5 Ways To Develop Charisma Faster

21 nov 2019
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Learning things slowly is a bummer. Unfortunately, that is the route I see people go when it comes to learning confidence and charisma.
That's why in this video I want to give you 5 tips for taking everything you've learned on this channel, and making it an unthinking habit much more quickly.

2:22 - #1: Test your hypothesis in the real world.
2:43 - #2: Be aware of what makes a charismatic impression on you.
4:15 - #3: Bounce your ideas off a friend.
4:29 - #4: Don't try to do everything at once.
5:26 - #5: Model someone you look up to.
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  • I can't stop focusing on his eyebrows. With His facial expressions, it looks like a flying bird

    KINGKING7 mesi fa
  • Thanks for all the help man I started watching your videos since I was in high school and haven't looked back.

    Daniel BurfordDaniel Burford7 mesi fa
  • This is a Manual to the channel.

    Samarth HadaSamarth Hada8 mesi fa
  • I just want to know how to act like a human.

    Memes were a blessing from the lord JesusMemes were a blessing from the lord Jesus8 mesi fa
  • 4:30 ummm...... bruh... I’ve watched like 30 of these videos 🤦‍♂️

    imtrexyimtrexy9 mesi fa
  • It was great to see you talking through a different medium as well as seeing your thought process. It made me appreciate the videos that you produce a lot more. I also subscribed to your new podcast! I'm interested in hearing you talk more.

    Colleen BoydColleen Boyd10 mesi fa
  • When I started watching HIMYM in 8th grade I taught me to be more confident and now that I don't watch TV I just feel boring. Guess I gotta do what y'all say and watch 5 minutes of someone in the mindset I want to be in.

    AmotzAmotz10 mesi fa
  • The Universe loves me!!! Simply thought about working on my Charisma and first impressions and you pop up on my feed!! Such an amazing channel. Thank you

    Lindsay PruittLindsay Pruitt10 mesi fa
  • I do the opposite of what you guys do. For example; I really hate how approachable people think I am, soooo, not to do anything too rash... I decided to look homeless! I have found people avoid even making eye contact with me like "oh no! He's gonna ask me for change!". what is really nice about this (besides avoiding small talk and increasing my productivity) is I have set people's expectations for myself, extremely low! Why is this important? One it's incredibly easy to impress someone and two people are less needy.

    Kronk EL KuzcoKronk EL Kuzco10 mesi fa
  • This might be weird to say but sir, you have a nice big friedly smile

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    Диана ГазимоваДиана Газимова10 mesi fa
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    Israel Aguilar LuaIsrael Aguilar Lua10 mesi fa
  • Well you didnt apply it on you..

    CarlaCarla10 mesi fa
  • I like How this guy smiles

    Duck duckDuck duck11 mesi fa
  • This was incredibly helpful.

    Mr. RogersMr. Rogers11 mesi fa
  • Hey guys, love your channel! I'm sort of new, so do you have advice on charisma to and by women? Love the channel, but I personally noticed some of the things I do as a woman can be seen as threatening or bossy (mostly taking leadership and having initiative), and so I wanted to know how to act accordingly in order to keep the peace (especially it's an elephant in the room no one else wants to talk about). Cheers!

    Sofia PagenSofia Pagen11 mesi fa
  • why does you translate your videos to portuguese?

    Lucas ALucas AAnno fa
  • Good stuff

    Joshua TylerJoshua TylerAnno fa
  • Doesn’t work if it’s ugly and no one wants to approach you

    decentdecentAnno fa
  • Would love to see some more philosophy videos from you. It's arguably one of the most important things in our lives. What good is it to be charismatic if you don't know to what end or what for? Maybe look to CosmicSkeptic/Sam Harris for some inspiration. Much love, man!

    Dan CenowDan CenowAnno fa
  • Great video! I am not bashing now, I just wonder, didn't anyone else heard at 8:20 Charlie saying "in the description in the link below" :D :D

    Plamen DobrevPlamen DobrevAnno fa
  • This is going to help me immensely! Thank you!

