5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming

14 ott 2019
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George Clooney has a subtle and almost effortless charm. And unlike some of the people we’ve covered on the channel, you don’t have to take drastic steps to emulate it.
So today, we’re going to be looking at some of the habits that makes Clooney so effortlessly charismatic and learn what you can do to convey that same charm in your own life.

0:15 - Lesson #1: Focus on setting the tone for the interaction.
2:37 - Lesson #2: Laugh with your eyes.
3:56 - Lesson #3: Genuine eye contact.
5:57 - Lesson #4: Self deprecating humor & complimenting others.
7:57 - Lesson #5: George’s goal is to feel good.
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  • George Clooney is a loser

    iamonly Importantiamonly Important3 ore fa
  • Please do a video of Anthony Hopkins, and what he can teach us about Charm.

    The CowboyThe Cowboy9 giorni fa
  • Please do the one with the Hannibal Buress

    Tretiakov KonstantinTretiakov Konstantin11 giorni fa
  • Damn dude I'm gonna be great on a talk show if I keep watching these videos

    mcgiklemcgikle15 giorni fa
  • great low key dude

    Affirm NationAffirm Nation15 giorni fa
  • Thanks now I really know how charming handsome and lovable Clooney really is.

    Bluewren ReillyBluewren Reilly18 giorni fa
  • He’s just handsome

    cincocinco19 giorni fa
  • They told me I'm still charming even though I have a lot of pimples and being short. You have no excuses.

    Brent FaizaBrent Faiza25 giorni fa
  • Excuse me, but 2:08 he sits down like any older person who has back pain or hemorrhoids. He doesn't look comfortable at all.

    Ana SAna SMese fa
  • Man!! He is so charistmaic!!💖💖

    Ankit RawatAnkit RawatMese fa
  • 3:31 i didnt even hear the joke but I laughed

    SyborgCatSyborgCatMese fa
  • I'm noticing a key similarities to all of these; self depreciation. But it's not just making fun of yourself, it's throwing a jab at yourself here and there in the middle of the overarching story/point. It's a quick reference to a flaw, or an embarrassment, and then right back to the main story as well as the fact that story/point isn't oversaturated with these self insults. Seems like figuring that part of your social lineup is one of the most important parts to get figured out.

    Anon YmousAnon YmousMese fa
  • 5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming: Be George Clooney

    Jose RiveraJose RiveraMese fa
  • Basically, try to be chill lmao

    Afonso Maia de LoureiroAfonso Maia de LoureiroMese fa
  • Well can you do for a woman?

    Thotla MeliThotla MeliMese fa
  • Awesome!!

    Tony - Persuasion SecretsTony - Persuasion Secrets2 mesi fa
  • That progressive ad was way funnier than Clooney!!

    Jesus BarajasJesus Barajas2 mesi fa
  • Instructions were very unclear. I started laughing and pointing at people when I enter a room and now people like me even less.

    L ML M2 mesi fa
  • What on earth are you talking about?

    LeeLee2 mesi fa
  • charm

    gothsorrowsuffergothsorrowsuffer2 mesi fa
  • chill

    gothsorrowsuffergothsorrowsuffer2 mesi fa
  • The best compliment I ever got in my life was 3-4 years ago when I was in my early forties. My girlfriend's young co worker told her that she thought I looked like George Clooney. While not even close to the truth it made me feel great, charming, debonair and confident. Whenever I'm faced with a new social challenge like a job interview or meeting the gf's parents etc, I say to myself. "I am George Clooney". In a Michael Keaton's Batman voice. I always laugh of loud at the obsurdity of that statement but laughing at myself calms me, puts me in a relaxed frame of mind and a relaxed/jovial mood that transfers into my mannerisms. From there it's almost second nature to be charming and charismatic. Confidence is key as they say. Now I'm an introvert with a touch of social anxiety to boot. For 40 years I lacked confidence in myself and that showed in everything I did. I've been able to change my situation in life for the better. My confidence has grown tremendously with each new success and I don't need to say this ridiculous thing anymore to have charisma but you know what? I still do, every single day. It's important to me to stay grounded and true to what got me to where I am today.

    G.W. SmithG.W. Smith2 mesi fa
  • Doesnt work. I was attending a funeral and people thought im a psychopath.

    Blue S PBlue S P2 mesi fa
  • 1. Become super hot like George Clooney...not a good example for real life people....

