3 Easy Ways To Charm Anyone

11 feb 2019
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Theo Von’s charisma is quite refreshing as it's not flashy. He doesn’t have to scream, say ridiculous statements, or do strange gestures.
He’s the antithesis of the dancing monkey; cool, calm, collected and charming.
Today I want to touch upon 3 points so we can understand Theo’s charisma and implement his tricks to better our social skills.
0:50 - Point #1: Isn’t An Over The Top Attention Grabber
2:45 - Point #2: Active Listening
6:20 - Point #3: Non-Judgemental Authenticity
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  • Hey Miss. I didn't want it to happen, but you're just absolutely gorgeous

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  • IT is hart to use this stuf i have to translate iT to my leanguge

    DieEneJongensDieEneJongens14 giorni fa
  • This guy was great on PKA (Pain Killer Already). Where my RSK's at?

    Matthew DevMatthew DevMese fa
  • You need to specify the context for the type of charisma and charm this video exemplifies. In the entertainment field or casual social contexts, Theo would get a laugh with his antics. In many other business and education contexts, his over-the-top comments would garner silence, and he might even been called in to HR for sensitivity training.

    Susan ParkerSusan ParkerMese fa
  • So excited to learn about your Arabic channel. I'm learning Arabic and looking for interesting content to practice with.

    BusyBee262BusyBee2623 mesi fa
  • 1:00 the infamous shroom stand up. After Joey Diaz podcast

    Brandon BernhardtBrandon Bernhardt3 mesi fa
  • Instructions unclear now I have a case

    Ocean DeyyOcean Deyy4 mesi fa
  • I’m guessing people are listening because he’s sitting 10’ in the air in a bar that people paid to be there and listen to him!!!

    RichRich4 mesi fa
  • I dunno about the first one, maybe I just hate it when my friend does it to me. like whenever he wanna tell me something, he opens up with a baity sentence to make me ask him to continue...freal it's such a pet peeve.. I would just leave him on read and comeback to him later.

    unCrownedunCrowned5 mesi fa
  • Love seeing Jordan P laughing and having a good time!

    Barb QBarb Q5 mesi fa
  • I love Theo Von!! ❤️

    Yvette KennedyYvette Kennedy5 mesi fa
  • Theo von IS NOT FUNNY

    kripto currencykripto currency5 mesi fa
  • As I'm watching this video I'm just thinking to myself like wow I do all of this. That's why I don't have too many enemies, it's hard to hate me!

    avery jacobsavery jacobs5 mesi fa
  • Is that mac Miller 1:04? Lol

    JordanJordan5 mesi fa
  • I think he said, "I didn't want to be." Not, I didn't want it to.

    Randy EckardtRandy Eckardt5 mesi fa
  • To be fair, a bunch of shiny bottle tops is all you need to get Brendan’s attention, or better still a laser pointer.

    The Chumps been dumped.The Chumps been dumped.5 mesi fa
  • How come this channel has no video on Norm Macdonald?

    H DH D6 mesi fa
  • Most underrated man in the LA.

    SanjaySanjay6 mesi fa
  • Lol @ THE Description: "He doesn’t have to scream, say ridiculous statements, or do strange gestures." First clip is of him half naked doing a wrestling promo calling himself "the fonz with the bronze."

    Arisen MusicArisen Music6 mesi fa
  • Learn to be charming. Act like this guy. Genius.

    Mark MeMark Me6 mesi fa
  • Learned that Yes And thing from Adam Carolla.

    Paul FroelichPaul Froelich6 mesi fa
  • Gang gang

    Paul FroelichPaul Froelich6 mesi fa
  • Theo Von is one of the most down to earth people I’ve ever listened to. His earlier shows on his podcast were down right emotionally enlightening, plus the guy is a mental image setting genius. Von deserves Rogan status.

    Michael SanchezMichael Sanchez6 mesi fa
  • I've watched alot of your videos.. this one is probably the first time i've been able to confidently say i already have a tendency to do these things 😊

    Brian FrostBrian Frost6 mesi fa
  • when is he gonna' butter kats muffin...sick thurty tommorow. not six thirty tomorrow. sick/six...either ya get it, or ya don't!

    zzz ///zzz ///6 mesi fa
  • Carl Jung be proud

    BoriquaAteoBoriquaAteo6 mesi fa
  • 11:39 AWWWW HAPPY BABY!!!