    Ferris 1313Ferris 1313Anno fa
  • 6:33 Solid point there. Once you start watching something or binge watch a show you start picking up things you don't even realise about a certain character you like. And most people tend to pick up the most snarky person as he/she is he most entertaining one and suddenly you are trying to be them without really knowing it.

    v1d300v1d300Anno fa
  • Won't lie, it might be nitty and gritty, but I live for that niche kind of thinking. That's my life, I guess I've been doing it without the same form of execution as you guys, but I for one vote for it. Great content.

    200ike200ikeAnno fa
  • What if I don't have a buddy to bounce off ideas with? That's pretty hard since the only like minded person I know of is me.

    R.C. BeringuelaR.C. BeringuelaAnno fa
  • Could you guys do a breakdown of Mr. Inbetween at some point? Is he a psychopath?

    SmackyMc ProductionsSmackyMc ProductionsAnno fa
  • Do a video on Bobby Lee that guy crazy but funny af and he’s charismatic

    ManuelManuelAnno fa
  • I'm serious, your mouth movements are distracting and I myself have no idea if I mean it in a good or a bad way...

    VVen0mVVen0mAnno fa
  • Can you do a charisma breakdown of Steven Crowder? One of the least likely survivors of the “ad-pocolypse” who has actually thrives better than most

    Michael J. McCallMichael J. McCallAnno fa
  • Man, you guys have such great videos. And this one is really cool, being a podcast that's more in a conversational setting. Anyway, keep it up guys. You and Thomas Frank are the best.

    Kelly P. SmithKelly P. SmithAnno fa
  • For a guy who makes videos on how to be charismatic, I don't find you very charismatic jkjk

    Manas C.ZManas C.ZAnno fa
  • Would love to hear your take on Mr. Rogers!

    Geoffrey ZorefGeoffrey ZorefAnno fa
  • A DAVID DOBRIK charisma breakdown. Make it happen, Charlie. 1M views GUARANTEED.

  • I love the style of this video in which Charlie and Ben are discussing the points of charisma together. More videos of this type would be greatly appreciated, as the conversation between the two of you is very informative but more importantly deeply engaging. Thanks! :)

    Simon RSimon RAnno fa
  • I would love to watch a video of you guys explaining how does a charisma video come to life :))

    Pickles0107Pickles0107Anno fa
  • I love how positive the comments are for these videos

    MonkeyFaceAndTheBoysMonkeyFaceAndTheBoysAnno fa
  • I'd love to see how your videos are made because I have an interest in a career of filmmaking and content creation. I've found alot of wisdom in your videos, and it would be nice to see other types of wisdom

    Jack HermanJack HermanAnno fa
  • Charlie PLEASE and I mean PLEASE, do a charisma video on Denzel Washington. There’s so much material to work with

    Deandre FombyDeandre FombyAnno fa
  • step 1: watch his how to learn anything 10 times faster video

    MondaayMondaayAnno fa
  • How to learn charisma faster - watch these videos in 2x speed.

    Andrew MazurAndrew MazurAnno fa
    • Good one lol

      YaboiAJYaboiAJ3 mesi fa
    • That's how I watch most videos.

      Ricardo Zende KambindaRicardo Zende Kambinda6 mesi fa
  • hi can u do a video on kpop star GDragon charisma tactics and personality please

    ayssh aayssh aAnno fa
  • This girl was talking to me about how my zodiac sign is forever trying to “learn how to act human” And the first thing I thought of was how much I watch these videos! Anyways, please reply with your zodiac sign I’d like to see who mostly watches these videos! 👽

    CharliGirlToastCharliGirlToastAnno fa
    • I’m not a Leo so now I think horoscopes are a bunch of b.s. 🥴

      CharliGirlToastCharliGirlToastAnno fa
    • I am a leo too

      i don't knowi don't knowAnno fa
    • CharliGirlToast I’m a Leo who’s trying to find his roar

      Young Jinzo21Young Jinzo21Anno fa
  • Interested in making a wholesome video on Joker like pewds did?