    HBHB2 mesi fa
  • How do I know if people are really responding to their charisma and not just their physical attractiveness and fame?

    Mcm RvrMcm Rvr3 mesi fa
  • 4:48 and remember to hit that bell

    [BosS] HITMAN 20[BosS] HITMAN 203 mesi fa
  • Of course he’s charming! He’s a dapper dan man!

    Anime Profile pictureAnime Profile picture3 mesi fa
  • Man he looks gorgeous not just in a beautiful way, but in a mythically charismatic way.

    Adnan RakshaAdnan Raksha3 mesi fa
  • Clooney charming??

    E BE B3 mesi fa
  • *Mindset:* _To be charming, don't try to be charming - following a set of rules robotically. The goal is to make those around you feel good in an authentic way. The rest will follow._

    T MT M3 mesi fa
  • Please make a video analyzing Sophia Loren charm

    Rana AlQahtaniRana AlQahtani3 mesi fa
  • Barf

    Matt TaylorMatt Taylor4 mesi fa
  • Clooney is the best. Come back to the US. As Athena says to Frank Walker played by George in Tomorrowland, “you’re not funny.” And that’s probably the case. His ballplayer quickness & looks make up for it. When I first saw Clooney on a talk show he was probably the most nervous person I’d ever seen next to myself who’s never been on a talk show. Dusk Till Dawn & Tomorrowland among many greats. The ending of TL reminds me of the 2020 George Floyd demonstrations across the world.

    Real NoidReal Noid4 mesi fa
  • Can't be touching people during corona🙃

    Obeng-Yeboah K.DObeng-Yeboah K.D4 mesi fa
  • Pretty sure the interviewer was laughing because she thought Clooney was hot, not because he was 'laughing with his eyes'.

    Kai JohnsonKai Johnson4 mesi fa
  • He reminds me of Robert downey jr

    TalMishanTalMishan4 mesi fa
  • Can you do the singer Prince method. Rest In Peace prince

    Estevan MendozaEstevan Mendoza4 mesi fa
  • So, let me get this straight... we got here a George Clooney fan?

    Pollo Dolla SonPollo Dolla Son4 mesi fa
  • Since purchasing the charisma course from Charisma University for only $599.99 I now have all the confidence that I ever dreamed possible. When I want to impress the ladies, I just put on a really nice pair of speedos and go to the supermarket to shop for fresh produce. Before purchasing this course I used to be way too shy to shop in my speedos but not anymore. Since graduating from Charisma University I now realise that the nasty and uncomfortable looks and stares I receive in the supermarket from "lesser status males" are because they wish they could also shop in speedos. Charisma On Command is really changing lives one at a time.

    ASSMANASSMAN4 mesi fa
  • I watched this before going to an interview but they threw me out after 20 seconds. Apparently hugging and shaking hands was against company's protocol.

    Masood MUFCMasood MUFC4 mesi fa
  • 👶❤💕❤

    aleksandra kettneraleksandra kettner5 mesi fa
  • People down here, says he looks handsome. And they’re not wrong, but it’s his charm. His charm makes how we see him. If I try and pause, to look besides the charm, he doesn’t look that handsome. This shows, that charm is almost everything. Think of someone you know, who has a lot of friends and are really charming, if you think of them without thinking of their charm, they might not look as handsome (at least this is the case for me). So.. you don’t have to be handsome, you just have to be less shy and use these tips from this video. Also don’t have an annoying laughter, think about how you laugh when you’re laughing, and you can actually change it, without it being a fake laughter. Personally I’ve changed my laugh several times for one that fits me. I hope that this comment was useful if you actually read all this.

    Magnus SkjødtMagnus Skjødt5 mesi fa
  • I am more of a george Clooney. So this is awesome!

    Andrew WaldenAndrew Walden5 mesi fa
  • George has polished his presentation, well he is an actor after all. What makes him effective is that his non-verbal communication matches his verbal communication. George is heavily non-verbal in his facial expressions. You can almost turn the sound off and still understand what he is saying. In seeing him in film, I think it is more difficult for George to actually tone down his non-verbal, that is become stoic.

    Wind WardWind Ward5 mesi fa

    PP5 mesi fa
  • Lol when Jorge Ramos is actually a legend in the Spanish Speaking world

    Jaylinn HerreraJaylinn Herrera5 mesi fa
  • you should make a video about jeremy clarkson

    Leon Benjamin Rodriguez Del PozoLeon Benjamin Rodriguez Del Pozo6 mesi fa
  • 5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming. Step one - be extremely handsome...

