7 Easy Ways To Be More Popular

9 set 2019
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Shia Labeouf has had some incredible swings of popularity in his life. From child actor to blockbuster megastar, outcast, and now to an indie hit maker.
In this video we’re going to learn how Shia has gone from those low points to regaining popularity, all without being fake.

0:28 - #1: Have good sub communication.
1:15 - #2: Slow it down when telling stories.
2:12 - #3: Make eye contact during your main points.
2:44 - #4: Be more honest.
4:27 - #5: Be vulnerable in a non attention-seeking way.
6:13 - #6: Be non-judgemental.
9:19 - #7: Focus on the quality of your connections.
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  • I’m curious how to stop from demonizing someone I’m really mad at someone who stole from me and wasn’t feeling sorry for it... stole something that was purely my long term effort and had my name on it and yet stole in a selfish and greedy way!

    Miss VikingMiss Viking13 giorni fa
  • Well the guy who made this video definitely is not cool 😂

    Wi llWi ll3 mesi fa
  • Well the guy who made this video definitely is not cool 😂

    Wi llWi ll3 mesi fa
  • Dude was amazing in Even Stevens. Easily the most expressive child actor.

    Umer AsifUmer Asif6 mesi fa
  • 8:20: What's up Berleezy!!

    Funky MunkyFunky Munky6 mesi fa
  • shia labeauf is my favorite libtard :)

    Sasa MilicSasa Milic6 mesi fa
  • I really have a problem with cockiness and I want to be more humble and genuine. It's not that I'll lie about my achievements but I will always one-up those around me, i think it is just an defence. Can you make a video about humility or if you did already let me know. Thank you!!! I know this video kinda dances around humility, but is there any more?

    XGeneXGene8 mesi fa
  • It does sound nice (The ending) but the issue being is you will not meet the same pepole)

    Ember HydraEmber Hydra8 mesi fa
  • idk why ppl hate him for the transformers movie.. I liked that movie only because of this guy.. of course movie was childish.. but he made it fun too🤷🏻‍♂️

    PrasunPrasun8 mesi fa
  • Can u seriously lower the amount of money to get charisma University please

    Husein 27Husein 2710 mesi fa
  • it's just not *true* that "everyone is always doing their best". in the words of michael o. church, most people are lazy, greedy, and weak.

    7seednew7seednewAnno fa
  • Great video,I didn’t know Shia was this interesting,but I love this

    Evie BEvie BAnno fa
  • A village........buff said.

    Richard RideauxRichard RideauxAnno fa
  • 👑

    Ace HardyAce HardyAnno fa
  • “10/90 til da day I die”

    KiNG BoAKiNG BoAAnno fa
  • What is the 90/10 rule then?

    77dris77drisAnno fa
  • This is Shia labouef Shia labouef holds doors for little old ladies Be like Shia labouef Conor McGregor has entered the chat. Little old lady got knocked out! Later that night on JRE:Conor why? Joe rogan :Jamie pull up that KO!

    Cody BartlettCody BartlettAnno fa
  • The reason why all people watched this video is because they have No friends.

    Steve LeeSteve LeeAnno fa
  • This video needs to be split into quotes. Shia replicas were so sharp and fast, and at the same time full of meaning and value. I feel I need this in my life. Thank you!

    Святослав ПіхСвятослав ПіхAnno fa
  • For a female who's desire is to be more elegant etc.. does this approach also work for women?

    Dedi B.Dedi B.Anno fa
  • To have "conviction" like Shia LeBouf you'd have to like him, be a member of a "marginalized" group and be both deeply narcissistic and immersed in a rich social world where that narcissism is normalized, from a young age. You'd have to be convinced that nothing in life is better than amassing "friends".

    David BeddoeDavid BeddoeAnno fa
  • What if people belittle you for ur truth

    Tropical StormXoXTropical StormXoXAnno fa
  • If you're going to use people as examples, at least use people who aren't complete asshats. He is an Actor, a lot of these steps you're going through is probably just him acting.

    Rusty ShacklefordRusty ShacklefordAnno fa
  • Shia Lebouf??? Really? Here I subscribed to this channel. Now I'm gonna have to unsub. Lol..... Anyone up for capture the flag? HWNDU? :P

    Alabama ThunderAlabama ThunderAnno fa
  • I remember Byron Katie's story about a Cockroach! Amazing. That is when she didn't have the power to change her environment so she accepted the circumstance and... I don't want to ruin it for you.

    MomzillaMomzillaAnno fa
  • If all you think when you talk to people is "how is this getting me ahead?", You're a sociopath 😂

    Nikki RossNikki RossAnno fa
    • Nikki Ross yay I am sociopath. Do you want to see my doll head collection? 😅

      miles butlermiles butlerAnno fa
  • So good

    Giftson DomaiGiftson DomaiAnno fa
  • I think I love Shia?

