7 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20's

10 dic 2018
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I sometimes think back like “I wish I knew that at 20…” or “Imagine where I would be now if I took more action…” and “If only I bought bitcoin when it was $1…”
I’m sure you’ve all been there
This fueled the idea of today’s video
7 tips that I wish I knew when I was 20, now in your hands to implement!

0:34 - Point #1: Constant Criticism About You Is Probably True
1:09 - Point #2: 90% Of Negotiation Success Is In Starting It
2:13 - Point #3: Scarcity Is Often A Sales Tactic
3:26 - Point #4: Arguing Over Life Philosophies Is A Waste Of Time
4:27 - Point #5: Value Experience Over Theory
5:37 - Point #6: Remove Lies Of Omission
6:36 - Point #7: Growth Comes When You Do The Opposite
7:59 - Foreign Channel Announcement
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  • You need to tell us where is the fountain of youth

    RipRip24 minuti fa

    Lemon BlockLemon Block2 giorni fa
  • this dude is some professional stuff that jawline, clean teeth and gums, his way to smile, delivering of words and topics

    Jay TatJay Tat2 giorni fa
  • I feel like it might just be me but when I look at these videos I like it what they’re saying but the I’m like what am I good at or let alone passion about. And start thinking about how I’m not going to be able to do anything thing great. And I’m only 19.

    Joy BirdineJoy Birdine2 giorni fa
  • Honestly, I think you're brilliant

    Anne Sybille Z.Anne Sybille Z.2 giorni fa
  • Up to ten you want to know everything, at twenty you think you know everything, at thirty you know you don't know everything and at forty you begin to not care.

    millertasmillertas2 giorni fa
  • i can t argue with there. I love travelling and I think North American is a great country..but, I love the caribbean..

    Anecdocuentos e HistoriasAnecdocuentos e Historias3 giorni fa
  • Imagine thinking america is the greatest country in the world

    AlphaAlpha3 giorni fa
  • How are you over 20 when you're 19 but okay whatever... Great advice. Honestly your videos have helped me to communicate with the Narcissists in my family and recover from Narcissistic abuse. You're doing a greater service than you know. This is psychological therapy for a lot of people who can't navigate this evil world.

    DevianNikeiDevianNikei4 giorni fa
  • 0:01 pog commander

    CubeCube5 giorni fa
  • So this channel is no longer about charisma, just ego. "sigh"

    Maria DMaria D6 giorni fa
  • Excellent video. But I disagree with a few things (this is more of a note to self): #4 is a bit off. The tagline on its own is too broad and seems misplaced, but what said makes sense: Do what you understand and believe in and let the results speak for you. I think what you said for #5 is more useful than the tagline: If you have strongly held convictions about things you haven't experience, be careful. #7 is straight up a bad GENERAL advice. It can be a good advice under specific, narrow contexts, but far from a general advice.

    fupopandafupopanda6 giorni fa
  • Speaking of a country with 4x the murder rate of North America - "cultures aren't better or worse, just different".

    Rachel RasmussenRachel Rasmussen7 giorni fa
  • Bruh wait a minute, you're no 19?Are you currently in your second lifetime?

    Danilos StankovicDanilos Stankovic7 giorni fa
  • You look WAY YOUNGER THAN 31

    Anupam RoyAnupam Roy7 giorni fa
  • There’s no way to change your personality so it doesn’t matter

    Robert CantspellRobert Cantspell8 giorni fa
  • if a lot of people say it, it may be true OR it might be that they like you to conform to their view of normal too. depends on what they say. if you're different they will say it to make you feel bad for yourself not being the same. my family is extroverted. they constantly tried to make me do things they viewed i should do. ofc, im still the weird and difficult one... i actually know what i want and try my best, tho i often fail, but try again. it's just different than what they see i should want.

    C. B.C. B.8 giorni fa
  • 0:35 the most common thing I hear about myself from friends and family is that I'm "unique, weird, or interesting" tbh if that's the main impression I leave on people I'm such a loser.

    J, LudwigJ, Ludwig8 giorni fa
  • What’s the best way at getting better at doing push ups? ... it’s by actually doing push ups, not reading about doing push ups or talking about doing push ups, or even thinking about doing push-ups. Now replace push-ups with anything else in life.

    tpespostpespos9 giorni fa
  • THIS DUDE IS 31!?

    Deon LiboraDeon Libora9 giorni fa
  • so where is "don't explain yourself" from the thumbnail?

