How To Be Popular Without Being A Try Hard

16 mar 2020
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David Dobrik is a popular guy, not only with his massive audience, but also with very different types of friends including his vlog squad buddies, Jason Nash who is 20 years older and the one and only John Stamos.
In this video we’ll dive into how you can be insanely popular without being an inauthentic try hard.

0:21 - #1: David Dobrik makes you laugh.
3:55 - #2: He uses a lot of high impact words.
7:32 - #3: He's very comfortable with self-deprecating humor.
8:58 - #4: He puts the spotlight on other people.
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  • Constantly laughing at myself, it's just a bit more sad on our channel 😅

    Goldie & MikeGoldie & Mike23 giorni fa
  • So the video title is "How To Be Popular Without Being A Try Hard" and then in the picture preview, you have a guy pointing to his face saying "smile like this!". How does that work? How are you not being a try hard if you're controlling something that should come across as genuine and natural. Do you see babies controlling the way they smile? It's completely unnecessary and fake.

    DiegoDiegoMese fa
  • This is awesome 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💕💕💕💘💘💘💘💘💘

    Janybekov BakytJanybekov BakytMese fa
  • 1:52 I don't reply to most things because I'm introvert, inconfident and shy. So I'm naturally quiet

    Joel RoyJoel Roy2 mesi fa
  • I adore you! Such an AWESOME CHANNEL.

    Vandini SharmaVandini Sharma3 mesi fa
  • David has this boyish, impishness that people love to be around. Like around a kind 5 year old

    Elisa GElisa G4 mesi fa
  • I feel like one key (to me) to making your laughter make others feel good is to not just laugh at everything. If they respect your opinion and know that you won’t just laugh whenever ANYTHING happens then I’d be more likely to feel good when you laugh

    THE Isaac CooperTHE Isaac Cooper4 mesi fa
  • who is that cashier and blue bro... wit that a$$

    MLS RISEMLS RISE4 mesi fa
  • Idk, but I’m not charmed by him. He seems like a dense stoner.

    Gabe EisnerGabe Eisner4 mesi fa
  • Why are people trying so hard to be likable instead of being authentic???🤷‍♀️ Unless you are paid for it, it's REALLY not worth it

    vanessa vanessavanessa vanessa5 mesi fa
  • David's laugh seems so artificial and forcefull. He just laughs while there is nothing really funny to laugh at.

    tina basictina basic5 mesi fa
  • he date madison beer tho

    greedy guygreedy guy5 mesi fa
  • A video on the difference between a sociopath and psychopath would be awesome. And if it clouds clips from Sherlock, what can I say but YES!

    aljeffry Armandaljeffry Armand6 mesi fa
  • Constantly laughing also makes me suspicious the person is a weird fake psycho. No-one should be finding life that endlessly funny.

    TheRantingBoyTheRantingBoy6 mesi fa
  • His friends seem like a bunch of "yes men"

    Mi SmMi Sm6 mesi fa
  • He's fake laughing. His mouth smiles and laughs, yet his eye don't.

    Omgdannie2Omgdannie26 mesi fa
  • Oh man there’s so much more negativity than usual in the comments

    Jada HoizerJada Hoizer6 mesi fa
  • Hi there . A Really nice video and all of tham are great. I have a question that drove me to this video here. And it got patially answered but maybe I just want to hear specifically thoughts about the topic. It is about the topic of false smiling and played motivation. I personally started to see a habit of myself i dont really like. it is that I was confronted with false smiles and false passion in some professiones that I cant differ anymore between played passion and real passion. An example (not to attack anyone I want to better mayself) I have met so many personal tainers and fittnesscoaches who try hard to be happy etc that I cant take any positive emoutiones anymore from trainers because I allways think they are fake...... So is there a video from you how you can see if a smile is fake or not or does anyone have a good method taining yourself in getting better in diffenecing those things? I dont want to have prejudices against any profession so I have to learn to differencieate. What are the sighns of false smile false passion. If i asked a alllready answered question I am happy to get sources ^^ thanks

    MrMOGumbaMrMOGumba6 mesi fa
  • I genuinely don't like this guy.