    Garrett PayneGarrett PayneAnno fa
  • I have no doubt this advice is sound. What I am having the most trouble with is how to gain that group of people without being stuck with the narcissists I am attracting. Users, drainers, vampires. How do I get friends who are willing to **RECIPROCATE** Friendship? You have no videos on that. Accept the challenge.

    Kaythia StarKaythia StarAnno fa
  • Shia Labeouf for President.

    Danny BDanny BAnno fa
  • You should do a video on Greg Plitt. If you don’t know who he is... or was. You should.

    Zach ScheererZach ScheererAnno fa
  • I rush through my thoughtful convictions because everyone I talk to tries running me over with how their day went and I can barely get a word in edge wise.

    cherrylcherrylAnno fa
  • Interesting that you chose a controversial figure like Shia, but I've noticed most of his detractors haven't actually watched interviews with the guy, they just know him from Transformers and by his reputation or public "stunts". But in interviews he carries himself very well, guess it comes with having been a child actor.

    Courtney CoulsonCourtney CoulsonAnno fa
  • Its easy to be popular when your a celebrity millionaire. I liked this channel until this video..

    Michael ChristopherMichael ChristopherAnno fa
  • He will kum inside us....

    BluntlyBluntlyAnno fa
  • Conviction is a funny word when used regarding Shia Labeouf

  • Lookin' more like Shia Labuff these days huh?

    Cory NorellCory NorellAnno fa
  • Shia comes across as a good, genuine guy every time.

    Matt WMatt WAnno fa
  • Hello, I came across one of your videos and ended up watching around 10 I’m subscribed and will be watching continually. I don’t want to sound like I’m guilt tripping or black mailing you but I’d love too have a conversation with you too see if we are as alike as I think. I’ve always been an outgoing person but due to certain circumstances feel I’ve lost myself somewhat and respond with anger instead of thinking logically and responding as I used too. I think a conversation with you for 5/10 minutes would help me a great deal and if you could find the time I would be very great full. I understand you have over 3 million subscribers so you must get this a lot. I would use your statement about ending an email in a giving or asking for a favour in this comment but I’m pretty sure we both know which this is 😂 Even if you read this thank you! King regards Liam

    Liam FurfieLiam FurfieAnno fa
  • I disagree with the last point. Quality over quantity, one thing that stuck with me was a person that lived in nazi germany said I judge friends by asking myself "would they hide me?", you cant have 60 people like that.

    Lovro BudayLovro BudayAnno fa
  • Have to disagree hard on this one. He's not like Robert Downey's jr. It isn't genuine and there are real anger issues there. Dude comes off like a dbag to me that is faking confidence, and passive aggressive.

    Ean NaneEan NaneAnno fa
  • Do not the title, like the content :)))

    AllanAllanAnno fa
  • Charlie you speak brazillian portuguese and still named your program CU???

    Fabricio SantosFabricio SantosAnno fa
  • I didn't think I would actually ever have respect or learn something from Shia, but some clips changed that.

    jimmybeanjimmybeanAnno fa
  • Do a video on Andrew Yang!

    Rob DomosRob DomosAnno fa
  • I'm very curious to see a video on Andrew Yang. The instant he speaks I can't stop listening, lol.

    Linda WhitfieldLinda WhitfieldAnno fa
  • You can't teach or learn a genuine personality. Shia Lebouf is also just doing something. He doesn't know what the F he's doing. Just like everybody else. Stop trying to learn to imitate others and start discovering what you like. Accept that there are no definitive answers or ideals everyone should oblige to. Just learn to listen to your inner voice (how cheesy that might sound). It's okay too blend into sometimes, but don't let society blend into you. Into your cure. Keep trust in yourself. Or how Shia Labeaouf would say it: "You just do YOU!" Make your dreams come true people. But not by copying other people who seem te be livin' the life.

    zowsterzowsterAnno fa
  • shia is my life

    JurassicaJurassicaAnno fa
  • It’s almost like having admirable qualities that lift yourself and others around you up is a good thing, while being shady, bringing people down, and being dishonest is bad. Who would have thought 🤔

    Ariston SpartaAriston SpartaAnno fa
  • You should do a video on Danny Duncan

    Jim SmithJim SmithAnno fa
  • Can you do a video on lil Uzi verts charisma specifically the one with GQ

    OG KellyOG KellyAnno fa
  • This guy Shia speaks many truths....i like it. People need more connection.

    BrunoBrunoAnno fa
  • You should cover Andrew Yang, why is that once you listen to him you just can't stop

    Ru soRu soAnno fa
    • YESSS!