    Snasnu SnabaSnasnu Snaba10 giorni fa
  • You should do a podcast

    Jack DoughtyJack Doughty10 giorni fa
  • school taught you critical thinking ?

    Xa nonXa non10 giorni fa
  • I just turned 23 this month, my major is international trade, but I want to start my own business related to art and stationery. However, in order to do that, I realized that I need to work on myself to become a better person first. I'm a introvert and my social skills are the worst, I feel that I'm slowly coming out of my bubble, since my parents never told me about self-development stuff. Sometimes I get anxious because I feel that I'm late, but your videos are really helping me to overcome it and to become a more confident and well spoken person. Thank you so much.

    Sangita kAtun Sarmin KatunSangita kAtun Sarmin Katun11 giorni fa
  • I needed this video

    yunghart_ogyunghart_og11 giorni fa
  • BRO! You cant work with T-Series....that is going to corrupt your soul....they are a company where the ends always justify the means...they are frankly...evil in their origins and nothing good is ever born out of loose morals and deceit…

    David H.David H.11 giorni fa
  • WOW I am so backwards from you...every time I have the thought "If I don't act now I will lose out" I always ending up losing out, I guess I am really good at spotting BS scarcity and can easily read markets and tell true scarcity apart from BS scarcity...I knew if I didn't buy parts for a certain thing I enjoy they would be incredibly difficult to get and prices would skyrocket, I was right. Every time I have been right. Because of this I only buy IF I feel that pressure. If I don't feel that pressure in my gut I will most often not buy anything because I know it will be available down the road and it almost always turns out to have been something I didn't even need to begin with.

    David H.David H.11 giorni fa
  • To be honest, a lot of this is terrible advice.

    Nikita Starzhevskiy-StowellNikita Starzhevskiy-Stowell11 giorni fa
  • The omission was ...and do drugs

    Gary Williams UKGary Williams UK12 giorni fa
  • Has anyone realised that he always wears a black tee

    Alkhan StudiosAlkhan Studios13 giorni fa
  • So I continue to learn❤️

    Veli EmVeli Em15 giorni fa
  • I guess that means I’m tall... like duh I don’t need every person in my life telling me that

    Wyatt HoranWyatt Horan16 giorni fa
  • *Helpful*

    Honey BadgerHoney Badger16 giorni fa
  • Our mentality is vitally linked to our anchored physicality. One of the reasons it's so hard to have a head transplant

    Sidney SmithSidney Smith17 giorni fa
  • You also laugh even tho nothing's funny.

    BaeKing SudaBaeKing Suda17 giorni fa
    • A grin or smile is enough you know.

      BaeKing SudaBaeKing Suda17 giorni fa
  • Talk bit cooler men, you overexaggerate your expression even tho you're only alone in the room, you look like you're live-streaming you know.

    BaeKing SudaBaeKing Suda17 giorni fa
  • I just turned 20s for 2 weeks ago. I'm starting make some video on youtube. Please sub, like video to support me. :) Making videos help me more confident. Please suppot me. Love you all.

    Doris CakesDoris Cakes18 giorni fa
  • 4:54 That is something every American thinks. It's what they're being told from an early age.

    GreenskinHollandGreenskinHolland18 giorni fa
  • "Value experience more than book smarts" Yeah. Being an A grade student did jackshit to help me in wiring of the christmas lights. I kept short circuiting my own house. If it wasn't for the MCB I'd have crashed my own electric grid or just a node. It was my mother who was a pharmacist who actually fixed the wiring. Apparently positive and negatives don't go into the same wire. 😅Because of the symbolic representation of electric circuits I thought one wire came from one of the outlet holes, ran along to the electric appliance then returned back to the second hole, when it was in actuality two wires instead of one looping wire. Experience matters.

    Bravo MikeBravo Mike18 giorni fa
  • I need to watch this video daily

    Imran KhanImran Khan20 giorni fa
  • Have to disagree there. America is def the best 😊

    Alex LinaresAlex Linares21 giorno fa
  • this vid gave me alot more respect for this channel

    AR KAR K22 giorni fa
  • I'm 18 and I'm afraid of getting older.

    LeanflareLeanflare22 giorni fa
  • This dude gonna be 40 and still get id’d at the bar.

    andy tangandy tang23 giorni fa
  • So charismatic awesome... You will get far🤗🤗🤗

    Felicia Kiara JonssonFelicia Kiara Jonsson23 giorni fa
  • Swedish???

