How To Stay Confident In Embarrassing Situations

30 set 2019
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Staying confident in embarrassing / nerve wracking situations can be tricky. Unfortunately those are the times you need your confidence the most.
In this video we will be using Margot Robbie to demonstrate 5 things that will make sure you stay confident, even in situations where you might normally feel embarrassed or nervous.

0:31 - #1: Smile more frequently.
2:29 - #2: Give yourself permission to be authentic and transparent.
4:16 - #3: Lean into the embarrassment to minimize it and regain confidence.
6:39 - #4: Break the golden rule.
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  • Plot twis: margot robbie stole toilet paper from the hotel because she knew what was coming 🧻😷🧪

    e s t h e re s t h e r7 giorni fa
  • Nobody; Me: 🧐📝📝📝

    Jenny CJenny C14 giorni fa
  • I Think we oughta acknowledge Margot is the prettiest thing in the world, with perfect teeth and lips. That is why she can smithen so deafening with her grin

    Sean BeadsSean Beads14 giorni fa
  • But how about the smiling like the mean girls do??? Im confused

    Your AddictionYour Addiction15 giorni fa
  • thank you for this 😩 i never handle embarrassing situations well

    Antoinette TAntoinette T15 giorni fa
  • Most people tend to think the only way to avoid embarrassment is to not make mistakes. I guess that's not realistic since everyone makes mistakes.

    Speedzone SpeedforceSpeedzone Speedforce16 giorni fa
  • She is an ACTRESS !!!!!

    Akash Pal Akash PalAkash Pal Akash PalMese fa
  • im here after doing something terrible

    noona yeppeunoona yeppeuMese fa
  • Do u even know what is embarrassment? When Kanya ruined Taylor's VMA speech. Or when Ashley Simpson and Selena gomez got caught lip syncing. Or when Kristen Stewart 's award fell out of her hand on stage. Cover those

    RRMese fa
  • this helped a lot 😊😁

    Siwani glorySiwani gloryMese fa
  • How to stay confident in embarrassing moments Step 1: Be attractive

    MabzonTheScope001MabzonTheScope001Mese fa
  • Jesus Christ...she's good looking so every time she opens her mouth weak guys will nod and laugh whatever she says. Not saying she hasn't got character but beautiful people's experiences are not instructive..unless the instruction is: "be beautiful, people will treat you better"

    Edward JonesEdward JonesMese fa
  • When I’m embarrassed my face goes red in a matter of milliseconds and its hard to act cool when my whole face suddenly turns into a tomato. I had moments when something embarrassing happened to me but people forgot about what happened and focused more on how my face just shifted colors like that. What am I supposed to do in that kinda situation

    jupiter212jupiter2122 mesi fa
  • i am just watching because of margot robbie

    jh070jh0702 mesi fa
  • I clicked on this with the quickness

    Neya SamadNeya Samad3 mesi fa
  • Woe she's beautiful

    mutual respectmutual respect3 mesi fa
  • no one can tell if I smile or not cuz i have to wear a mask😤

  • Lesson 1 - be drop dead gorgeous so people turn their brains out and you can get out of ANY situation.

    TentaclesTentacles3 mesi fa
  • So I think the British reporter was being really funny but it's British you have to keep composure(you could see him laugh a bit)

    Higgins_123Higgins_1233 mesi fa
  • So reconlize...2:04

    Kay YoungKay Young3 mesi fa
  • bro stfu. you can't compare a multi millionaire hot celebrity, with a hard working professional that can't even afford a baby sitter, and how is a photo of her reading harry potter is embarrassing

    ngar zagloolngar zaglool3 mesi fa
  • Terminal is a highly underrated film. She did a great job, as did the other characters.

    Frederick MaloufFrederick Malouf3 mesi fa
  • SMILING is a TERRIBLE advice. People smile waaaay too much in recent decades. It is not normal to smile every time you open your mouth. Seriously. Just be yourself. Look at Trump how he is doing it. He rarely smiles and he always has a genuine face.

    Ton BongTon Bong3 mesi fa
  • It's WRONG to dissect behaviour looking at shows with an imperative on ratings. Logically, they will be theatrical(guess what, that's their line of work), and they will fake emotions. For example, all this "embarassing" situations are more cute and funny than embarassing. I'm so dissapointed.

    Antonio CastelliAntonio Castelli3 mesi fa
  • The guy in the interview said he was freaking out because he was sure BBC was never going to call him again. If Margot Robbie’s “embarrassing moments” threatened her career, she wouldn’t be laughing

    My ChannelMy Channel4 mesi fa
  • I was watching a video about how to feel more confident when smiling bc of ugly teeth/smile and then youtube recommended me this to tell me "step 1: smile all the time" wtf😂

    SomeoneSomeone4 mesi fa
  • That girl at 0:43 was Hayden Penattiere not that Harley Quinn chick

    Brad WickleberriesBrad Wickleberries4 mesi fa
  • We can all learn a thing or two from Margot. She’s a queen.

    Michelle DoironMichelle Doiron4 mesi fa
  • margot robbie can stay confident because she is margot robbie lmao.

