How To Be The Most Magnetic Person In The Room

10 ago 2020
279 425 visualizzazioni

Check out Charisma University:
Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s ITworlds Account:

Jamie Foxx is insanely charismatic. Some people mistakenly think that he's just an over the top comedian. While Jamie sometimes uses physical comedy, he's a magnetic storyteller and an amazing conversationalist. He can even lead a conversation just by listening and asking the right questions.
Today we're going to break down a few of Jamie's habits, and how you can use these habits to become funnier, more magnetic, and a more likeable listener.

0:00 - Intro.
0:43 - #1: Set a playful tone from the start.
2:45 - #2: Use a self burn with no heat.
4:23 - #3: Tell present tense stories with a variety of voices.
6:00 - #4: Use a "cliffhanger" pause.
7:50 - #5: Be a likeable listener.
#JamieFoxx #CharismaOnCommand

Connect with us further:
Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand
Or if you want to see our personal stuff:
Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Instagram: @IamBenAltman

  • Could you possibly break down norm macdonald

    Damon NealDamon Neal5 ore fa
  • This was a great video.

    Kisha LeeKisha Lee6 giorni fa
  • Many people are telling me, that i'm a great listener and they still don't like me lol.

    Rùššîæñ WμñtêrRùššîæñ Wμñtêr6 giorni fa
  • Gentle reminder he's 53 this year still rocking a 35 y.o. looking body

    MrPanSzymonMrPanSzymon10 giorni fa
  • I watch these ITworlds videos to study how to interact with my friends. What a strange, disappointing life.

    Paul CaridiPaul Caridi15 giorni fa
  • 8:41 OMG that neckline is nuts!

    Julian Felipe Granados FlórezJulian Felipe Granados Flórez21 giorno fa

    NickNick28 giorni fa
  • Powerful segment. Learnt a lot thanks..

    Big ElectronBig ElectronMese fa
  • I’ve gained some incredible insights in these videos. Thank you

    Intuition GoddessIntuition GoddessMese fa
  • God entered into my body, like a body. my same size. worlds only holy ghost filled man. God attacks me. God rips my face, shoots into mouth, gum disease. Jesus appears.laughs

    God has come into my body, as a angelic fire bodyGod has come into my body, as a angelic fire bodyMese fa
  • I need to say this again... this podcast is gold.

    Crunk Van NizzleCrunk Van NizzleMese fa
  • Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

    Rocking RondaRocking RondaMese fa
  • Insecure people please pay attention to this video! If you know you're insecure don't make self depreciating jokes because that's just awkward for everyone involved.

    Jax LinesJax Lines2 mesi fa
  • Stop this cope, the best way to be the most magnetic person in the room is to look good.

    Greyson BennettGreyson Bennett2 mesi fa

    United Defensive TacticsUnited Defensive Tactics2 mesi fa
  • Next time, could you please talk about Zendaya? It would me amazing 😉

    ChryChry2 mesi fa
  • Plz do Ricky Gervais

    Not your financial advisorNot your financial advisor2 mesi fa
  • I am a good story teller so i don t have to wary about this =)

    Radu GrosuRadu Grosu2 mesi fa
  • Money

    Runner3331Runner33312 mesi fa
  • LOOOOOOOOOVE JAMIE!!! I’ve met him a few times in my lifetime and he’s the most consistent human I’ve ever met!

    Loving MemoriesLoving Memories2 mesi fa
  • 5:55 , pick one , Jamie : does the one finger gesture

    Mac JonesMac Jones2 mesi fa
  • God, American talk shows are horrible.

    JajalaatmaarJajalaatmaar2 mesi fa
  • Damn he really likes Suits

    Applicable AppleApplicable Apple2 mesi fa
  • just bring up the magnets by unknown

    Igor LerincIgor Lerinc2 mesi fa
  • Naa Jamie Foxx is incredibly attractive and charismatic 😘😘😘😘😘😘

    Amrita HoreAmrita Hore2 mesi fa
  • Ok, so nex time i go to Jimmy Kimmel show ill do the wave

    Dethaxe 79Dethaxe 792 mesi fa
  • You care about what people will think of you only if you let them live.