      Linda WhitfieldLinda WhitfieldAnno fa
  • The content of the videos on this channel is great, but I feel like th video titles and click-bait thumbnails are a bit inaccurate, if not outright insulting to the potential viewer's intelligence. I'm sure the above gets you the views and you don't plan on switching the formula, but it's kind of important for me that I call it out :/

    Corey ButlerCorey ButlerAnno fa
  • He was really nice at the TIFF red carpet for Honey Boy and took his time with everyone and was so humble UGH. I said I loved the movie and he was like “really, you watched it?” LIKE YES DUDE I FREAKIN WATCHED AND LOVED UR MOVIE HOW ARE YOU SO HUMBLE

    nikiitersnikiitersAnno fa
  • Geminis

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  • He just DOES IT

    The MaxThe MaxAnno fa
  • only commenting bc i’m lucky number 666

    みそら なおみみそら なおみAnno fa
  • How to be popular- be good looking

    ambuydewayambuydewayAnno fa
  • Best way to be popular is to listen, choose your words carefully, listen to whats being said and contribute accordingly, be relaxed and open so people feel comfortable talking with you but also relaxed enough that if they dont want to talk to you it’s no big deal and doesnt knock you off your grove

    Sean RosiniSean RosiniAnno fa
  • i noticed in general of the CoC videos, there are many advices on how to be a leader. but what if i dont want to be a leader? yeah sure, i want to be attractive, not socially awkward and so on. but i honestly dont want to be that guy, everybody is looking at in the club or the one who has to decide everytime where we go tonight. often you can hear something like, do X and you'll be more like a leader, and being a leader makes you more popular/attraktive/confident/... As if non-leader cant be.

    DieSuperGurke001DieSuperGurke001Anno fa
  • To be popular is to have a saintly character !

    Leonora DomporLeonora DomporAnno fa
  • To be popular is to be saucy and juicy and humorous !

    Leonora DomporLeonora DomporAnno fa
  • To be popular is to be natural,spontaneous,friendly and humble !

    Leonora DomporLeonora DomporAnno fa
  • VIKINGS ANALISIS!!! do Ivar the boneless please 🥺

    Five PercentFive PercentAnno fa
  • I cant stand listening to peoples stories. Unless it's a specific bit of information I want, I just don't want to hear it.

    msa1985msa1985Anno fa
  • 6:46 Lmaoooo

    Ilay cohenIlay cohenAnno fa
  • Wanting other peoples approval is not charismatic in the first place. I would even go further saying it's toxic. However your segment about being honest was interesting to me. Cheers

    Chris BlahblahhChris BlahblahhAnno fa
  • Could we possibly see something about stage presence for musicians? No so much like Kiss or Madonna, but more like The Grateful Dead? Those guys just stand still with no gimmicks and only talk to the crowd every so often, and they have a confidence I find charming.

    Rowan PhantasmalRowan PhantasmalAnno fa
  • I don't know it it's one of ypur chatisma tricks, but charisma university sounds mighty useful right now

    DhramboDhramboAnno fa
  • You're a little bit superstitious. You're scared of hospitals. You have an operation on Friday the 13th for a hernia repair where they will be giving you a general. How do you deal with that. This is exactly what I faced just a few days ago. 13th Sept 2019. As I was walking to the Hospital, it was a beautiful morning. The colours in the sky were amazing. It truly was a wonderful sunrise. (Was told to be at hospital for 7am, so I was walking along about 6am). And I said to myself "this, this is a good day to die". And as I walked into that hospital, I put my fears to one side, and decided that I'm going to have a good day. I'm going to make everyones day good whomever they may be. Not to impress anyone, not win anyone over, but if I'm not going to wake up after the op, why the hell not make the most of that time. I had a blast of a time. From the nurses, the consultants, from the porters, to the surgeons. I spoke to everyone equally, teased and had banter with them, whomever they were. When the porters came to take me down to theatre, I walked alongside them whilst they pushed an empty bed, and we had a scream of a time. We was all laughing and joking down the corriders, and they loved absolutely loved it. When I was being prepped to go under, I had a laugh with those guys too. They teased me about how much coffee they'd been drinking all morning, and that I was dying to have a coffee. And when I came around, in recovery. I carried on being like that. And I saw all the people I'd seen earlier that morning. The porters, the surgeons, the nurses, the doctors. And they all came over wearing big smiles to come chat with me. It felt so good. Everytime they asked how I was doing, and what I'm going to do with the rest of the weekend. Hey, I was gonna finally get that coffee, right!! I really wanted that coffee though, you know. That was my conviction. That's what got me through. For sure, people knew I was nervous. But I never made my problem their problem. Never took my fears out and put them others. Didn't wallow in my own insecurities and demand the world pay attention to me. I made all my interactions about their day, about them being important. I even got let out the same day, in the late afternoon. Walked around the corner out of the hospital, and to the costa I'd seen on the way in, and got myself my damn coffee. And it was just as good as I imagined it to be. You know, if you're like me, and get worried about Friday the 13th and operations, then simply shrug, tell yourself it's a good day to die, and make it so that it is. After all, if it really is your last few hours, then why be a twat about it. Just be cool.