    Gurkirat SinghGurkirat SinghAnno fa
  • Bro,go to ANALYTICS Lucifer Morningstar's

  • Charisma is basically the mystic layman term for the general public about public speaking, first impression, communication theory and mindset, and social skill. There are books and course for all of them on coursera and amazon

    Alan HhhAlan HhhAnno fa
  • So I like this girl A LOT. Me and her always talk in class at school. Like a lot. She’s always happy but when she talks to me she seems different but in a good way. We kinda play fight a lot too. I catch her looking at me a lot too and sometimes she’ll just tease me or joke around with me. Another time I was with her and my best friend and I was waiting for him and she asked if her and I should just leave together without him. Sometimes we get a little touchy and she’s fine when I have my hand on her and we’re never afraid to make eye contact. Idk if she actually likes me though or is just being really friendly. If anyone could maybe give me your thoughts that would be appreciated.

    Isaiah RosarioIsaiah RosarioAnno fa
  • I might be high but is that guys mouth massive and the other one has massive teeth?

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  • Can you do a video about Michael B Jordan?

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  • Commenting on every video I see part 663

    Nikodim ZafirovskiNikodim ZafirovskiAnno fa
  • Sorry, can’t take you seriously, you’re mouth’s too big

    Tyler MaendelTyler MaendelAnno fa
  • Can you make a video about handling anxiety or hard to answer questions at family gatherings? Like why arnt you married yet?

    Connie ParkerConnie ParkerAnno fa
  • I love to think about that when Im looking over to someone "famous" I look up to Charlie and Ben...lol

    Santiago TorresSantiago TorresAnno fa
  • Please do a personality breakdown on Ryan Reynolds

    Faisal AlbisherFaisal AlbisherAnno fa
  • Negan from walking dead

    Faraz TahaFaraz TahaAnno fa
  • love you guys, you both are great

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  • Didn't find the description in the link below lmao 😂

    BartExplainsBartExplainsAnno fa
  • Hey man can you do a video about Jurgen klopp.

    Hassan AliHassan AliAnno fa
  • HE said BB Ki Vines ? at end !?

    Siddharth ShahSiddharth ShahAnno fa
  • The metaanalysis and help on how to approach using your videos and charisma university are really great. Hope to get more of it. I also really love the listeners questions in the podcast! Your advice to the guy who recently moved from India and was feeling overwhelmed with the charisma assignments he was giving himself was gold - as helpful as any video you've made.

    Fenix KageFenix KageAnno fa
  • Wow uh . . . Idk how I feel about this video cause this video is just a clip of his podcast (which he does regularly.) But using the thumbnail to imply it's actually a new video. This feels kinda of scummy and lazy but worst of all clickbaity and I hate that I have to say that about this channel. :( I'm not lying that I wouldn't be saying this critisism if the guy at least highlighted at the end parts of the podcast and did a recap to show some effort :ccccc Plz try to be better than that for your channel 🙏

    wisdomTOASTwisdomTOASTAnno fa
  • You should make a Mac demarco video (not at all related to my profile pic lol) but he has a way of speaking and joking with people that makes him magnetic and welcoming! I think it would be pretty cool

    davefuccdavefuccAnno fa
  • Is this remind you of 5s rule?

    George's NGeorge's NAnno fa
  • I’ve studied social skills for a long time and I 100% agree with this. I’ve always modeled the people I found most charismatic and learned their style of skill. Jason Capital was my first ever actual role model that I genuinely modeled and I don’t regret one bit of it. Thanks for the awesome tips, guys!

    Alex Platinum DatingAlex Platinum DatingAnno fa
  • Anyone here in the comments that actually has used/paid for his Charisma University course?

    SyntheticKillSyntheticKillAnno fa
  • how to approach SSB Interview ?

  • Listening to 1 video a day from Charisma on Command, and implementing it makes it doable and effective. Let’s not rush changes. Small progress is still progress!

    JohnnyProgressJohnnyProgressAnno fa
  • If you follow the 4th rule do one thing at a time, since that’s a thing, you won’t progress at all.

    John de GreefJohn de GreefAnno fa
  • You have watched this video and all the other one from this channel so tell me : why does nothing changed in your life and why you're still note charismatic ?

    Nero PegasoNero PegasoAnno fa
  • How do all Americans get those amazing teeth? Nobody British has teeth like that. You all look like jehovas witnesses. How do you do it? I haven’t heard half of what you are saying. I am so distracted by the teeth, the clean shiny skin and the chiselled jawline.