    Felicia Kiara JonssonFelicia Kiara Jonsson23 giorni fa
  • Do not emphasize the the last 2 words on every..... sentence... It becomes a trick people see through quick

    MaggieMokeMaggieMoke23 giorni fa
  • Is this boy 20 yet? I'm 69 - it's great being lectured by a child stating, "I wish I knew then what I know now." Come back in 30 years, son.

    Gene JonesGene Jones25 giorni fa
  • Bro where is your HINDI channel ❤️😅

    Creative ClubCreative Club26 giorni fa
  • #7 works wonders not just in the field of life, but in engineering too.

    The SolverThe Solver29 giorni fa
  • Hold up ur THIRTY ONE?

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  • Anyone from india watched this video till the end if you are thinking about it i m with you on that so bula lena

    Rishabh TiwariRishabh TiwariMese fa
  • “When I was younger what worked was listening to adults, to study hard, to not do drugs...” I’m putting your advice to good use by tripping hard on acid right now lmao

    Keeley HassanKeeley HassanMese fa
  • I can translate english to hindi

    Pallav JainPallav JainMese fa
  • Wow wow aged well

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  • What about Arabic ?

    hisham5002hisham5002Mese fa
  • Your smile is beautiful.

    My WorldMy WorldMese fa
  • It doesn't really help me

    Emilio JaramilloEmilio JaramilloMese fa
  • Wait?! You are not in your 20’s?

    Sergio VictorSergio VictorMese fa
  • This might be a stretch but you never know, at 2:28 there is a wallet in the pop up window, does anyone know who makes a wallet like that? Been searching for 10 minutes now and can't find anything similar

    Stephen SarverStephen SarverMese fa
  • Dancing is for women? C'mon man 😂

    stenobrostenobroMese fa
  • Bro I speak Hindi but there is no Link for Hindi speaking so cant contact you

    ozmo69ozmo69Mese fa
  • That's why they're are books, web research and older much more knowledgeable, OLDER people around to talk to!

    Maurice drewMaurice drewMese fa
  • I thought this guy was 19

    Rania MRania MMese fa
  • #1: Also applies to compliments. If multiple people say that you're intelligent, you probably are. #3: Overall, don't act because you feel that you have to. I made quite a few mistakes because I thought I had to act quickly.

    hackermanhackermanMese fa
  • So I should take drugs? I'm joking btw 🤣🤣

    Lauren BaxterLauren BaxterMese fa
  • "Growth means doing the opposite." So you're saying I should start smoking, and not going to school?

    Aminata AbdouramaneAminata AbdouramaneMese fa
  • Unfortunately English is my foreign language.

    john k.john k.Mese fa
  • Number 8 you needed to know. That if you dye your hair green and put some white paint on the face. You became joker :D and ofc red smile

    Juscius BarberJuscius BarberMese fa
  • The opposite of not taking drugs?🤔

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  • This video actually helped me turn my life around. So grateful that such free content exists in the world.

    Ila TyagiIla TyagiMese fa
  • do you get your water from the fountain of youth

    El AlvEl AlvMese fa
  • Kinda good , kinda not

    Danny C. JewellDanny C. JewellMese fa
  • I'd love to help you out with spreading the information as your videos have helped me a lot but I really don't think dubbing is the best way to achieve this. Being multi lingual, interacting with multiple cultures on a regular basis and having used your videos to improve myself I can confidently say this. Parts of what you says can apply to one culture and not to another. Apart from English most other languages I know are Indian, they differ in culture along with the language. For example, what you said in this video about explaining your life philosophy to others, in my mother tongue(Malayalam) no one goes about telling others how to live as it is considered a farce. In North India, where most popular language is Hindi, people frequently ask each other and revere those who explain the same along with a touch "cosmic power". This message you intend to send to them would need to be worked upon in each of those language if you desire an equivalent impact. For me, I just use what I need and keep to the side what can't be used. It has been very effective for me.

    Jerin ThomasJerin ThomasMese fa
  • lol dancing is for women. Bro dancing is for getting women... nothing is sexier than a man that can dance

    Lauren JamesLauren JamesMese fa
  • Visiting and living there are 2 different things: your speaking very ignorant and narcissistic about how America isn’t the greatest. Most people in bad countries want to come and live in America. No other country has the constitution we have.

