5 Harmful Psychological Tricks Your Mind Plays On You

7 ott 2019
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Our minds are littered with booby traps. If we’re not careful we fall into one of those traps and all of the sudden it becomes harder to feel happy, and to develop yourself further.
That’s why in this video I will be giving you 5 tricks that your mind is playing on you all the time.

0:16 - #1: The “free” trap.
1:48 - #2: Projection.
3:36 - #3: Social proof.
5:46 - #4: Choosing integrity over honesty.
7:50 - #5: We try to recapture something in the same way that we lost it.

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  • "Allow yourself to be hypocritical" 🔥🔥👏🏻👏🏻

    Sharon NwabiaSharon Nwabia4 giorni fa
  • This is an excellent video. But, I do not appreciate the projection example. Gays are already stigmatized and targeted, I would have liked a different example. Maybe an example of projection in racism or politics? However, good work.

    Stewart NashStewart Nash23 giorni fa

    Amogh GowdaAmogh GowdaMese fa
  • Why does the little drop of spit on your lower lip bother me so much?

    tim watztim watzMese fa
  • Is it possible to make an entire video on #4. I think I'm trapped in that mind set.

    JahcrooksJahcrooksMese fa
  • Please, never stop making videos. You're fixing my life.

    anan2 mesi fa
  • Your channel is such a huge help

    Benjamin BurnetteBenjamin Burnette2 mesi fa
  • This is so great, especially #4 and #5. Especially in the stock market for #5. You people try and 'break even' with a stock you lost money on when it would be better to cut losses and put the rest of the money in something that you think is a better value. Love it!

    Jay JacksonJay Jackson2 mesi fa
  • You have no idea how much i needed this video.

    HizzyHizzy3 mesi fa
  • I find myself doing this with audible. While I like audible I am only willing to have it at $8 and not $15

    infernoinferno4 mesi fa
  • Sooo, what if I'd pay 25 cents?

    C. NickC. Nick4 mesi fa
  • You're saying people who post those perfect photos on social media don't actually have perfect lives?? Say it ain't so!

    Joseph WhiteJoseph White4 mesi fa
  • Free is not always free- this relates to everything. It always comes with a price

    ReThink with VeronicaReThink with Veronica4 mesi fa
  • Hi! About projection, it doesn't apply on all cases right? E.g. I think the world is ruthless and cruel for so many brutal crimes, that doesn't mean the I wanna be a criminal or I won't have mercy on people. And sometime I think I'm boring or bored, but I never think that all people are boring or the world is empty of fun stuff, in fact I love things that didn't do yet. So I wouldn't count on the projection thing. Had to write it so it become true or it would just go with the mess in my head.

    Isra’a Abu EidIsra’a Abu Eid5 mesi fa
  • Moral of the video is to not get a girlfriend, but instead get a video game

    Noah BatzNoah Batz5 mesi fa
  • It's absolutely vital to preserve your mental health, hence engaging in activities that are truly becoming of who you are is always a nice start.

    Rashida CostaRashida Costa6 mesi fa
  • 1:55 *cough* milo yiannopoulos *cough*

    Hermaeus_Mora1Hermaeus_Mora17 mesi fa
  • Joe Goldberg

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  • i like yo videos cause you just go straight to the point 🤝

    Simplice TagneSimplice Tagne7 mesi fa
  • Free stuff costs more than expensive stuff.

    Ray NewellRay Newell8 mesi fa
  • Your time is the most importent thing u need to care about and appreciate )

    JinBo HimselfJinBo Himself8 mesi fa
  • Social proof is waaaaaay to real. I feel like most people are stuck on that, that's why we have brands that are more about the social aspect then being an actual product

    FlowUrbanFlowFlowUrbanFlow8 mesi fa
  • I'm Sicilian so Bocce ball is a requirement of life. No way out of it. Whatsa mattah fo you?

    Tony BaloneyTony Baloney9 mesi fa
  • I wanna do things to your mind!!!!

    VictoriaVictoria9 mesi fa
  • seems this is the most contentful video we've yet seen on those kinds of topics. The type of plain constructive and simply true mindmap that helps you organize. Decent. // Only comment apart from this: we saved the video to > watch it more times. For listening to it once, it was too fast run and too contentful for us - as if each of the points is actually worth an extra video with more examples and picturing. We think this vid is a real mindmap, outstanding.

    -Bleach- punk dj-s-Bleach- punk dj-s9 mesi fa
  • this man is a social god

    AnonycadoAnonycado10 mesi fa
  • Really? Five figure cost for botchy ball?

    Mad Max And MadiMad Max And Madi10 mesi fa
  • "Free education, health care", etc. Mmm no!! Ever heard of taxes?? Basic economic principle THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A FREE LUNCH.

    Ramon AnayaRamon Anaya10 mesi fa
  • 8:35 Glad this is a video cause that "..put on Craig's List" statement would've came with a shower!