    Senor StudlySenor Studly6 mesi fa
  • I'm an introvert and to be honest I find it SUPER annoying if people laugh every 10 seconds.. My flatmate is an extrovert, liked by everyone, and she does the same. Even about things that aren't even funny. That has nothing to do with jealousy but for me this is super irritating 😐

    javannajavanna6 mesi fa
  • basically, be authentic

    VeyroniqaVeyroniqa6 mesi fa
  • love you man

    omar ahmedomar ahmed6 mesi fa
  • This is very well made

    Mohil GargMohil Garg6 mesi fa
  • Totally agree be confident and all of this will show 🔥

    Daily UpgradeDaily Upgrade6 mesi fa
  • i just wanna say please dont go to his videos and say his laugh and smile is weird and ugly ive heard it from people and it really hurts

    fijifiji6 mesi fa
  • 1:49 - what exactly is _allowing_ yourself to laugh? If I'm not laughing it's _not_ cuz I'm holding back it's because I would be embarrassed to make a laughing sound to mimic being actually amused. And I'm not some hoity- toity person with a sophisticated sense of humor, it's just that my sense of humor is so obscure that I rarely find anyone else who shares it.

    Jo MomzJo Momz6 mesi fa
  • this video: one of the reasons why David Dobrik is so popular is because... me: i've never seen this man in my life

    Sebastian AlvaradoSebastian Alvarado6 mesi fa
  • Alex Warren watched this video 20 thousand times.

    RoZXRoZX7 mesi fa
  • I bet Alex was watching this video

    Life of MikeLife of Mike7 mesi fa
  • Secret: good dental

    ScottScott7 mesi fa
  • Absolutly amazing videos

    Gyver 2413Gyver 24137 mesi fa
  • Hi, I just discovered your channel. I find these videos super helpful. I'm super excited to continue watching these videos. I especially like the videos that break down the positive traits of celebrities and how we can learn from them. Can you do one on Zac Efron?

    H&MH&M7 mesi fa
  • I wish I could make people laugh all the time

    Adnan AAdnan A7 mesi fa
  • This tip on priming changes the whole game for me. I always knew that I'm more loose and funny when I primed myself with funny videos but it all was subconsciously. Thank you!

    Sam FellerSam Feller7 mesi fa
  • I personally don’t feel complimented when a person laughing at every joke possible laughs at my joke. Maybe a little. I feel complimented when that guy with a sophisticated sense of humour laughs at my joke. You gotta have some popularity before laughing at everything

    Don BaalmanDon Baalman7 mesi fa
  • is this what alex warren watched before he cloned himself into david

    anusha kanusha k7 mesi fa
  • Can you do a Jason Mamoa breakdown.

  • Hi everyone. Just wondering if anyone has tried the charisma university. Is it really helpful ? I really wanted to try it but It’s abit over my budget as a student. Can anyone give me some advice ?

    Cera ChanCera Chan7 mesi fa
  • But for a matter of fact, I really get annoyed with Dobrik’s laughter. It’s really annoying.

    VAZZUVAZZU7 mesi fa
  • He laughs every 3 seconds, it gets annoying after a while.

    Sy ASy A7 mesi fa
  • Am I the only one who find this David guy super annoying? 🙄

    LifeOnTheGoLifeOnTheGo7 mesi fa
  • So if I say "I love you" to myself in a mirror I will get a job like Davids!? , can't relate, I'm not a first world citizen, but by understanding that I can maybe narrate it to others, but then that would be me doing your job dear ITworlds publisher.

    Kvnt LeviathanKvnt Leviathan7 mesi fa
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    makvartanmakvartan7 mesi fa
  • I really love your content, it will be great if having a chance to meet you in Australia. Any big fan of "Charisma on Command" also comes from Australia :D?

  • no offence, but all the points listed are exactly the reason i dont like david dobrik. he seems sleezy and disingenuous. he is uncomfortable to watch. also, i am someone who laughs very easily (too easily) and yet nothing dobrik says or does is even remotely funny to me....

    prettycute andexpensiveprettycute andexpensive7 mesi fa
  • At 1:46 does anyone know what video this clip was from?

    Sapphire DSapphire D7 mesi fa
  • The problem is that this lough are not genuene

    Apolo romeroApolo romero7 mesi fa
  • Maybe this is why I always made friends with everyone, by laughing at everything.

    Aaron StinerAaron Stiner7 mesi fa
  • I don't have charisma, but I think it's because it requires constantly parrying other people's consciousness when the simpler solution is to just not be around tiresome people. I'm sure I could captivate a room full of kids if I had to, but why would I? I dunno, I suppose some people just have that extra energy they have to get out and I don't.

    CerebralCerebral7 mesi fa
  • never heard of this "popular" guy - looks very unlikeable actually

    arenasificationarenasification7 mesi fa
    • ok, I didn't mean Keanu ^^ I meant that ITworldsr

      arenasificationarenasification7 mesi fa
  • he's like seth rogen always laughing

    Nick ChaseNick Chase7 mesi fa
  • Laughter yoga every morning helped me lot!