    The Sports WarehouseThe Sports Warehouse4 mesi fa
  • The man being interviewed is such a good representation of British Men. No charisma, all business, no feelings. He could have easily taken his children outside in a loving way and he would have been the hero of that day.

    Kaash KaashKaash Kaash5 mesi fa
  • Sofia Vergara

    Jana BolzJana Bolz5 mesi fa
  • 2:27 Goddamit Terry! Hahaa!

    Guste 'R'Guste 'R'5 mesi fa
  • I had the captions on and they spelled Margot’s name as Margaux and I was gobsmacked

    Yahesa GuavYahesa Guav5 mesi fa
  • It also helps when you’re given a spotlight to talk about yourself. It’s a bit harder when you’re in a group of coworkers or strangers

    Mayra HernandezMayra Hernandez5 mesi fa
  • my face betrays me regardless of what i do because i turn bright red.

    bree smithbree smith5 mesi fa
  • i love marigot robbie

    general mythgeneral myth5 mesi fa
  • This man speaks about confidence I we never saw his face.

    die zombie67die zombie675 mesi fa
  • This video is better understood with your eyes closed.

    Javier Antonio Conde RuedaJavier Antonio Conde Rueda5 mesi fa
  • Love to see more female examples on how to keep confident!

  • Guys, please stop saying it would be easy to be confident if you looked like her. Confidence comes from accepting who you are inside, and being the most attractive person in a room cannot make you accept yourself. In fact, if you deal with insecurity, being an attractive person can multiply that by 100% because it gives you another reason to feel like a failure despite being so attractive.

    Emily DanielleEmily Danielle5 mesi fa
  • 2:59 that really correlates with 2020

    Someone HereSomeone Here6 mesi fa
  • Everything is great until I blush.

    Matthew .TMatthew .T6 mesi fa
  • the issue is that my smile is not margot's

    Youssef LotfiYoussef Lotfi6 mesi fa
  • Okay I tried this and people ended up finding me creepy and weird for smiling too much

    MissesKittyMissesKitty6 mesi fa
  • It helps if you're the most gorgeous human being on the planet!

    Mis mun RynkkyMis mun Rynkky6 mesi fa
  • helps that margot is so beautiful, what about people who don't like their smile or laugh?

    alexandra silversteinalexandra silverstein6 mesi fa
  • Margot robbie is one of those quite plump actress (compared to the other younger actresses who try to be so thin) and she is so comfy in her own skin rather than trying to become so thin

    ddu dduruddu dduru6 mesi fa
  • That moment u realise u have an ugly smile lol

    Blue ForeverBlue Forever6 mesi fa
  • Not tryna brag or anything, but I've seen her naked...

    just another accountjust another account6 mesi fa
  • This advice is all wrong for a guy. A guy can't smile this much or or be this animated in a conversation. It will come off as feminine and trying to please people especially during an embarrassing moment.

    Ambert JohannesAmbert Johannes6 mesi fa
  • I'm always telling people my embarrassing incidents because I find it hilarious and I end up laughing until I cry 🤔😂😂😂 even if I'm laughing alone pwahahahahah 🤣🤣🤣

    Amiena InspiredAmiena Inspired6 mesi fa
  • This man wants you to change your real behaviours and action in nutshell

    Sahil syncSahil sync6 mesi fa
  • May if I didn’t d-d-d-didn’t s-s-s-stutter

    Raine UWURaine UWU6 mesi fa
  • Me: (smiling like a serial killer at a random girl) Random girl: he's so hot Me:your skins so soft

    your guy on the insideyour guy on the inside6 mesi fa
  • Thank you! God Bless!

    GemGamingGemGaming6 mesi fa
  • ...this.....gave me absolutely NO answers , to why i feel extremly ashamed all the time 😒😒😒

    TerkaMLBBTerkaMLBB6 mesi fa
  • She's so goddam beautiful

    Shanna AllisonShanna Allison6 mesi fa
  • If only I was able to smile more often, but I genuinely don't believe I look good when I smile. I don't consider myself unattractive, but it's just weird how my face looks when I smile

    Fran CarabajalFran Carabajal6 mesi fa
  • The news guy was hilarious, he gave us a top quality meme.

    ZedZed6 mesi fa
  • Yeah but what if something actually embarrassing happens, and not just Margot Robbie embarrassing

    NosferatuNosferatu7 mesi fa
  • huh i already do these 😄

    Tilly ComedyTilly Comedy7 mesi fa
  • I don't know if you are scamming people or you are actually an expert at your thing....

    Aman Lal ShresthaAman Lal Shrestha7 mesi fa
  • ♥️💋♥️happybirthdaymargot♥️💋♥️

    aleksandra kettneraleksandra kettner7 mesi fa
  • 3:07 caught stealing toilet paper just can't control myself laughing... LMFAO😂😂

    Munvar RayMunvar Ray7 mesi fa
  • i feel like it’s pretty unfair to compare margot to the bbc guy because all of her embarrassing moments are in comedic situations but the other guy was clearly talking about something professional and important

    Emma ClaireEmma Claire7 mesi fa
  • Step 1: Be absurdly hot. That's really all you need.