    Dusty LuckyDusty Lucky11 mesi fa
  • Good content and well delivered.

    Edmund JanasEdmund Janas11 mesi fa
  • Thats crazy same exact thing happened to me and my brother and I played divinity 2 to get over it, but we were on honor mode/tactician

    Louin GreenLouin GreenAnno fa
  • The projection really hit home with me.

    M PM PAnno fa
  • The question is, whenever you feel like you've lost something: a friend, money, a job, whatever; it's not "How do I get that particular thing back?", it's "What else could I do that might be more interesting and fun to make myself feel whole again?" Oftentimes, you get better solutions than the thing that you lost.

    sallyjrw jrwsallyjrw jrwAnno fa
  • Soo recently i had a situation were i had to compromise will i do the thing that is at low cost but will cost time because its a long time until i get it or do what i need but lose the oportunity, but it happend so that i did the thing were i could lose the oportunity and i had time and didnt lose the oportunity but ended up not using the oportunity witch was my choice

    Up StantUp StantAnno fa
  • The one dollar rule would destroy youtube

    Keegan IdlerKeegan IdlerAnno fa
  • COC is my favorite channel!

    Andy EccentricAndy EccentricAnno fa
  • 😥

    Maximus L. SatherozianMaximus L. SatherozianAnno fa
  • Talk more about projection please!

    mom's spaghettimom's spaghettiAnno fa
  • Regardless of the topic you've become really great at doing these videos man

    Fábio da real dealFábio da real dealAnno fa
  • где я?

    kartoshka 2808kartoshka 2808Anno fa
  • I don't like this guy.

  • The lesson here: Think for yourself

    AxelladdonAxelladdonAnno fa
  • you have one of the most useful channels on youtube

    I know NothingI know NothingAnno fa
  • ,,,

    Randy LeeRandy LeeAnno fa
  • You need to write a book!

    Shell RaeShell RaeAnno fa
  • "I wanted to date that particular woman and then I wanted to date other people" hmm... I recieving low Bi vibes here...

    NachovyxNachovyxAnno fa
  • Number 5 got me. Really good example and something that I will start applying in my own life.

    Elise EricksonElise EricksonAnno fa
  • I always said hypocrisy is the most disgusting thing we humans posses although we are all hypocrite sometimes. You make alot off sense on the subject. I would love to see a video didicated to the subject one day. Love your work its one of the most intresting videos i came across youtube since this year

    Wesley Van ReenWesley Van ReenAnno fa
  • can someone explain the 4th ?

    Enias K.Enias K.Anno fa
  • You should demonstratively threatened that GYM to return your money with a law suit in small claims court. You are in the right so they will have to return your over billed $50. They will have to use a lawyer which will cost them $100s of dollars plus your $50. They will easily give you your money ASAP because it's cost effective for them to do so.

    SD LuedtkeSD LuedtkeAnno fa
  • You know he has charisma and self-confidence when there is not a single cut in his video

    XXPeanutSoldierXXPeanutSoldierAnno fa
  • Amazing video this was my favorite advice 5:59 Integrity over honestly, admitting our hypocritical behavior

    Santi YoungerSanti YoungerAnno fa
  • Solid advice

    Gustavo FringGustavo FringAnno fa
  • Imagine if these videos were you projecting what you wish you were

    ThinkAboutThisThinkAboutThisAnno fa
  • I work in marketing, and it strikes me how many of these psychological tricks are marketing go-to's. Social proof, projection, price framing...

    Jonathan WalkerJonathan WalkerAnno fa
  • I don't know where the hell the term "bocce ball" came from but in the UK we call it's "bowls" and it's fun as hell so leave off

    Vincent ChapmanVincent ChapmanAnno fa
  • Love the info in this video. Thanks for the video. Enjoyed watching to the end. New friend here & rang the bell.

    Keto & Paparazzi by LisaKeto & Paparazzi by LisaAnno fa
  • Haha, I've been telling people hypocrisy isn't all bad for YEARS! It's an indicator that you're starting to recognize good and bad things that apply to your situation. You need to be able to see those things before you can change.

    Sarah BaiocchiSarah BaiocchiAnno fa
  • It would have been funnier if this video was sponsored by Divinity 🤣

    YanVee GamesYanVee GamesAnno fa
  • You should write a book.

    Tom SeinfeldTom SeinfeldAnno fa
  • I really enjoy this channel and the work put into it. Can I request you cover the human Shadow psychology, from Carl Jung. I read A Little Book on the Human Shadow ~Robert Bly I suggest this because taught me how 20 years old people haven't had enough experience to understand they are acting out their Shadow(dark side of the personality because it still rules them. It isn't until approximately 30 adults become more self aware and able to deal-with-it/eat-your-shadow. I'd really like to hear what take you'd have. GBÜ

    Joe CanadianJoe CanadianAnno fa
  • I love Bocce Ball, I would pay $1 to play it.