    DS SoundtracksDS Soundtracks6 mesi fa
  • My friends say that I’m really charming and I watched this video to see how charming I am. I’ve been doing all of this stuff my whole life 😎

    Phillipa Soo Cinnamon rollPhillipa Soo Cinnamon roll6 mesi fa
    • I’m really glad they think that of you. Be charming is really life, especially since you do it effortlessly

      Ashea EAshea E6 mesi fa
  • Charlie its Imad from India... I have a request.... Make a video Of Shah rukh khan.... He is hands down the most charismatic person alive

    Imad AmirImad Amir6 mesi fa
  • Clooney is a fake and liberal Hack. He has lost a lot of respect.

    Mario PanebiancoMario Panebianco6 mesi fa
  • OR - just be a nice person!

    Saint EtienneSaint Etienne6 mesi fa
  • 1. Set the tone. Entering the room. Basically linger and smile as well as greet everyone in the room. First 10-20 seconds SET THE TONE! 2. Physical Placing = leads to physiological comfort and makes you feel like you’re in your own living room. Crossing legs and being open. 3. Laugh with your eyes. Get emotionally involved without your saying. 4. Genuine eye contact = looking down whilst creating thought is normal. Yet after gathering thoughts, make eye contact often. Best time to deliver eye contact is in most important moment. Makes strong eye contact during punch line

    EE6 mesi fa
  • um.... ummmm ... 1. born again... 2. born gain... 3. born again ... sorry.. 4.. ...you knew... 5... born again with good looking like G.C... Yup... so easy! isn't it?...

    KAY YUKAY YU6 mesi fa
  • Men are exceptionally egotistical and he’s just soaking in every last minute of admiration let’s be real lol

    kristina porterkristina porter6 mesi fa
  • So before sitting down in a job interview give the guy a bear hug right? I get it

    Mr EdMr Ed6 mesi fa
  • Danial has dyspraxia so is a bit of a struggle for him to not walk in that way lol.

    Qasim ImtiazQasim Imtiaz6 mesi fa
  • Question do You think that George Clooney knows he’s doing these things or is this just his natural ways. Thanks for this video btw.

    Omotayo OkedijiOmotayo Okediji6 mesi fa
  • Most of this is not practical. He can joke around like that because he's already walking in the door with massive clout from being a celebrity and a top tier movie star. You generally can't do this if you're a nobody. That's what's wrong with all these youtube videos, they are reading too much into this. Do you really think, George is going, ok, I'm going to laugh here and the punch line goes here? If that were true, it would come out awkward and unnatural. This type of charisma can't really be learned.

    A Metalhead's JourneyA Metalhead's Journey6 mesi fa
  • 😍😍😍😍😍 I love it

    NT-Learning HDNT-Learning HD7 mesi fa
  • Hearing the minute details the narrator told....in one moment I thought he was Clooney itself

  • George Clooney is a fuckin man

    Connor RyanConnor Ryan7 mesi fa
  • This is just analysing something that’s natural. You don’t quite “note” this. It comes out by itself.

    AmartyaAmartya7 mesi fa
  • Two easy steps: get into showbiz via nepotism, then just be good looking.

    teri dayteri day7 mesi fa
  • Great advise.

    Brandon TeaBrandon Tea7 mesi fa
  • Hi can you also do a review of Character Berlin in Money Heist Series? Thanks :D

    Bryan Dave LucidoBryan Dave Lucido7 mesi fa
  • I wonder if anyone knows if Charlie uses these videos from ITworlds royalty free? Thank you

    Saint KOSaint KO7 mesi fa
  • It certainly helps to be good looking

    Chetan MehraChetan Mehra7 mesi fa
  • He’s drunk me

    Nicolo M.Nicolo M.7 mesi fa
  • the best batman cuz he really is rich in character

  • thats why tomy wiseau is funny and famous

  • It's all about being you in any environment and being strong enough internally to not depend on others for value (keep your frame) - all while being refined and sophisticated. All of this will keep you from looking like you want attention. Those with high value don't feel the need to take on crazy styles or seek shock value from their statements. People notice when you are trying to get attention (crazy hair style and then pretending like you're just "expressing yourself," shock-value statements not based on you being honest but to try to bring attention to yourself). If you have real confidence, you don't seek it in artificial ways and know that it will come naturally. Seeking it artificially actually just makes you look desperate to seem cool or "different," or whatever. Self-belief says, "I don't have to do something outlandish to seek attention. In fact, I don't have to seek attention. I receive it naturally."