    HawkfandanHawkfandan6 mesi fa
  • We must and should judge. Judge the crap out of people and judge ourselves. being a hypocrite doesn't mean you shouldn't judge because you can't live up to your own standards, it's when you judge but make an exception for yourself. Not judging is removing the standard. I disagree with you with CoC.

    nyuki187nyuki1876 mesi fa
  • This is Deep.

    ItzCarlitosWayItzCarlitosWay6 mesi fa
  • Listen more than talk. Cliche.

    Hiroko MoriokaHiroko Morioka6 mesi fa
  • Commentator, with speach style management you might not want to choke your vowels with the last word at any pause when dropping to a lower tone at the end of that phrase. Valley girlish

    Jackson EgliseJackson Eglise6 mesi fa
  • I've got a pessimistic friend & I hug him & tell him that I love him, EVERY time that I see him. Oh how he fights, but now we can have fun He needs LOVE. He was abandoned at a Fire Station, at the ripe old age of 3. His childhood was A PURE HELL & I really do feel sorry for his plight in life

    Daryl RichardsonDaryl Richardson6 mesi fa
  • that crooked smile in the thumbnail is NOT charming.

    zhou seizhou sei6 mesi fa
  • Tom Brady's little brother?

    Rick HernandezRick Hernandez6 mesi fa
    • ..... Charisma question...

      Rick HernandezRick Hernandez6 mesi fa
  • Someone asking you questions does not mean they are listening to the answers. People interrupt answers to their questions all the time.

    ViGiL QueViGiL Que6 mesi fa
  • Brene Brown's book "Daring Greatly" changed how I deal with building trust, authenticity and expressing and building stronger connections through vulnerability.

    TJ HerringtonTJ Herrington6 mesi fa
  • Idk why he reminds of of the young Kevin bacon

    RissyxoRissyxo6 mesi fa

    RissyxoRissyxo6 mesi fa
  • You talk tooooooo.... MUCH....

    Palmer Organic FarmsPalmer Organic Farms6 mesi fa
  • Most important: just be unapologetically yourself. That's what Theo does. He's not afraid to be his authentic self with others, even if his jokes don't get a laugh. Do you!

    Mindset With JoshMindset With Josh7 mesi fa
  • Creepy AF dude wth

    Miss DirectionMiss Direction7 mesi fa
  • #1 shave your mullet.

    andrewdaileychufableandrewdaileychufable7 mesi fa
  • 5:40 he said, "I didn't want to be"

    Gwai WohngGwai Wohng7 mesi fa
  • Very good analysis. Love this guy!

    Alicia YangAlicia Yang7 mesi fa
  • What's with the random celebrity montages?

    lindz151074lindz1510747 mesi fa
  • great info

    monicas madhousemonicas madhouse7 mesi fa
  • ive learn by shutting up you can learn alot

    Fc channelFc channel7 mesi fa
  • Please do a video of how Brendan Schaub comes off as a try-hard and why.

    Michael SgambatiMichael Sgambati8 mesi fa
  • A squeezy handshake lmfao

    Juan C. IrachetaJuan C. Iracheta8 mesi fa
  • 5:15 I burst out laughing and couldn't stop for 2 minutes. Theo is the man.

    Natty BNatty B8 mesi fa
  • Yeah but it also helps if you're incredibly funny.

    Max SchmermbeckMax Schmermbeck8 mesi fa
  • He had tomi lahren drippin in her chair, dark arts boy.

    Justin GiffordJustin Gifford8 mesi fa
  • Another infomercial 😡😡😡

    Joe ComptonJoe Compton9 mesi fa
  • Ok im not seeing it....maybe u have a crush on theo sir...😌

    Jimmie ParkerJimmie Parker9 mesi fa
  • 2:08 I tried following this and I realized how much my friends don’t listen seeing as I’ve barley said anything for the past 2 weeks. Very cool thank you

    Justin Y.Justin Y.9 mesi fa
  • He looks like Matt Damon

    tropical candylandtropical candyland10 mesi fa
  • "Authenticity. Once you can fake that you're unstoppable"; Alan Shore

    Willie HallerWillie Haller10 mesi fa
  • The mullet is back wether we like it or not

    Tim BerecekTim Berecek10 mesi fa
  • Wasn’t he on The Real World?

    Schramer HammerSchramer Hammer10 mesi fa
  • Annoying that you describe every step . Takes from the humor of clips

    Time for change -Time for change -10 mesi fa
  • Nah nah. This dude is wrong. I know Theo and that’s just how he is. He’s a story teller and somehow lived a weird life and has tons of experiences. It’s just how he tells the story...