    YokkyYokky3 mesi fa
  • love it thanks for sharing

    Arrogant Knats BCNArrogant Knats BCN3 mesi fa
  • "I was" is not the present tense, as all your examples showed. That's elementary school grammar...

    Blunt KatanaBlunt Katana3 mesi fa
  • I'm already the most magnetic person in any room, I repel people away from me

    NotRickyNotRicky3 mesi fa
    • Damn 💀

      Ali SaainAli Saain2 mesi fa
  • You really don’t need any gimmicks or something. You just have to be who you really are. Just be you and the rest comes with it automatically. Don’t worry so much how you have to behave and talk and all that. That only creates unauthentic behavior. And if you are a really “bad” person then start working on yourself. Start loving you and change your perspective on things. Then your behavior will change automatically. Much love 🙏❤️

    Paul H.Paul H.3 mesi fa
  • The burn with no heat thing is interesting... I’ve definitely said things before which have had too much heat and wondered why the convo took a weird turn where people have to say ‘noo that’s not true ’ or something 😅 love these videos

    reallymagnoliareallymagnolia3 mesi fa
  • love him

    dolla mahmooddolla mahmood3 mesi fa
  • you have already covered him before... same things again

    Jason GrJason Gr3 mesi fa
    • @Benjamin Altman I am pretty sure you have covered that he is enthusiastic with the crowd during his intro to Kimmel before.

      Jason GrJason Gr3 mesi fa
    • I don’t believe we’ve covered Jamie Foxx before. Can you link me to the video?

      Benjamin AltmanBenjamin Altman3 mesi fa
  • What is the movie or tv show at 1:30 or so being referenced?

    FlamingManofIronFlamingManofIron3 mesi fa
    • @Benjamin Altman Thank you! I never watched that one.

      FlamingManofIronFlamingManofIron3 mesi fa
    • Suits

      Benjamin AltmanBenjamin Altman3 mesi fa
  • Guess I'm a piece of plastic because I don't find myself attracted 😂

    X⃞ A⃞ N⃞ D⃞ E⃞ R⃞X⃞ A⃞ N⃞ D⃞ E⃞ R⃞3 mesi fa
    • Y'all got it - because metals attract????? MY MIND.

      X⃞ A⃞ N⃞ D⃞ E⃞ R⃞X⃞ A⃞ N⃞ D⃞ E⃞ R⃞3 mesi fa
  • Video idea: charisma during a pandemic, like through a mask and/or over zoom.

    Sweet DreamerSweet Dreamer3 mesi fa
  • Can you please make a video about Priyanka Chopra's charisma? I find her very charismatic!

    Anita AnilAnita Anil3 mesi fa
  • do you have russian lang.. on course?

    Vyacheslav ChyrukVyacheslav Chyruk3 mesi fa
  • Can you do a video on Chip Gaines?!

    h_spriggs23h_spriggs233 mesi fa
  • Can you also make one about Jeff wittek He is really charming

    Brown E GirlBrown E Girl3 mesi fa
  • Can we get a video about Harry styles please

    Brown E GirlBrown E Girl3 mesi fa
  • You guys should write a book, you are amazing!

    Rania KhalilRania Khalil3 mesi fa
  • What do you think about video on Brooklyn 99? Maybe Jake's charisma breakdown

    BakiBaki3 mesi fa
  • I even wanted to buy your course, but the price is just so over the roof. Like I would never get even close to being able to afford this. Its crazy

    Vee LynchVee Lynch3 mesi fa
  • @Charisma could you do a video analyzing Peter Joseph? The way he speaks and presents information is almost hypnotic.

    King SarathosKing Sarathos3 mesi fa
  • Can you make a video in regards to Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez' charisma and what makes her so appealing when she speaks

    Steven EvenSteven Even3 mesi fa
  • We need a charisma video of Lucifer or One of the Characters from Money heist

  • Techniques are key, but also the content of the story is the payoff. Fun activities, young women approaching him, interactions with other celebrities all indicate value and that makes people want to listen.

    NelsonNelson3 mesi fa
  • I dont know why, but being a magnetic person would be one of my worst nightmares. I hate constant attention to me. I enjoy being in the background all the time. And I'm not even afraid of talking to a ton of people and I'm confident enough to face a crowd but only if the situation requires me to do so.