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  • I holistically agree on the first fourth steps, but not the step number 5 merely to avoid impersonating others and protect individuality.

    Reo CalserReo CalserAnno fa
  • Tips for having energy to be charismatic? If it's physically draining can you really be charismatic?

    TovashiTovashiAnno fa
  • I would love to see how you do your breakdowns. Great video!

    Influence TrainerInfluence TrainerAnno fa
  • does it matter where the guy is to write these? Do you still look for one to hire?

    Alexander KoethAlexander KoethAnno fa
  • Simon cowell charisma

    Adam BouhadouAdam BouhadouAnno fa
  • I like his timing 🙌🏼

    ForeverycontingencyForeverycontingencyAnno fa
  • The idea to do ONE THING at a time is so powerful. You might think you are learning so much when you try to get 3 or 5 or 10 habits going at the same time, but you get absolutely NOTHING from it. With one thing, you go slowly but have a way higher chance of incorporating what you are learning. Rather slowly getting something than nothing while being "productive"

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  • I'm really wanting to watch your podcast, but youtube is complicated for it, do you think about uploading it on Deezer or something like ?

    Luca TarotLuca TarotAnno fa
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  • hey wtf you are talking about are you crazy

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  • thank you for your content. it''s wholesome, positive, and applicable. journeys are done one step at a time: one charismatic trait at a time

    Julien CraigJulien CraigAnno fa
  • I'd love to see how a breakdown is made. I think it would be v interesting.

    Tasnim JacksonTasnim JacksonAnno fa
  • Best advice I got from this - People don't want to know how to make the sausage, they just want to eat the hotdog. Literally a lightbub moment! 💡😲

    Jordan WoodallJordan WoodallAnno fa
  • Please do a video where you explain how to reject someone nicely!

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  • Just The Tip

    darknmydarknmyAnno fa
  • Forget charisma...you guys should tell people how to get a job at Burisma

    Wilson WieggelWilson WieggelAnno fa
  • Make Israel Adesanya breakdown :)

    Real GReal GAnno fa
  • I would be interested in a breakdown of a breakdown!

    Naj RenchelfNaj RenchelfAnno fa
  • 4:05 Charlie, you guys are literally my Bromance goals

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  • “With the description in the link below.” Bit of an oof friendo XD

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  • Yes! I love watching once upon a time, their believe in lasting love really helps me put effort in my relationship

    cutelittledevil88cutelittledevil88Anno fa
  • I 100% agree that you become the people you watch. Growing up, I watched lots of Malcolm in the Middle, and I became just as cynical and bitter as malcolm as a teenager. I've found lots of better influences over the years, I would say my favorite right now are the Impractical jokers. watch those guys for a while and you will feel way more confident going up to people.

    Imagine if the Internet was realImagine if the Internet was realAnno fa
  • Do Cardi B or Ja'mie King Please

    Uriel AdalidUriel AdalidAnno fa
  • Wow, where do I apply lol...I'm a writer

    Xian The GaianXian The GaianAnno fa
  • Hey, can you breakdown of Ranveer Singh (Bollywood actor), he is highly charismatic, energetic. Hope you'll think about this suggestion

    Niren VanikNiren VanikAnno fa
  • Really awesome tips bro I've been following these advices for the last couple of years, and the results have been great btw, I'd love to see the process of making those breakdown videos! What you call "not so fun" parts could contain valuables insights for others :)

    Vitor MattosVitor MattosAnno fa
  • I don't know why I watch this anymore as I don't have a problem being charismatic in most situations. I have learned a few things but that was learning that, if you know something and show it, people will automatically follow you if you bring it a certain way. The first problem in charisma then becomes a knowledge problem. Learn something and learn it well. Then you have something to say about it making people follow you for it. There is of course more to it than just that but if you don't understand that yet, this channel is good for you. Just not for me anymore So I hate to say it but, you sadly lost a sub today. Good luck in your future charisma on command ^^

    SilvaSilvaAnno fa
  • He's handsome, he's smart, he's charming 🏆 Call me 💋

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  • Make the video guys explaining the process of how you make celebrity breakdown videos!!! That would be interesting

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  • Please do video about mickey rourke.

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