    Revathy bRevathy b7 mesi fa
  • White chicks 😂

    Revathy bRevathy b7 mesi fa
  • do pete davidson next

    thassa lot of sodiumthassa lot of sodium7 mesi fa
  • Conclusion : Just be yourself.

    Vineet JohnVineet John7 mesi fa
  • Nice content as usual. You hit it again Charisma on Demand!

    Persuasion PsychoPersuasion Psycho7 mesi fa
  • All the people in the comments thinking that they're special for not liking someone famous

    PaytonPayton8 mesi fa
  • Request for david Beckham charisma

    Amadeus RoyalAmadeus Royal8 mesi fa
  • Damn, everyone in the comment section must know David pretty well, based on the way they talk about him

    JoeyJoey8 mesi fa
  • Funny that family name of this guy "Dobrik" can be translated from Slavic languages as Good (kind) man.

    KingslayerKingslayer8 mesi fa
  • no wonder his ex left

    BrandAlphaBrandAlpha8 mesi fa
  • Aviv Buchler

    TrulycrazyTrulycrazy8 mesi fa
  • She’s really calm on situations

    TrulycrazyTrulycrazy8 mesi fa
  • Do one about Aviv Buchler

    TrulycrazyTrulycrazy8 mesi fa
  • But he is not that respected

    SydixSydix8 mesi fa
  • I dislike his laugh. It feels fake and he laughs all the f**** time. It's just too much. So no, he's not a good example to follow

    HajimeHajime8 mesi fa
  • You gotta do a breakdown on John Krasinski‘s charisma

    Eliza DoblingerEliza Doblinger8 mesi fa
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    D AD A8 mesi fa
  • Please do one on Elsa!

    Eliza BarlowEliza Barlow8 mesi fa
  • Please do someone nerdy and booky and serious! We nerds ain't gonna transform ourselves into extroverts amd we shouldn't. Please do someone of our type.

    sboulderickmamsboulderickmam8 mesi fa
  • Can you do a video on Timothee Chalamet?

    Sarah RobinsonSarah Robinson8 mesi fa
  • Just ask yourself how would i act in this situation if I wasn't afraid , and act like it .

    Mohamed AlhasyMohamed Alhasy8 mesi fa
  • Just have fun and be like water my friend .. say what you think ... exprece yourself .. other people wants to be loved too .. not just you . Relax man every thing is gonna be alright .

    Mohamed AlhasyMohamed Alhasy8 mesi fa
  • DO. A. VIDEO. ON. TIGER. KING. [loved this video btw]

    Z DZ D8 mesi fa
  • I just realized that I don't need this episode bc I am David dobrik

    im allergic to soapim allergic to soap8 mesi fa

    Bhavesh KoulBhavesh Koul8 mesi fa
  • hey, your vids are awesome. id like to ask if there was any other people like david dobrik that make fun easier? thanks

    Elif Naz ÖztürkElif Naz Öztürk8 mesi fa
  • show alex warren this video to become more of a bootlag david

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  • You should do a video on Neal Caffrey from White Collar. The way he uses his charisma is genius

    bookworm598bookworm5988 mesi fa
  • Whenever i get my friends to talk about theirselfs they keep going on and on but when i talk or even just share something about myself their mood changes and compeletly ignores what im saying. What is ths problem here😕

    COVID-19COVID-198 mesi fa
  • Do one on DC youngfly

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  • If anyone is serious about becoming charismatic start watching RSD Jeffy. Currently, he has the deepest understanding of charisma than anyone else on the world.

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    Shashank ShekharShashank Shekhar8 mesi fa
  • Do Lewis Capaldi next :)

    WingbarWingbar8 mesi fa
  • Please do a video.on johnny depp's personality. He's so calm and so funny and very low key at the same time. That never happens. Funny people always seem loud and enthusiastic. His friends always say he has the most ofbeat personality

    Saket ShankarSaket Shankar8 mesi fa
  • Being popular is overrated. The End

    DensetsuShounenDensetsuShounen8 mesi fa
  • Funny. Because this guy IS obviously such a Tryhard.

    Mat RoemerMat Roemer8 mesi fa
  • I watched and Laugh as it said in vid but after sometime I coughed due to continuous laugh and all my cousins went outside the room shouting

    Light YagamiLight Yagami8 mesi fa
  • Could you do a video about Brian David Gilbert?

    Sally BradshawSally Bradshaw8 mesi fa
  • If you can, I would love it if you can do a video on Gene Wilder. He was truly the master of the dramatic and comedic pauses, and I think people could implement them in their social interactions, IF they understand how to use them right

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  • Is this a joke to be popular....what? If you want to be popular don’t make or watch videos about how to be popular, that’s a good place to start. And don’t be a douche.

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  • Do a video on Ferris Bueller.

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