    So Sick And Tired Of All The Needless BeatingSo Sick And Tired Of All The Needless Beating3 mesi fa
  • Man I've just came upon your channel in the last few hours and I've went on a binge watch since then. Love your channel and advice !! It definitely helps me and I enjoy watching and hearing your ideas and perspective of how to do things. I can have super bad anxiety traits when it comes to conversation and I find your advice very relieving and enjoyable! Any videos on how to act correctly and charismatic around those you're attracted to? When you have horrible social skills and are anxiety ridden?

    Dustin FarleyDustin Farley3 mesi fa
  • Charisma breakdown on Robert Pattinson!

    Ryan ProctorRyan Proctor3 mesi fa
  • Easy steps to be better at talking: 1: Talk with a happy, hype, style(meaning be a bit more louder but not to crazy) 2: use your body and hands when you talk to show how the story goes if they were there. 3: be a listener and ask open ended questions(examples: tell me your opinion about ....., oh my thats seems interesting how you ....and how did you do it, can you talk about ..........) 4: Smile with your eyes and talk with a smile. 5: understand what the other person is saying and ask questions that you generally like about it or something that seems interesting.

    Demon K40Demon K403 mesi fa
  • Please do XXXTENTACION. He's built a very loyal fan base that feels close to him without even knowing him. The way he expresses himself and communicates is so fascinating!

    smileyfacesmileyface3 mesi fa
  • only one point that I have noticed is that he put people on his 1st priority & only go against himself without making himself down

    Shoaib Zaib MughalShoaib Zaib Mughal3 mesi fa
  • PLEASE make a video about Anthony Mackie. I'd love to hear what you'd say about him. Anyway, loved the video!

    Letícia SLetícia S3 mesi fa
  • Do Tom Ellis in Lucifer 🙏🙏

    Daniel Wilson musicDaniel Wilson music3 mesi fa
  • can you do a video on harry styles? he’s everyone’s dream guy. im a dude but i def see why

    raphael goraphael go3 mesi fa
    • Ummm...

      Esteban BEsteban B3 mesi fa
  • Can you please do a video on Trump. Like how does he still have pretty high approval ratings after his (bad) performance as president and especially his bad management of the coronvirus crisis. It's like his followers are in a cult and will follow him no matter what he does or says. Please. If this is too political maybe do it on a person with similar character or talk in general terms. Thank you!

    _ David __ David _3 mesi fa
  • See, but... what if you don’t really have stories worth telling? It seems like a lot of “stories” I have don’t really follow an interesting narrative. Like bits and pieces of it might be funny, but it’s not funny enough to tell as a complete story, thus making it hard to be a good storyteller.

    Chris HChris H3 mesi fa
  • Excuse me but I came here to become Magnito

    Trynn V.Trynn V.3 mesi fa
  • 3:20 hardik pandya is one of my favourite cricketer

    draco _007draco _0073 mesi fa
  • please make video about forrest gump personality. love ❤️ from Nepal

    suvash gcsuvash gc3 mesi fa
  • Why i really dont like jimmy Kimmel!?

    _ Abdu_ Abdu3 mesi fa
  • You say he tells stories in present tense, but he is using the past tense.

    TamTam3 mesi fa
  • Love his performance in Django

    Rody HDRody HD3 mesi fa
  • Nailed the humorous self deprecation today at work with a couple of colleagues... 1st colleague commented about a skinny colleague 2 (jokily) saying “Don’t you just hate these skinny girls!” Colleague 2 replied “I’m not skinny!” Looking at me to back her up! To which I replied, “girl! I could eat your body weight!” For the win!

    Billo PadBillo Pad3 mesi fa
  • Instruction unclear - now the wrong site of the magnet

    Lilit PotterLilit Potter3 mesi fa
  • "Where is he right now, we're here for Emit Smith, do you have any jokes for him? I'm your conscious "

    ladev91ladev913 mesi fa
  • Is charisma unitversity a lifetime course?

    RomanRoman3 mesi fa
  • do norm mcdonald

    Eli JabarEli Jabar3 mesi fa
  • Can you please do a charisma breakdown vid on Rihanna? Great video btw😗

    applepieapplepie3 mesi fa
  • 0:43 - #1: Set a playful tone from the start. 2:45 - #2: Use a self burn with no heat. 4:23 - #3: Tell present tense stories with a variety of voices. 6:00 - #4: Use a "cliffhanger" pause. 7:50 - #5: Be a likeable listener.