    Andrew HomiakAndrew Homiak10 mesi fa
  • I love him :)

    Lizzy TommyLizzy Tommy11 mesi fa
  • Would you do a video on Matthew Hussy? And also one on Ryan Blare

    Stefanie FaithStefanie Faith11 mesi fa
  • "Lookin for the lawd brother what did you think I was doing?"

    YodaEconomicsYodaEconomics11 mesi fa
  • If Tom Brady grew a mullet and decided to be a comedian

    Daniel ParkDaniel Park11 mesi fa
  • All those roids when he was young bruh

    Spencer YoungSpencer Young11 mesi fa
  • Of course he's charming! Have you seen his mullet !!?

    Samuel BulletproofSamuel Bulletproof11 mesi fa
  • Uhhhh, yes and is actually an episode from bojack horseman... do some research

    Levi ShortLevi Short11 mesi fa
  • Joey Diaz!!

    JamesJames11 mesi fa
  • 1: He isn't an over the top attention grabber 2: He's an active listener 3: He's authentic

    Business ManagerBusiness Manager11 mesi fa
    • Discrption?

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  • you aren't a good teacher

    The bassplayerThe bassplayerAnno fa
  • Please make a video about James Spader as Red Reddington in the Blacklist.

    Ricardo Zende KambindaRicardo Zende KambindaAnno fa
  • I thought that was Matt Damon

    Z NZ NAnno fa
  • So Basically I have to give up Beers...I'm out.

  • Do a video on norm mcdonald

    Joshua LalrinzualaJoshua LalrinzualaAnno fa
  • His off the cuff skills are off the charts.

    JazzbuhJazzbuhAnno fa
  • Steps to be funny and charming: 1. be attractive End of list.

    ZachZachAnno fa
  • First thing... be good looking period

    Lancet FencingLancet FencingAnno fa
  • Gang Gang baby! RAT KING for the win 🙌🏼🤘🏽

    Houston HugheyHouston HugheyAnno fa
  • I don’t find it charming or charismatic when ppl talk to me in click bait.

    vwr32jeepvwr32jeepAnno fa
  • B.E. Y.O.U.R.S.E.L.F.!!

    Martin KolmMartin KolmAnno fa
  • Looking for the Lord

    whats my name?whats my name?Anno fa
  • As much as you try to recreate and break this down, you cant do what theo does cause thats theo mane

    ambient wizardryambient wizardryAnno fa
  • I can’t stand the mullet

    Henry The NinjaHenry The NinjaAnno fa
    • Don't disrespect the rat king

      The Cosmic NemesisThe Cosmic NemesisAnno fa
  • You have to have the lord running through your veins lmao

    Emma HEmma HAnno fa
  • grabbed his attention by being vague??or by seeing a picture of Theo in the Vegas desert, standing next to a little black kid, wearing tribal garb and war paint..

    Part 2Part 2Anno fa
  • tl;dr 30 seconds of content crammed into 11 minutes of video. I dunno how he does it.

    David CookeDavid CookeAnno fa
  • I would love, love, love it if you would give the names of the movies when you use clips. I don’t recognize some of them but am intrigued and would surely watch some of them based off of the clips you use. Keep up the great work. I just found and subscribed to your channel and am currently obsessed!

    Chris EichChris EichAnno fa
  • This charming man is about theo von

    Squanch WanchSquanch WanchAnno fa
  • 7:54 People really need to listen to this everyday! Would certainly make the world a better place.

    mad maxmad maxAnno fa
  • why is theo von in the title?

    Joseph AmaralJoseph AmaralAnno fa
  • Its natural. You cant try and be natural its obviously has to come naturally. But to move forward and better yourself is cool bruh

    RC TAZRC TAZAnno fa
  • "Anyone here from the south ? Hell ya baby second place in the civil war" his best joke in my opinion

    Jack FahyJack FahyAnno fa
  • He’s charismatic?

    AlexanderAlexanderAnno fa
  • OMG guy... let it be!?!? Get ur own life u FREAK!!!! Of Course I'm talking to the Commentator of this video....

    Kevin SpeightKevin SpeightAnno fa
  • 1. timbre 2. drawl 3. patience 4. humility 5. rhyming slang 6. dark arts

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  • Theo Von is funny as hell.

    Drake DocsonDrake DocsonAnno fa
  • This could also be titled How to be hot

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  • Can you do a video about how learning about these things can affect how honest a conversation style can be?

    Um BongoUm BongoAnno fa
  • I love listening Theo but I didn't know why, this makes more sense thanks

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