    William ToppingWilliam ToppingAnno fa
  • I would love to see more video's about women. I adore your channel. Love to see more!

    Hanna as in montanaHanna as in montanaAnno fa
  • Hey, there Please make a video on peaky blinders character Tommy Shelby please

    Rai deepRai deepAnno fa
  • Make a Brad Pitt charisma breakdown

    Anthony MartaAnthony MartaAnno fa
  • Just to confirm, the course is $600 & not $100?

    Eddie AcostaEddie AcostaAnno fa
  • Hey Charlie, please do a breakdown of the Corleones from Godfather...

    Rovin DcruzRovin DcruzAnno fa
  • I really want to see an analysis of Jackie Chan, his humbleness and discipline is something to really admire and it would be a great video

    LordBukketLordBukketAnno fa
    • @SS park However you would be right in some aspects as well. I did search just now, out of interest. When it comes to political views and his past it may not be the best. However when it comes to political views I think its a complicated subject and he has the right to those opinions if you ask me.

      LordBukketLordBukketAnno fa
    • @LordBukket Huh, I guess ur right in terms of no bad fan interactions and stuff. It's just his more personal life which is a bit screwy + political ties. I should have done more research before I commented

      SS parkSS parkAnno fa
    • I have actually tried to find info about this but I have not really seen anything pointing to it. It may be so but from what Ive heard he is also very nice in person (when reading fan interactions and stuff)

      LordBukketLordBukketAnno fa
    • Isn't that all a front though? I've heard that he might not be as nice person as he seems

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  • The very idea of being 'close' with 50 odd people is just exhausting and anxiety inducing.

    AiliasAiliasAnno fa
  • You've got to do 50 Cent and how he manages to still be liked and embraced by the media all while being a grade A douche. I gotta hear the break down on that lol

    MrsRDubMrsRDubAnno fa
  • i really love your video and how you break down your video as example it is really helpful. when a check your online classes i'm shock how high the price is, im from a third world country and the different curs is really high so cant afford it even if i want to join your online tutor. but i would like to thank you for doing this job in youtube. even if im from 3rd world country i still can learn alot from you. keep up the good work. love from indonesia

    airlangga ibrahimairlangga ibrahimAnno fa
  • Plz do a video about Timothée Chalamet and how he’s awkward but also maintains to have good charisma

    maddyjul07maddyjul07Anno fa
  • hey charlie could you please do a video of Grindelwald of the fantastic beast.

    baroot mabroukizobaroot mabroukizoAnno fa
  • Is it possible to do a run down on Hannibal Burress. He’s crazy laid back and makes people chuckle before he even tells the joke. it’d be sweet to get an intellectual perspective on it.

    RadmanRadmanAnno fa
  • Can you do an analysis of the democratic debates?

    MasterAidanMasterAidanAnno fa
  • make a video about hugh jackman

    ShantoDLXShantoDLXAnno fa
  • Jesus was a real man unto death - He was always true and upfront; a real alpha of alphas.

    Jannie SchlüterJannie SchlüterAnno fa
  • How to be popular? Don't start a fight with 4 chan that u can't finish or win, especially when you're wrong.

    Bill BaxterBill BaxterAnno fa
  • Make vikings charecters breakdown.

    khairul rashidkhairul rashidAnno fa
  • So his Kimmel interview came up five years later for you too?

    The Lord of ShadowsThe Lord of ShadowsAnno fa
  • I always thought of shai lebouf as dorky but you gave me a different view of him, Charlie. You’re good.

    Inge niousInge niousAnno fa
  • This is an amazing video. It LaBeouf star in Split movie?

    King EwayKing EwayAnno fa
  • He really took the 80/20 principle and made it 90/10

    Chandler HartChandler HartAnno fa
  • Uhtred of Bebbanburg

    Vrayden RoyceVrayden RoyceAnno fa
  • Can you do a video about Brendon Urie? He's awesome

    Amy ChuaAmy ChuaAnno fa
  • Charisma university is worth every penny! being honest is the key to everything... with everything, i still need to work on gestures and storytelling.. Charlie, make more videos about that. huge fan of your charisma(also the university btw) leraned alot..

    Martin Aksglæde HansenMartin Aksglæde HansenAnno fa
  • do one on Colin mochrie

    Apollo-Apollo-Anno fa
  • I would really love to see a break down of Moist Cr1tikal(Charlie). How he's able to have so much charisma with his monotone voice. Otherwise, you always have great helpful videos.

    Smart HustleSmart HustleAnno fa
  • "No part of the truth is unspeakable" that's my takeaway, thankyou

    Mitchell AlexanderMitchell AlexanderAnno fa
  • Anyone ever notice how he looks like Idubbz alot

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