    LL3 mesi fa
    • Thanks, 'that guy'

      WT_NeptuneWT_Neptune21 giorno fa
    • Thank you!!!

      reallymagnoliareallymagnolia3 mesi fa
    • Thank you!!

      SiljanenSiljanen3 mesi fa
  • Answer: be Jamie Foxx

    HJHJ3 mesi fa
  • It's either you have it or yoiu don't. Don't force it

    Sam MelodiaSam Melodia3 mesi fa
  • How to be the most magnetic person in the room?? Wear a metal jacket

    Storm LordStorm Lord3 mesi fa
  • Love this breakdown! How about one on Hank Moody from Californication . He’s hilarious and very charismatic!

    kpolydorekpolydore3 mesi fa
  • Is this a new longer format of videos ? L.O.V.E I.T 👌👌👌

    Gabriel KaamGabriel Kaam3 mesi fa
  • Which movie's playing on 1:22 ???!!!

    Nzm VlogsNzm Vlogs3 mesi fa
  • just be yourself, you're special

    hastyle2120hastyle21203 mesi fa
  • I'd love for you guys to do a video on Ryan Serhant.

    Pøwêrsürgê _Pøwêrsürgê _3 mesi fa
  • I'm pretty sure you can learn to do the things shown here a lot faster than over a few decades.

    Dave CullinsDave Cullins3 mesi fa
  • Start normalising being the most authentic person in the room. Too many people play characters of who they prefer to be.

    iluvgtasaniluvgtasan3 mesi fa
  • Damn im so unlikable i feel like alien watching how to be human

    yur roadyur road3 mesi fa
  • He’s the type of guy that you want to come to and give a high five and say ‘man, you’re so cool’. He’s pure awesomeness

    Agnes V.Agnes V.3 mesi fa
  • This guys channel is way better than any “self help pickup artist romance guru”

    Thanos ScottThanos Scott3 mesi fa
  • Can you do a video on texting? Or something like "how to stay charismatic during a pandemic" since there's not many social gatherings right now

    Nyto DarkoNyto Darko3 mesi fa
    • Hehe everyone practicing being charismatic in the mirror just waiting for the chance to get and use the new social skills! Should be ok, I think everyone will be a bit rusty :)

      ValdixianValdixian3 mesi fa
  • Could you please make a video on "Five" from the Umbrella Academy? Most charismatic character (and actor)!

    A FA F3 mesi fa
  • Could you do a charisma breakdown of Ali Plumb of BBC1? He is always commended by the celebrities he interviews and his conversations are always fun to watch.

    Winston WilkinsWinston Wilkins3 mesi fa
  • Please do a video on Cristiano Ronaldo.

    Karthik PmKarthik Pm3 mesi fa
  • Also make video on charismatic Shahrukh Khan from India.

    TusharTushar3 mesi fa
  • I like the channel but god damn I’ve never seen anyone any one less funny then this comedian

    Oh yeah yeahOh yeah yeah3 mesi fa
  • Great energy exchange!

    Zzul MaZzul Ma3 mesi fa
  • Ahhhhhhhh self burn but no heat.

    Shaun MShaun M3 mesi fa
  • Love him!

    loveforeignaccentsloveforeignaccents3 mesi fa
  • Let’s figure out y everyone hates Matt Patt

    Xtreme Hyper HDXtreme Hyper HD3 mesi fa
  • I don't believe in this , I believe that the most charismatic thing you'll ever do is be who you are ,

    Mohamed AlhasyMohamed Alhasy3 mesi fa
  • Spank! 😂😂😂

    Cannabis UploadsCannabis Uploads3 mesi fa
  • Do you think, they like rehearse themselves that this kind of behavior becomes natural? or are they born with it?

    Goku KakarotGoku Kakarot3 mesi fa
    • It comes more naturally to them I’m sure but they also work on it I bet. No business like show business

      Claire WillowClaire Willow3 mesi fa
  • Step 1: Be a celebrity.

    Reality CheckReality Check3 mesi fa