    Jon FarrellJon FarrellMese fa
  • As for #7 its true, if you're in this videos age range while its drastic an option to give you an out is always enlist in the military. Regardless of your gender if you are single and feel like your stuck in a dead end job or you know you want to go to school or even stopped and still want to continue consider joining. It can be hard adopting a radical change in life style but it will definitely put you in a new environment and if you do a little research or ask for help can help you pick a set of skill that you can then use for later on. Now when I say this I mean specifically dont join and think I want to go infantry then well unless you want to be security or work for private arms contractor (can't think of the term) that won't help develop future applicable skills in the civilian world. As a young 21 year old at the time of joining it gave me access to complete health care, (Active Duty) a bank system that made it very easy to take out a loan in order build up a credit score (Navy Federal) and a place I never thought I would live (Personal). It was the right choice for me and pulled me out of my mindless routine of hey I got class today then work after and then work all day tomorrow and class all day the next day, my point of working full time and going to school full time where I didn't want to deal with people besides those I did on the regular. It gave me a place where every couple weeks I'll get an NCO to ask what's going on and provide a stable support system that if there are any life questions that are currently even out of my realm maybe even theirs they can continue going up that support chain to find someone who does and then they can help me. This is probably the biggest help as it definitely extended my line of support past my parents, internet and group of daily regulars who were in roughly the same position as I was. Now while I'm not actively trying to sell this path (maybe a little depending on your situation) its mainly just me recounting my experiences for the past year. Now its not all good times either there is a certain amount of BS that goes along with joining the military in general but it wasn't any worse that what I had beforehand and at least now I can have a way to try and figure out why its like that to a certain extent.

    Evan ZablockiEvan ZablockiMese fa
  • Thank you so much for sharing these lessons! How amazing is it to have learned them so early in life. Every single video of your channel provides a ton of value, great to see!

    Dot Connector17Dot Connector17Mese fa
  • And this video only has English sub(the one that he is speaking)😂...I can translate this videos in my language easily can I sign up since its not for free?😬🙃

    Sahar NorooziSahar NorooziMese fa
  • Can anyone please elaborate on 7. is it true?

    Liam dabrowskiLiam dabrowskiMese fa
  • #1 is also true with good things you hear about yourself. I know it's a problem for me and many others to believe compliments, but if you hear it a lot maybe it's ok to accept it.

    MikeMike2 mesi fa
  • are you...not in your 20s?

    palmer491palmer4912 mesi fa
  • your brilliant. thank you x

    Luna FeythLuna Feyth2 mesi fa
  • “Lies of omission” Spoken like a guy who has never been married. ;D

    John DoughJohn Dough2 mesi fa
  • Experience is truly another way of learning.

    Catholic Chroma ChannelCatholic Chroma Channel2 mesi fa
  • I'm 21 years old Asia man. This video is really for me.

    Jave Lester OdvinaJave Lester Odvina2 mesi fa
  • I'm 22 so this is really helpful. Thanks, man.

    Diamond Ace 777Diamond Ace 7772 mesi fa
  • coooool

    Mayank ShankarMayank Shankar2 mesi fa
  • Hindi?

    Amartya SinghAmartya Singh2 mesi fa
  • He is the Big brother, alot of useful life advice. thanks man keep it up

    grantNet LLCgrantNet LLC2 mesi fa
  • Bro thank you but honestly I keep forgetting you’re not like 22 lol

    Jordan FictionJordan Fiction2 mesi fa
  • God man this is such great content, I’m 22 and so fortunate to have stumbled upon this video

    ThePerfect AssassinThePerfect Assassin2 mesi fa
  • Hmmm I thought ur 22

    neha doeneha doe2 mesi fa
  • I Understand.

    Israel SmartIsrael Smart2 mesi fa
  • Can you give us tips to look younger ?

    hana abhana ab2 mesi fa
  • What about tamil???

    ibn ismailibn ismail2 mesi fa
  • Costa Rica? You also talk about having lived in Brazil in a different video, serious question for you Charlie; how many places have you lived in and what is your experience? I'm really curious because I think that something like that as far as traveling goes might be useful for my own life. If you have a video just talking about that stuff it would be awesome to see. Hope to hear from you at some point, love your content by the way.

    Jordan FeltJordan Felt2 mesi fa
  • Charlie, I admire how driven you are on expanding your channel beyond America. Way to go!!! All the super successful people I have met across the globe have been walking on the strait and narrow path. They all have the discipline to work on their craft constantly for building an empire. It's very sad that there are more and more young people in America, who are distracted by weeds, alcohol, and drugs.

    楊子億Jumpman楊子億Jumpman2 mesi fa
  • Hah! This guy likes dancing, what a girl.

    deniz yarsuvatdeniz yarsuvat2 mesi fa
  • This video inspired me. I opened up and asked someone close to me to help with my impulsive spending habits. Thank you for the great work your doing.

    Bas DistelmansBas Distelmans2 mesi fa