    Coach LeeCoach Lee8 mesi fa
  • most of u losers in the comments should google ''halo effect'' and learn what it is...

    Dr. Sam LowryDr. Sam Lowry8 mesi fa
  • 1) be very very good looking 2) be a famous & wealthy hollywood actor 3) be very very good looking

    Dr. Sam LowryDr. Sam Lowry8 mesi fa
  • Step 1 be george clooney Step 2 repeat step 1 Step 3 figure out the step 2

    jawwad hassanjawwad hassan8 mesi fa
  • Be the Bond. Dress well, Walk with confidence. Be polite, but have a plan to kill everyone in the room.

    Philip CoffmanPhilip Coffman8 mesi fa
  • Virgin Radcliff loser vs Chad Clooney

    MaVidaMaVida8 mesi fa
  • you won't find one single pattern of likeable people. because there are multiple baseline of body languages of charismatic people. unblinking eyes, blinking eyes, those only work in whole package with other cues. and we have our own base cues.

    Atom NousAtom Nous8 mesi fa
  • I really liked this video!!

    ElliottElliott8 mesi fa
  • Honestly the best charisma channel. It's just too bad i don't have an income to join CU.

    Karan AbrahamKaran Abraham8 mesi fa
  • George Clooney and Tom Hanks seem alike in this way.

    CDArchivesCDArchives8 mesi fa
  • "Donald Trump is not going to be president" AND how well did that turn out??

    Matt IrishMatt Irish8 mesi fa
  • What a old creep

    Jorden PimblettJorden Pimblett8 mesi fa
  • 1 minute in and essentially you're saying don't be shy

    FlowUrbanFlowFlowUrbanFlow8 mesi fa
  • clooney accepts $25m dollars for nespresso then prances around pretending to be a campaner against child labour... fkn joke

    jeremy westernjeremy western9 mesi fa
  • I hope my cat notices the effort I'm making. He certainly picked the right job : Actor.

    free agentfree agent9 mesi fa
  • listening at 9:45 ....im about to go into engineering for next year and im already bad at being social at times

    CarlosCarlos9 mesi fa
  • I actually am glad I stopped here. I hadn’t really analyzed these things and that was really helpful :)

    Michael TrimbleMichael Trimble9 mesi fa
  • clooney doesn't need to be charming, he's rich!

    jp bartjp bart9 mesi fa
  • Thank you for all you videos, all helpful in my life. : ) Rafael Nadal is another loveable confident celeb. A look at his charisma might be interesting.

    Thanx - Love ItThanx - Love It9 mesi fa
  • 6:20 when George Clooney pays you a compliment, and you realise it's because you're beneath him

    Luvuyo SojiniLuvuyo Sojini9 mesi fa
  • Ok, so: Clooney is the God himself! 🤣

    Ákos FellnerÁkos Fellner9 mesi fa
  • love your ending comment! feel comfortable and have fun not charming others!

    tubbertubber9 mesi fa
  • You do realize he is reading a script

    Washington ConsultantsWashington Consultants9 mesi fa
  • I have started walking into my apartment to gentle canned applause. I find it puts me at ease as I cook dinner, which then is applauded further by my wife.

    thelastdetail1thelastdetail19 mesi fa
  • being attractive also doesn't hurt :))

    H AH A9 mesi fa
  • One thing that popped to me on this is Milo who does not make eye contact consistently but he does when he looks up as he makes a point or to see if his point he was trying to make connected with the person he’s speaking with or the audience he’s speaking to...

    Travis WayTravis Way9 mesi fa
  • you described it as if he’s doing all of this on purpose rather than effortlessly like you first said

    NxghtNxght9 mesi fa
  • Your website has a ton of scrolling just to find the price. The 60-day guarantee I think you could fix. If it's that good you can actually give money back if you complete 80% of the course. That was just my first reaction. Just from your videos I can tell you would get a lot out of it.

    Adam JensenAdam Jensen9 mesi fa
  • If anyone was wondering the DVDs under the television are Seinfeld. 2:33

    Alex SierraAlex Sierra10 mesi fa