... maybe too subtle for you

    VladVlad5 giorni fa
  • She uses dead pan a lot, people don’t like that because she leaves it ambiguous.

    franwexfranwex5 giorni fa
  • Whom likes a cantankerous moron making a deal out of every idiocy? They are pathetic.

    MinonianMinonian5 giorni fa
  • Wrong. This video would be better off with NOT recognizable public figures. People know the character the chick from parks and reck plays and it’s her “shtick”, people get it. We also get where you’re comin from. But there’s always a group out there right🙄... see that? See what I dideded there, I gave you a little “tell”...cute huh?😐....ok that last one wasn’t a very good “tell”....but you don’t know me so ya....how could you tell..... “ “. 👀

  • Captain Marvel....worst character ever.

    keiser sosekeiser sose5 giorni fa
  • It is called NARCISSISM........

    A.F.S.A.F.S.5 giorni fa
  • You might add ...any ambiguity should be seen as positive

    T BrownT Brown5 giorni fa
  • Also sarcasm is only successful if people DO NOT know you are being sarcastic.

    Sanford GraySanford Gray5 giorni fa
  • Brie Larson pre activism is a really cool and engaging person. Activist Brie Larson ..... let me put it this way ..... not that cool nor engaging.

    MottaheadMottahead5 giorni fa
  • I think I’ll keep doing the opposite. It makes things...more interesting

    Mrad338Mrad3385 giorni fa
  • The fact that this was so helpful makes me feel like an alien trying to learn how to be human

    Kiwi KimKiwi Kim5 giorni fa
  • Some women ARE funny. I mean, not THIS one, but some. Yeah really, only a few women are funny. A couple of women. Okay, women aren't funny.

    MoTCMoTC5 giorni fa
    • "Women aren't funny because they've never needed to be funny" - Christopher Hitchens.

      Louie TovarLouie TovarGiorno fa
  • You would have thought a professional actress would you know, know how to act.....

    Daniel SargessonDaniel Sargesson5 giorni fa
  • I never liked brie the second shee was chosen and said she never read a single comic and that she honestly didnt know who captain marvel was i was like why did you pick her if you're foing to be all pc at least pick somone who knows the role and the charicters personality

    Wizeke ThaWizeke Tha5 giorni fa
  • This is the problem, generally Americans need coaching in how to execute sarcasm, brits do it very naturally.

    Mark HarringtonMark Harrington5 giorni fa
  • Brie was likable before she tried to ride the popularity of woke culture.

    plutoburnplutoburn5 giorni fa
  • No matter how well you play it, in front of an “open wound” type of person,you ‘ll have your chances of being misunderstood

    Plus AuraPlus Aura5 giorni fa
  • Idk, she's lack of using emotion when she talks. Lack of emotion or being arrogant, I don't know.

    Tan_ Tama13Tan_ Tama135 giorni fa
  • The only humour Americans have involves loud exaggerated pie in the face clowning prompted by canned laughter Subtle,dry,clever humour whistles straight over their heads.

    Pappa GPappa G5 giorni fa
  • Takeaway: don’t be Brie Larson

    Exposed PodcastExposed Podcast5 giorni fa
  • She is unlikeable because of her low genetic tier face

    erakerak5 giorni fa
  • Insecure people are sour grapes...

    lance millerlance miller5 giorni fa
  • Wow i learned more about interpersonal communication in this video than 5yrs of college.. They do not teach this critically important stuff in college but instead they unfortunately push raging feminism and identity politics

    lance millerlance miller5 giorni fa
  • Brie Larson is toxic and a terrible actor...yea, actor. I swear she's really a he.

    Bad WolfBad Wolf5 giorni fa
  • Brie is a horror show

    Johnathan SturricJohnathan Sturric6 giorni fa