    Mathew LydyMathew LydyAnno fa
  • So in your town they play Bocce...? Are you italian?

    aaAnno fa
  • My mind‘s playing tricks on me

    Cunt CunticCunt CunticAnno fa
  • I not sure about the hypocrisy thing....if things can be allowed out of convenience, where does it end? Like it IS NOT ok for Progressives to be so perversely bigoted.

    William ScurryWilliam ScurryAnno fa
  • Subtitles pls

    vantarinitelvantarinitelAnno fa
  • People can actually be perfect

    JoSalvadorJoSalvadorAnno fa
  • How did I find this channel? I don’t know but this guy is perfection 😭 the content, the personality, the voice, the face...

    JoSalvadorJoSalvadorAnno fa
  • Awesome tips

    Obie Da ShinobiObie Da ShinobiAnno fa
  • I don't think what you suggested is hypocrisy. There is a difference between being aware that you don't live up to your own ideals and rules and thinking that these rules don't apply to yourself (the former being what Charlie proposed, while the latter is true hypocrisy)

    Elias AbeleElias AbeleAnno fa
  • Charlie, I loved your post!!! Well-done@

    Murat KucukdugenciMurat KucukdugenciAnno fa
  • Post nut clarity

    TropicalninjaTropicalninjaAnno fa
  • 🤔Sounds like you have an issue with Dems😅

    Michael RosenbergMichael RosenbergAnno fa
  • Overarching theme. Time is the most valuable commodity in the universe. Choose wisely how to spend yours. More money can always be made, but no amount of money will ever buy you more time.

    Rambling RecruiterRambling RecruiterAnno fa
  • Can you please do something about ELVIS

    patrickwagpatrickwagAnno fa
  • The social proof and social approval dual phenomena dominate social media

    transformerchargertransformerchargerAnno fa
  • Dude, Divinity 2 is probably the best game I've ever played!

    Jakub GJakub GAnno fa
  • I always enjoy all your witty comments :) Has to be the funniest comment section on youtube, yes you scrolling -------- Thank you :)

    Daithi _mmaDaithi _mmaAnno fa
  • Make a video on Hank moody

    Rahul batraRahul batraAnno fa
  • my bar had bachiball or w/e there and it was a blast for drunk people. you cray cray

    LO LLO LAnno fa
  • Good content. #1 could even be extended from “free” to include “significantly cheaper than normal price,” such as loss leaders or door buster deals.

    SquintillionsSquintillionsAnno fa
  • I need to watch this video of yours everyday!

    funnyshapedhead1funnyshapedhead1Anno fa
  • Thanks for what you do, from Russian fans)

    AlexAlexAnno fa
  • FakeBook is free, that's not worth a $1 either.

    EddieEddieAnno fa
  • Why is your mouth bigger than your face? Are you real or just an AI generated fake?

    thewaldenthreethewaldenthreeAnno fa
  • About the money thing... When asking my money back for me it's not only important to have it back but also that the person/company or whatever just doesn't keep it.

    TheDLoaderzTheDLoaderzAnno fa
  • You should do a video on Jim's charisma from The Office

    Snolly GostersSnolly GostersAnno fa
  • Wow! I was especially stung by the projection part. I plead guilty. Thanks for prosecuting me. I needed that.

    Jerry MillsJerry MillsAnno fa
  • And you hit the nail on the head about hypocrisy. I've found that in myself and stamped out the failures when I become self-aware of them, or at least try to.

    Ken DKen DAnno fa
  • No matter what's going on bad in my life, when the cat wants to be sweet, I stop what I'm doing and pay him attention. I always feel better afterwards.

    Ken DKen DAnno fa
    • @Dawn Baker your neck looks thick, are you trans? no judgement.

      OPOP9 mesi fa
    • @OP When the cat wants to be sweet by approaching you for some petting or playtime

      Dawn BakerDawn Baker9 mesi fa
    • "when the cat wants to be sweet" WTF does that mean?

      OPOP11 mesi fa
  • You should do a video on Kris Jenner. This woman is the mastermind behind the Kardashians, it'd be interesting to look into it!

    NikitinaNikitinaAnno fa
  • Can you do a vídeo about Thomas shelby ?

    Leonardo HonoratoLeonardo HonoratoAnno fa

    nadaas qimawnadaas qimawAnno fa
  • #4 Hypocrisy? No. There is no integrity without honesty unless you are a consummate liar! Haha

    0ned0nedAnno fa
  • Disliked because bocce ball is the best.

    John DayJohn DayAnno fa
  • Usefull good job

    Thanasis BallasThanasis BallasAnno fa
  • Пиздец у него рот огромный! Стрёмно выглядит...

    RybakRybakAnno fa
  • Thanks for the awesome tricks! I definitely have to work on the $1 tip and fixing my projection screen.

    Najeea MurrayNajeea MurrayAnno fa
  • когда там перевод уже

    Angry JakemAngry JakemAnno fa
  • Brilliant stuff

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