    Andrew SyriosAndrew Syrios7 mesi fa
  • Finally ITworlds decided to lower the small view screen button🤷‍♀️

    Yến Nhi NguyễnYến Nhi Nguyễn7 mesi fa
  • Can you please do more confidence videos that feature women? I really like your videos but I would love to see more examples I can relate to.

    Amy PelhamAmy Pelham7 mesi fa
  • step 1: be sexy af

    BaeMaejorBaeMaejor7 mesi fa
  • Omg!! Loved this video!🤗 It was SOOO good!! I’d love to give this a try on my channel💃

    LovelyediithLovelyediith8 mesi fa
  • Margot Robbie has a beautiful and genuine smile. Love her.

    Pedro CostaPedro Costa8 mesi fa
  • 3:22

    Best GamerBest Gamer8 mesi fa
  • Can you talk about timothèe chalamet??? cause he seem awkward and confident at the same time and it is so cute

    smelly catsmelly cat8 mesi fa
  • 1:33 I feel like his reaction was anger because her only job during his interview was keeping the kids out of that room and she clearly left them alone for a bit and allowed them to walk in lol

    CarloisBuriedAliveCarloisBuriedAlive8 mesi fa
  • So margot robie is always in bad situiations

    Abdelhamid IbrahimAbdelhamid Ibrahim8 mesi fa
  • Margot Robbie 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

    I am The BatmanI am The Batman8 mesi fa
  • i really disliked the guy's reaction at 1:21 he was cruel to the kid and didnt handle the situation gracefully.

    Diana DiamondDiana Diamond9 mesi fa
  • This doesn't apply on every situation. Imagine you've been caught of having a fetish cutting your flesh off or something worse.

    Kool-aid SapiensKool-aid Sapiens9 mesi fa
  • Lettuce be honest..because she has a nice smile.. she can get away with laughing all the time If a person with funny teeth or a weird smile acted like her.. majority of people would think that they’re creepy.

    thedon2005thedon20059 mesi fa
  • Margo Robbie has no embarrassing situations because males looking at her are not listening to anything.

    T NT N9 mesi fa
  • I don't think robbie is really being embarrassed, all those situations are clearly staged.

    adlex1212adlex12129 mesi fa
  • margot 'An angel sent from heaven' can sit on my face and suffocate me

    AinobolicAinobolic10 mesi fa
  • Um the difference is his job is quite serious whereas Margots job is to be entertaining and charismatic. These weren’t good comparisons at all.

    Alicia MayevskyAlicia Mayevsky10 mesi fa
  • 1) Smile 2) Guffaw 3) Gush 4) Bray like a donkey

    Nancy HolloNancy Hollo10 mesi fa
  • How do you respond when people say something mean or rude to you? Specifically, What do you suggest when people are being derogatory towards you at work? What do you do if you are being blamed for something you didn't do at work? How do you respond when you are being written up at work?

    Ten MonkeysTen Monkeys10 mesi fa
  • Did you fall in love with Margot while watching all her interviews for your video? Because I did.

    Lena MLena M10 mesi fa
  • can you start giving tips for ugly people? the main people who struggle with charisma?

    Gamers SanctuaryGamers Sanctuary10 mesi fa
  • Try to smile all the time? think Ghollum trying to smile all the time? Just scarier, or unattractive ppl trying to smiling all the time? Just like a creeps.

    Eadyt87Eadyt8711 mesi fa
  • I don't think you should be looking at celebs for inspiration, since their known for playing a roll or faking themselves for a ten minute interview.

    Digital PainDigital Pain11 mesi fa
  • being a celebrity in a live show isn't like working in the news 🙄😁

    Wessam WalidWessam Walid11 mesi fa
  • Please do a video on Kristen Bell

    idgafortunecookieidgafortunecookie11 mesi fa
  • I see the comments have already beat me to it, but how to stay confident in any situation? LOOK LIKE MARGOT ROBBIE.

    kshamwhizzlekshamwhizzle11 mesi fa
  • I do all of these things naturally...but I'm ugly...and it doesn't work at all.

    hadzherehadzhere11 mesi fa
  • I have a challenge for you Charlie! Make a video on how to cartwheel every ten minutes, on the hour, while also explaining complex algebra.

    Tornado ChaserTornado Chaser11 mesi fa
  • apples to oranges

    Hunt3r.10120 DagoatHunt3r.10120 Dagoat11 mesi fa
  • “Try to smile more often” 😂

    Valerya KrovValerya KrovAnno fa
  • I don't see the kid coming into the room during the interview as embarrassing. His reaction just seems emblematic of the lack of empathy that makes people toxic. It's like a viral social cotangent.

    observer7418observer7418Anno fa
  • She's not American????

    SJASJAAnno fa
  • just an average guy here..i saw margot robbie & i clicked.. you got me man.. i like your contents.. i'm gonna sub now.. cheers!

    Rhon BlackRhon BlackAnno fa
  • She’s sooo wifey

    Smutty AlonsoSmutty AlonsoAnno fa